>>253 As far as TS's sex life goes, Harry Styles and others have called her "asexual" in the past, plus some comments about her lack of interest in sex and prudishness from unnamed "sources." It's possible she's just not really into sex, waits a long time before having sex with a new boyfriend, or is really scheduled about it - first Tuesday of every month plus an extra on your birthday! So if they were having sex and it was terrible, she might not know or might not care.
Now Tom on the other hand, he's always struck me as someone with a significant sexual appetite. He'd know if it was bad, and I don't think he'd be happy about it.