hello,4ch-ians, i started this thread for people to talk about their first crush, and maybe if we give each other advice, we can make their relationship work! (^^)
Well, If you wanna know about my first crush, I'll tell you. I think I was around 10-12 when I first saw this girl in Church, Long gorgeous hair, Beautiful face, nice legs(Honestly, I thinks it's because of those legs that I find girls in stockings/pantyhose hotter than most). Sadly, back then, I had no backbone, and all I could do was look from afar. I'd like to think that if I was ever to meet her again, I'd atleast be able to say hi. But ah well. Chances are, she may not be the type of girl I wanna date anyway.
Hah , you wanna hear mine? I kinda kept this one for my self, feel like I'm a weak peace of shit for spitting it all out in an anonymous board like this.
The neighbor who was a relative had two girls around my age. We grew up together, getting along pretty well, we played games and stuff and went to each other's house whenever possible, one was two years older, other two years younger, I liked the younger one better, she had short hair, really long eyelashes, pointy chin and a really cute smile. So I was 8 or 9 when they moved away to another part of the town and I couldn't play with them every day anymore, but we saw each other from time to time when visiting the relatives. So, yeah, by the time I was 11-12 I was beginning to develop a crush, you know, like getting clumsy and messing up every time we saw each other. At the time I had no idea what a girlfriend, or relation ships or sex is about, I was completely clueless.
Some time later I went to their house with the rest of the family, for some reason I messed around for a little while in the front lawn, and then went inside. I went in, from the second floor she calls me with a cheerful voice: <my name>, Hi! . I look up and see her up there near the stairs, looking at me with a weird smile, top half naked with wet hair (or maybe gelled her), and her best friend standing beside her. I answer hello and for some reason I didn't know at the time, I looked away. Her best friend whispers in her ear, and I hear her say something along the lines: "how pathetic" in return. Then both laugh and go back. Confused, I leave to join my parents.
There is more, i meet them later and shit happens again and stuff, but its too much writing.
>>3 Knowing me I would have done the same, I was always a shy guy around that age, but apart of me thinks I would have went up the stairs and asked if she needed any help drying off or getting dressed. My first crush I was seven, I met this girl at school and I inviter her over one day after school to play at my house, we were in my room and I happened to had played Monopoly the night before with my sisters and the game was still out and I came up with the idea that I would buy this girl and she would be my gf so we agreed, I bought her then she bought me. She asked me now that I owned her what was I gonna do and I said "I think I'm gonna kiss you" and then I said "what about you?" and she said "I think im gonna kiss you too." The kiss was beautiful and it lasted atleast ten seconds and we both pulled away slowly and looked at each other and smiled, 2 days later her mom said they were moving and I never saw her again.
My first crush was the first person that went out with in grade 7. Yeah it was mutual except we couldn't do much because her parent didn't allowed dating. But still it was good... We are still good friends now. (Yeah we broke up after a yr or something.)
>>4
For half a second I believed this was actually finishing a la Bel-Air. Gee.
I had my first crush in Kindergarten. She was this sporty girl who I always felt the presence of and would always stare at her from across the room but avoid all contact with her unless she talked to me.
Fast forward to 15 years later and now we're friends, she's a hot lesbian, and I still react similarly to girls I have a crush on.
My first crush was when I was 11. He was blue eyed, blond, smart, kind, sporty, popular and basically well liked by everyone. He was different to any other guy in my year in that he was courteous to everyone. I on the other hand was the small, quiet and nerdy asian girl. He was basically out of my league to say the least. During our dancing lessons, he used to tell me about how his mother always said I looked like a porcelain doll. (I have an amazing effect on mothers, which is still the case years later.) Anyway, I didn't quite know how to take the compliment and was kind of speechless, but a bit warm inside. To cut a long story short, I fell for him pretty hard, only to find that he liked some other blond, blue-eyed girl who had a horrible personality.
>>8 Aw. Minus the ending, that was a cute story.
My first real crush happened in the seventh grade. I fell hard for an artsy type in eighth grade, who always wore striped thigh-high stockings (seriously). I remember a conversation on the phone where she told me that the sexiest panty color was red (on her at least). It never went anywhere because I was too chicken at the time. I called her sn**kp**k, because she let me look up her skirt in class. I told everyone and she cried, her friend called me an asshole. I remember going to a party years later and seeing her jump happily into her boyfriends arms to kiss him because he was so tall. It broke my heart. I still have her picture (that she gave to my best friend at the time who inturn gave to me).
Ah, mine was in 1st grade. I was the typical cute little schoolgirl that you would see in Japan-- Only this whole story happened in Mexico. I was a little otaku. Watching card captor Sakura with my best friends on Saturday, then going to the supermarket to literally sit on top of the arcade machines to play Vampire Saviour. Anyways, at the time my self esteem was horribly low. I felt like I was the ugly different girl in my class since all the other girls were brown-skinned, beautiful straight black hair and brown eyes, just like Mexican girls are supposed to be, but I was a pale girl, olive green eyes, and light brown curly hair tied in a ponytail. It got to the point where I'd sit during lunchtime, crying and sobbing all over my uniform while trying to eat the sandwich my mom had made me, and one boy, named Alex, with this movie-star smile would sometimes sit next to me, asking what was wrong.
I'd just shake my head and say it was nothing. And he'd smile, and would tell me that whatever it was, that I should stop crying.
It seemed another girl had the same problem. We felt horrible, and one day, a teacher decided to make a speech about what we were going through. And that day, Alex stood up, and said
"I dont see why they're sad. They're both beautiful."
Of course, as a 1st grader, he didn't mean it, but from that day on, I felt way better about myself. I daydreamed about him.. It was amazing. :3
But then the last day of school of 2nd grade, just when I was going to move to the United States, I wanted to tell him my feelings..
But he was already gone. I never saw him after that. D: >
>>11 Oh god, such innocence! (SOB!};_;
I like how Sakura speaks like in the spanish version of Card Captors. I watched it too a loooong time ago (and probably in the same channel as you did (hey paisana!!Canal 5!!!). Too bad that channel doesn't feature any good animes anymore -- Back then, I still pondered about the yuri inside that series ..
I don't remember having a real, powerful, first crush; mostly because they were spontaneous and rather impossible. And, at the same time, I used to have this no-love mind during my puberty. I would think that love was just a distractor and a pain causer. Well, it is in fact, but I just never knew what it really was, its essence and form. Until I was 15 years old my real REAL crush started. When it was all over, I was "Oh god, I just can't believe I did that". I ended up dumping her. She got soo depressed afterwards. I was also sad, but never understood all her suffering.
We were what you would call a couple, but we were fighting so much. She was desperate for me to ask her to be my gf. But I refused everytime, December, Feb-14, etc. I loved her, but just hated the girl/boyfriend idea back then. I used to think that the novio/novia(bf/gf) thing in mexican society was just rubbish, as if society was the one who enabled it and/or rejected it, and that having a girl/boyfriend was just like a disposable item.
As time went along, I was growing tired of having the absolute responsiblity of asking her to become my girlfriend (goddamn stereotypes). She would just seduce me, but never make a move. The school year ended. I didn't speak to her the whole summer vacation. And when I saw her once again, I broke her heart into dust. More details of my first crush at: http://meta-w.blogspot.com/2007/02/4-chnet-post-1_02.html
This thread is too cute
ah, i remember my first crush so well. i believe it was all through 1-3rd grade that i had a crush on her xD yea, long time for a little kid to hold a crush 'eh?
well yea, my best friend also had a crush on her, so we'd always be talking about her and how wonderful she was. Hell, i remember i'd go over to his house, pretend a stuffed animal was her, as a princes and we were her protecters throwing pillow's at eachother pretending that we were fight monster's and protecting her! (haha, to much Power Ranger's i think)
And then i remember it so clearly, it was during PE, we were outside in line, me and my friend were talking about her, one of her friends then was like "OOOOH! (name here) likes (name here)!!!!" and then, not knowing what i was doing i shouted "I DONT LIKE (name) I LOVE (name)!!!!" didnt take long for that to spread through the rest of the school xD
But then, 4th grade, she moved back to mexico, and my best friend moved to florida, leaving me on the west coast. still keep in touch with both =]
Back, long before I became as bitter, cynical and misanthropic as I am today, I was a high school student. I was in Advanced Placement Biology and sat near a girl that I had apparently had a chemistry class before with, as well as apparently gone to middle school with. It wasn't so much the way she looked, which was average, so much as her personality. Her personality was down to earth, but also funny and beautiful. It's hard to describe. After talking with her a lot, I could feel my heart jump every time I heard her name or saw her. But I never could find a way to tell her how I felt. I don't know, I always figured she'd reject me anyways; I figured it would be best to live in that middle area where you don't know, and you can always pretend there's a possibility they feel the same way, even if deep down you know they don't.
I don't know what happened, but somewhere along the way she began to change. Her personality, the thing that I loved about her the most, simply died at some point. The kindness and compassion, the intelligence...it all began to fade. She began wearing heavier makeup and became shallow, to fit in with the other girls...I don't know if she hid her personality to fit in, or if she killed it altogether. In any case, as was fitting of her new identity, she wouldn't even acknowledge my existence, As far as I know, she's off in UCSD I think, but as far as I know, my first crush is dead.
My first crush was on my older brother's best friend. I don't know why I was taken with him, as he was a very unattractive and cold person. After a couple of years he had told me that he liked me, but months after that he knocked up some fat hag, had two kids with her, then married her.
I liked him for a few years after that but now I am indifferent and I feel nothing for him. When he used to come around the house I used to be so excited to see him, but now I don't even bother to greet him. Maybe I am a little bitter and I admit that I smile knowing that he is unhappy with his relationship.