Cannot feel love for more than a few weeks (8)

1 Name: Dreaddd : 2021-12-13 01:26 ID:TSCpeDzu

I cannot feel love for one of my girlfriends more than a few weeks. I think all my life I struggled with the anxiety of 'not feeling things' . Pretty much whenever I ever made a gf the anxiety of 'not feeling' was starting and I couldn't feel a thing. The same thing happens to hobbies and things I like.

Ever happened to you ?

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-13 03:36 ID:cQfzCrii

Are you sure you ever felt love in the first place? Probably it was just lust or a temporary obsession. I obsess a lot over things, it can be confused for love regarding persons.

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-13 06:52 ID:Heaven

That's how love works. Try to make kids in this two weeks period. If you don't want to pour as much seed in her as possible, this isn't really love.

Actually it's more like a few months.

I think it's normal to like more than one woman. The "love is a holy lifetime union between a man and a woman" is pandering to women, men always want more. The real issue is money.

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-13 21:23 ID:Heaven

The irony in your post is that a lot of guys constantly whine online that they're faithful great guys, but that all women are whores and basically just unfaithful holes...
Men do cheat more than women though so you do have a point in that regard.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-14 17:03 ID:Heaven

Every time I hear those whines I'm thinking "You've been fucking her for a few months/years, why she isn't pregnant yet? She can't just leave you that easily if you dicked her enough. She will milk you for money for the rest of your life instead." They complain about a girl leaving them, but honestly they probably dodged the bullet there, her just walking away is one of the best things that can happen. I imagine it can be quite disheartening though.

Condoms were a mistake.

Also I will say that females cheat about as much as males, even if I have no idea. How the hell do one even check that.

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-14 19:07 ID:Heaven

Going through many independent reports, statistics say that men are more likely to cheat by a pretty big margin, but the women who do cheat do so more often with less partners.

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-19 07:28 ID:ulHLX411

I can't feel love at all.

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