Ok here goes:
I have a class with a girl who has been very friendly in the last few months. Last week she was accused of stealing 30 dollars, the accuser notified the school office and the police. I had known the accuser for several years and know that this is not the first time she has over reacted to losing something and notified authorities on trumped up theories. In short I helped the very scared girl talk to office authorities as she insisted I help. I'm a nice guy and after calming her down agreed to help. The issue was resolved over the weekend and the girl is OK, however yesterday she gave me her mobile number saying
"Thats so you can call me, you know 5 months from now. Or tonight."
After much deliberation I called her and was greeted by her voicemail.
Its now Tuesday and a few things are running through my mind:
Any comments 4-ch?
Leave her alone and find somebody better.
Uh, yeah... >>2's advice was obvious. Did you really need to ask 4-ch?
Uh, yeah... >>2's advice was obvious. Did you really need to ask 4-ch?
Is it the same girl you describe in the first part and the second part of the story? Am I the only one to see some inconsistency here? First she's portrayed as a victim, scared and unable to defend herself, needing the assistance of a strong man. Later, the girl is described as a "gossiping bitch", hard boiled, care less heartbreaker type?
hm, 4chan think you should go for it, and get the most out of the situation
gonna get used and destroyed fatal KO style. don't listen to your dick on this one.
>>5 It is the same girl who was accused and yes is somewhat of a bitch from time to time. But to me, she is very nice and latched on to me for help.
This is a conflict of my pen0r versus my standards for human behavior. I want to pursue this girl who is obviously friendly towards me, though she is not exactly friendly to other people behind her back.
>>7
Maybe she's not even friendly to you behind your back? (Or maybe you're her only true friend, lol.)
Anyway, if it's already bugging you and the two of you aren't even together yet, it'll probably just bug you more if you were.
If I was in your position, I would either just ignore her, or try to talk it out. Probably the former, as the latter would be too troublesome.
She is probably friendly because she wants to take advantage of your kindness for her own personal gains. She seems like the type that would go after the asshole guy and would be proud of it. She is daddy's little girl and no one really opposes her will and is rarely told no. Am I close? You are better off just staying away.
BUt...if you want to have fun, start treating her like a bitch. Keep her in her place don't give up any power to her. You will have to constantly assert your dominance over her. I hypothesize that she will go crazy for you because you would be the first guy to ever treat her like that.