>>1
Friend, I know what you're dealing with.

All my life, I've been brought up to be a straight, God-fearing boy, but now, I find myself in the same situation as you... I'm bi.

I haven't told anyone yet... Perhaps that's sometimes the best way to go about things. Rather than hurting people, (My parents, your wife) sometimes its better if you sort things out first, and decide where you really stand. More than anything, you don't want to do something you'll regret down the road. Just think about it for a while... And as cliché as this may sound, listen to your heart. Weigh your options, then go for it.

I'm rooting for you. :)