>>28 Well I think you've had experience with women if you've been in relationships before :P Try remembering how you got together in those relationships to help you with this little problem.
I've heard that a person's true character is the most attractive thing, but I could be wrong about that as it doesn't always work. It's worked relatively okay for me in that I get less of those "uncomfortable silences" XD but that's as far as it's taken me so far.
>>29 lol I know my dad imported some really good tea from China, but that's it :P but I wasn't a flamer like you :P I actually try and continue to just give bits of support. I don't think it is possible for me to do much here, especially since I'm sporadically inactive.