I'm very full of hate. (53)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-03 19:47 ID:UBYkJ2wZ This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

I HATE women. I never had a girlfriend and never will. The only times I got laid was when I paid a woman or promised her something. I'm never going to hold hands with a chick, kiss a girl intimately because we're in love, or any of the other shit that human beings were made to do. I guess that I'm suppose to be happy masturbating every fucking night. I'm a man with sexual urges and can't get with a female. I'm suppose to be alright with that? THERE IS A FUCKING CURSE ON MY LIFE. A CURSE THAT PREVENTS ANY FEMALE FROM LIKING ME. Oh I forgot, I do get interest from fat chicks and I'm not attracted to fat chicks.
I don't give a fuck anymore. I'm going to become the biggest asshole in the world. I tried the whole being considerate thing and it got me nowhere. If people can't handle my newfound harshness, then bring it on. BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK.
I get happy when I hear about some college slut getting murdered or injured in a hit and run. "oh she was a beautiful and talented girl, how could this happen." I don't know but I'm glad it did.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-03 21:59 ID:Heaven

>>2
That assertion, I'm afraid, is dead wrong.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-04 02:02 ID:FJgg7o6u

Wow no wonder you cant get any women, your a dick. Rather than thinking "I should work on myself and try to fix my own problems before" you just blame everything on women. Well guess what the biggest thing keeping you from getting a women is, YOU. I bet you don't like to here that but its the truth. I've spent most of my life blaming women for not liking me. and guess what? The very week I realized it and started working on my problems, things started getting better. I didn't feel like shit talking to women and I could flirt no problem. once you start liking yourself getting positive reactions from women is no problem. The only reason I don't have a GF is because the selection were I am is piss poor (I don't want women 10 years older than me or still in high school). Long story short Suck it up, stop bitching and blaming other people for your problems, and start living your god damn life.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-04 23:21 ID:rNZpKbhl

Keep it up. You're doing a great job.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-05 03:20 ID:Heaven

>>4
Most women, even the superficial ones, aren't all that attracted to what can at best be described as a creep and at worst a psychotic.

You'd do better feigning confidence with a slight edge of arrogance than being motherfucking crazy.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-05 03:28 ID:Heaven

>>7

>Most women

That is unless you are looking to wake up to a knifes edge on your penis or something.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-05 12:47 ID:Heaven

>>7
You'd be surprised. Why do you think there are so many abusive relationships?

But that wasn't my point, my point was that by not caring about relationships, one is able to recenter on oneself, and that way start liking oneself better (even if not in the right way). From that comes confidence and from confidence, attraction.

That said, OP could end up abusing his partner in relationships for all I know.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-06 05:46 ID:y/sx1Gw7

>>9
I don't care about relationships right now, I certainly don't hate women or even dislike them. I don't think that, if this is his way of re-centering, that it is healthy in any way. In fact it seems to be the kind of thinking that leads to a downward spiral.

OP is seemingly obsessed with women, even if he tries to say the opposite, and acts out his obsession in a strikingly negative and self-destructive way and I doubt he is happy or will be in the future without changing his attitude for the better.

In what world does not caring about relationships=hating women? hate is a pretty powerful way to show you care about something.

Counselling OP, you ought to be posting this in personal.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-06 23:05 ID:kxioA4gg

I don't know what your bitching about, OP, as men are mentally and emotionally incapable of "love". Well, they are, kind of, but it's more akin to what a 3 year old feels than true, honest love like what women feel.

Mens version of "love" is really mostly lust, a dash of greed, and a subconscious biological desire to mate and produce offspring. Why do you think men only fall in love with beautiful women?

Furthermore, OP, your desire you "hold hands with a chick" isn't really a desire motivated by love, but rather a primitive bonding measure to ensure that your mate will stay with you until you have gotten her pregnant, much as a baby likes to cuddle with their mother in order to insure they their mother won't abandon them. It will fade with time.

It always amuses me when men think they have emotions and can feel things like love.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-07 02:20 ID:Heaven

>>11

I must congratulate you on an A+ troll.
I'm so angry at the internet right now, I might not be able to get any sleep tonight without heavy sedation.
It's taking all my willpower to not dash out a twelve-hundred character long rebuttal to every single point.
Truly, you are the Jesus Christ of Trolling.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-14 16:21 ID:sI4tbGEC

>>12
Not really. It takes a lot more than some shitty post with only 13 comments on it to be A+

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-11-15 01:32 ID:Jx0J7v1C

Dude chill.

I hate people more than you will ever be capable, but even I think you're overexaggerating.

15 Name: rosalie : 2010-01-12 13:26 ID:wICe/+22

women are shit.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-14 04:53 ID:65CSJ4dZ

If you honestly didn't give a fuck, you wouldn't broadcast it so boldly. I pretty much hate the entire fucking universe, but that doesn't stop me from getting my rocks off and cutting loose once in a while.

Stop watching so much fucking TV, and learn to drink a little beer or pop a chill pill or two and take it fucking easy. You crave intimacy, yet reject those who show you favor. That's a double standard. Don't bitch and moan about people not liking you based on looks when you don't like other people based on looks.

If you come across as being obtuse, nobody will like you. Dude, intimacy and all that holding hands shit, when it actually means something, takes time and getting to know people.

Try making friends with people first and don't try to force or smother anyone. I have plenty of reason to hate the world at large, but have found after I pop some pills or have an adult beverage or two...I'm pretty sociable.

Most of your problem, however, is a lack of maturity.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-14 11:50 ID:y4Cwqe3K

>>11
I don't agree that emotional instability is one of the hallmarks of "true love", if that's what you're getting at.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-14 13:35 ID:10VSCzuf

>>1

>>Oh I forgot, I do get interest from fat chicks and I'm not attracted to fat chicks.

I assume you consider yourself "good looking" if you dare to say something like that.

Now, consider this. If you don't like "fat chicks" then why should other girls like you, an egoistical man who can only think of them as a source to satisfy your sexual urges?

That's not love, you're just horny. Wake up and change your attitude or leave!

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-15 06:26 ID:9iUqYaGI

OP, I have the same problem. The only time i've gotten laid was when my dad paid for it on my 21st birthday. I'm not going to beat around the bush: i'm a loser and i'm pretty aware of it. At one point in my life I hated people. Like, really, truly, and honestly HATED people. I thought all women were worthless whores who are only attracted to white jackasses, hot asian boys, and the black rapper that had his jeans hanging off of his butt. I fucking hated women everywhere. All the women I was around talked about such worthless things, and wanted worthless things. But I find that it's not that they are the problem, it's the fact that I can't get over that I can't be their ideal. That I wasn't born to be superman. That i'm not the beautiful guy in magazines, that I'm not ultra-talented, or incredibly intelligent. I can't be that person, because I am who I am. And surely, there is someone out there who can accept that and accept me as I am.

Op, the one thing that honest-to-god bothers me these days is that there is an ideal of perfection forced down the throats of people so badly that life becomes one big delusion. Know who you are, and accept it. Accept your life. If others can't accept you for what you are, then you find new people. If you can't find a girlfriend, search more. Don't be AFRAID, op. And don't harbor grudges or don't feel like everything is unfair. Be who you are. If you don't like it, change it. If it is something you cannot change, then do not fear it.

I have yet to have any girlfriend, and any sort of relationship. But, day by day, I'm going to try and open myself up so that one day, I might, just might be able to find someone worthwhile and be ready for them. I'll read more. I'll watch more movies. I'll learn more, and work harder. And you should too.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-16 09:11 ID:rRvmsb1E

>>19 "But I find that it's not that they are the problem, it's the fact that I can't get over that I can't be their ideal. That I wasn't born to be superman. That i'm not the beautiful guy in magazines, that I'm not ultra-talented, or incredibly intelligent. I can't be that person, because I am who I am. And surely, there is someone out there who can accept that and accept me as I am."

that was well stated.

guys have to remember that the same is true of girls. females are punished and treated like garbage and expected to do all kinds of unhealthy things to their bodies to try to fit in some ideal mold. girls who do not fit this ideal- specific age range/body type/size & shape limits- are treated as worthless. less than human.

often on these threads the "boohoo nobody wants me" coming from these guys is more truthfully "boohoo nobody who fits my limited ideal of what is acceptable to find attractive (regardless of how "ideal" i myself am) wants me!"

all that being said- OP, maybe you were having a really, really shitty day when you wrote that, which s fine because everyone needs to vent now and then... but if that is really how you feel all the time, you should probably get some help before you hurt yourself or others.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-01-18 08:21 ID:9iUqYaGI

>>20
you know, it's funny...I got into a rather interesting discussion with my sister about this same sort of thing, and it's true about the distinction between what we think we want and what we actually need in life. If life was one big cesspool of Darwinism, let me tell ya, we'd all be fucked something fierce. It feels like humanity has evolved to the point were instead of being so focused on bare bones survival and instinct, we can be free to explore and discover facets of ourselves like never before. I think that the ideal projected in the media these days is more or less an afterthought of a collective society. People are all different, everywhere. We all share some common interests, but otherwise, it's open season man. We don't have to be restricted by archaic thoughts of physical prowess or mental acuity, but instead focus on individual thought.

It's weird getting out in the world and discovering that all the distinct "rules" we learn about society as told at school and on TV is overly-pretentious, self-actualized bullshit told by people who never discovered who they are themselves. That people function on an entirely different level than what they appear to be. And that is so damn great.

22 Name: Dead Man : 2010-07-15 03:17 ID:NDaZ3+tI

I hate women with every inch of my body. I hate everyone but women seem to release this inner rage inside of me that is like an anxiety but with overpowering anger. I've popped blood vessels and tore the cushion off of an office chair while sitting next to bickering women. I feel absolutely trapped in a dark place when they're around me and swear I smell blood. It's even worse when they're near me and ask whats wrong when my face turns blood red trying to resist throwing them through a wall. They're the most disgustingly self centered egomaniacal things on this planet. Their undeserved pride, their fake tans, bleached hair, their overall nothingness. Our ancestors were geniuses and they kept women on the bottom where they should have stayed now look how slow we've advanced because of them, It's absolutely disgusting how they speak like they matter. They're nothing but dogs living off of the scraps of men which explains how the weaker gender is usually prostituting in droves like the animals that they are. I see these things outside on the corner of my neighborhood and hope that a car skids out sending them to hell in one fell swoop.

They're poison that do nothing but impede men from achieving greatness, foul machines meant to bear the burden of childbirth because of their wickedness. Truly awful that the reason they live longer than men is because terrible shit always last forever. They aren't even human beings

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-17 06:03 ID:Kig1BEN1

at least fat chicks want you op. ive only ever paid women. if any woman has ever wanted you, remember, theres tons of guys out there who have it worse.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-17 06:05 ID:Kig1BEN1

oh fuck me i replied to a thread that was necro'd. ah well, not like anything interesting gets posted on this board.

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-23 05:49 ID:kbV5k5iA

ITT: misogyny (and I bet half of you dont even know what that means)

26 Name: Chris : 2010-07-24 02:45 ID:EswuaCST

>>25
Misogyny is the hate of women, or females in general...it's kinda lame how there are people in the world like that :S

27 Name: Chris : 2010-07-24 02:50 ID:EswuaCST

>>22
You are such a prick, you are the true example of someone who doesn't thank the one who gave you birth, and the one who has nurtured you, those with divorced parents understand me, as i am also a teenager with divorced parents, it's good that they work because that way we can have things we like, and it's my dad...well he hasn't helped us a bit, he's with another woman now, and forgot about us hehe, but i learned from the mistakes of my mom, and i hope i can break the vicious divorce circle my family is afflicted with...and to have a better future, i thank her for having teached me, and helping me become the person i'm now...still a teenager, but at least i haven't fell into drugs, cigarrettes, or alcohol, as most of the children with divorced parents do, and i said most, not all

28 Name: Chris : 2010-07-24 03:12 ID:EswuaCST

heh, it seems people hate themselves because they don't get find the ideal girl and all that, well, if you were confident about yourself you wouldn't feel this way, but as >>20 said, maybe you had a shitty day and had to vent...but if it something more serious, you should look for help before something bad happens in your life that you will later regret...hehe i don't even know why i'm saying these since i'm just a tennage person who has experienced love like a drug...once and i wanted more...but too bad i can't have it...so i will try and get a girl anytime soon :D anyways good luck :D it always help to be a social person

29 Name: t cyrus : 2010-07-27 18:45 ID:PCxb5zr2

Women flock to me. Ever since I lost my virginity at age 13, my life has been one nonstop roller coaster. And by that I mean up and down on that pussy. All you need is to figure out how to look at women. Make them melt with your eyes. Do it.

30 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-07-29 11:14 ID:Heaven

>>29
What about people with "pedophile eyes"?

31 Name: cornshit : 2010-08-04 18:57 ID:zyk7oL0t

then pop them cherry pussys til their soaked in blood

32 Name: Secret Admirer : 2010-08-06 14:18 ID:hyr4O2YM

>>11

You would make a fine addition to Reddit or Digg...the websites for troll losers.

33 Name: L : 2012-01-13 07:01 ID:IOgxvxgI

Women are simply liars and psychological manipulators. If you truly wish to make them see the "light" I would suggest giving them a taste of their own medicine. An eye for an eye. Do you understand a little better now? If you don't share a similar experience, you can never truly understand each other. Only through personal suffering can they truly achieve spiritual growth and understanding, therefore you must become the cause for this desired effect.

34 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-13 07:17 ID:fWd0B9Gu

>>33

It makes me sad to see so many people who will never know Love in one thread. Damn.

35 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-13 07:23 ID:0MRXPPTU

Women are okay, I have no problem with women. But love is a piece of shit. It is ridiculous. I've been in love before, but it was always meaningless and stupid and I always came out of it feeling foolish. And I've been on the giving end of that feeling as well at least once. I'm not capable of feeling love or giving love anymore, and all the better for it.

I guess I might have a relationship or a marriage one day, but it will have to be a marriage based on common interest. A practical marriage, not the kind of bullshit that results in 50% divorce rates.

36 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-13 11:14 ID:JElIAp0m

>A practical marriage, not the kind of bullshit that results in 50% divorce rates.

You are still quite naive. If you want to avoid divorce, don't marry. It's the only fail-proof solution.

When will people realize that marriages which end with a divorce are not necessarily a failure? All lives end with death, but are all lives failures?

People need to loosen up a bit. Only with real understanding and embracing of the impermanence of life can one really enjoy it to the fullest.

37 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-01-13 19:24 ID:0MRXPPTU

>>36 I mean that it will increase the chance of not getting divorced. My point is just that what a lot of people think of as love is a shitty reason to get married. Or maybe that what a lot of people think of as love really isn't.

I can't see it happening for me either way. I'm spiteful and broken and I can't love anybody.

38 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-02-10 01:56 ID:vbO2CJNE

>>35 >>35 >>35 >>35
Women are okay, I have no problem with women. But love is a piece of shit. It is ridiculous.

THIS.

Hard work, despite being a fucking ungifted idiot, which ultimately results in some sliver of success is the only drop of happiness I'll ever taste in this world.

Exercise, Study, Build.

I want to cut my balls of and mutilate the part of my brain responsible for romantic attraction.

39 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-02-10 19:37 ID:6druimAH

>>38 It gets better

40 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-06-11 17:45 ID:geOWDypf

Read "Apollo's Song" (a manga by Ozuma Tezuka). Tell me not one time you were abused, ignored, or something else bad happened to you with women...then we'll consider your feelings.

41 Name: lol : 2012-08-02 20:38 ID:ysOA7RlL

lol

42 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-08-04 06:10 ID:J1wh1vjA

>>34
The only people who say this kind of thing are those for whom love has not been a serious problem. If you have a good relationship and normal, healthy ideas and thoughts about romance, good for you. I don't, and I don't see how I ever will. So fuck off with your "so sad". It's sad, sure, but you don't know anything about it.

43 Name: 4 : 2012-08-07 23:22 ID:VjnyVfs7

I hate a lot of shit and a lot of people.

44 Name: fuck em and bag em : 2012-10-09 15:04 ID:1N50HMaJ

i hope your deside to go kill a woman your self, i hate em to hate the hole world, and i dont care if i got a problem, i can feel that im building up to my own first rape/murder, and i get happy feelings from that, i guss some ppl werent ment for willing love, and whos to say that its wrong. good luck and hope you dont get cought

45 Name: Secret Admirer : 2012-10-09 22:20 ID:znV902E+

>>44
I'LL LOOK OUT FOR YOU ON THE NEWS

46 Name: fartman : 2013-05-09 16:00 ID:uOAGPmFK

>>1
ok. keep wanking forever. who cares...?

47 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-09-22 22:55 ID:sp1TXo0C

I agree, OP. All women are whores/sluts and aren't good for anything besides being cum buckets.

48 Name: Secret Admirer : 2014-10-06 16:32 ID:+sXdZyrX

Calm down

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52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2015-12-01 14:59 ID:sp1TXo0C

Oh, wow. This is still around.

53 Name: Secret Admirer : 2015-12-16 00:09 ID:xpmMiFUH

>>52
Bitterness doesn't age.

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