I've been thinking thanks to all of youse, especially 4. Lemme set something else straight. I'm no average american wapanese. I'm a Spaniard living in America. I'm also a fan of anime, but nowhere near the level of a wapanese. My interest in Japan is the same as my interest in my home country of Spain as well as other countries I'm interested in, like Italy and Russia.
I think because I wasn't able to express my entire position correctly, I might have come across as shallow. I'm not. My worries about the HS girl isn't that she's fat, it's that she's technically illegal. I'm a college kid, she's not even 18. I don't expect losing weight to get me chicks. I'm doing that for myself. We've all read the reports about how fatties like myself are dying young. I don't want that, I've got a future ahead of me. I think I'm going to wait it out with this high schooler and learn about her more, see if she's as smart as people are telling me she is. If she's got a nice brain on her as well as a decent personality, then fuck the looks.
If things don't work out, I can always resort to enjoying solitude.
Thanks for the help, folks. More input would be loved.