What am I supposed to say when a girl asks if she can bring her friends to a get together? It is not explicitly a date so she is not in the wrong, but I am selfish and want the time alone with her, yet also do not wish to seem rude by saying no. Is there any way to win this or will I have to concede?

There is a way to win. Impress her friends and you will impress her.

If you want alone time with her, then why don't you just ask her out?

>>2 I like this way.

>>1 Respond enthusiastic. She is probably testing you if she knows you like her. You're probably going to see them more often if your serious. Maybe she just wants to find out if you can get along or will show up only by herself.

Just don't buy any of them anything if it costs more than 1-2 drinks. No need to be greedy, but no need to be stupid and be their cash cow either.