Ok here goes:

I have a class with a girl who has been very friendly in the last few months. Last week she was accused of stealing 30 dollars, the accuser notified the school office and the police. I had known the accuser for several years and know that this is not the first time she has over reacted to losing something and notified authorities on trumped up theories. In short I helped the very scared girl talk to office authorities as she insisted I help. I'm a nice guy and after calming her down agreed to help. The issue was resolved over the weekend and the girl is OK, however yesterday she gave me her mobile number saying
"Thats so you can call me, you know 5 months from now. Or tonight."

After much deliberation I called her and was greeted by her voicemail.

Its now Tuesday and a few things are running through my mind:

• This girl is a bit of a bitch, she gossips way too much
• She doesn't take our class seriously, or anything else for that matter
• My friend says that she has done the same thing to other guys, including him
• Regardless of this I'm still confused about exactly what she wants

Any comments 4-ch?

>>1-11, u all boneheads. sry, its true!

>>1, this sounds like an invitation of a girl. Don't you think so? What's the harm in checking out what she wants?

She's not lady Perfect, but then again, are you mr. Great?

FO advice is to give her another call and propose a lunch, or coffee. You get some time with each other, and u will know better how u feel about her after.

say goodbye now. bye!

Afterthought.. so she gossips. If you play it well, then many girls will know that you 1) are in the market. 2) listen to an invitation from a girl, which leads to --> 3) other girls will be more comfortable giving you hints that they'd like to take a chance with you.

really bye bye now!

Hit it and quit it.

There is no better advice when discussing a girl you don't like that is not a fat ugly cow.

I think you should find out the truth before anything else. This may require some work but gather information and then ask yourself this:

Does she have any friends?
If so, what kind of friends are they?
-Consider, friends get along most of the time because they are of either simialr interest or personality.

Are the stories of her leading people on true?
If so what kind of boyfriends did she target?
Are they similar to you?
-Consider, if they are similar to you, you may be in her targeting profile.

How does she act around you?
Does it seem fake, too good to be true?
Does she force herself to talk to you, or go closer to you unconsciously?

Also consider:
Blogs - Information that is usually posted without regaurd for privacy.
Voicemail greeting - Fake( professional/music/computer generated ) or real( actual message )

After you have this information, contemplate risks versus benefits.

>>1 the fact that you made this thread should be answer enough

>>1 it seems clear that you don't think she is being straight up with you, but you're wondering if you can get some benefit out of the situation. And you are a little worried about letting the opportunity slip by.

A few things.

1. you can't always tell by past behaviour. I and a few of my friends were screwed over by a bitch of a girl. And then she settled down with one of my other friends... she was a bitch to each of us, but she is really nice to him. We still hate her, but their relationship works.
2. if you do talk to this girl, you'll get some experience at getting to know someone. The price may be your friends keeping away for a while or making snide comments.

regarding point three: do you mean that she got the help of other people in cases where she was accused of stealing/lying?

Well, what happened?