IT's pretty pathetic to retort when you are the one trying to get advice. The sound advice is that you, a 21 year old dating a 12 year old, is morally wrong, distasteful and summing it up: you are just plain desperate.

Read your first post all over again... and tell me that you aren't just desperate to be in a relationship... any relationship that happens to come your way. That, my friend... is pathetic... for someone your age to sink that low, you should know better. If you still don't know which path to choose after reading all these messages, you need to seek professional help because your thought path is definitely beyond unhealthy.

It doesn't matter how she feels about having a relationship with you. It's just not going to happen. You should have more restraint than being stupid with your reasoning.

Like >>12 said, go register on a dating service and don't prey on the underaged girls.