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Ooo...key...this thread is spiralling outta control.

My best advice for you is this: Before your brother made his feelings known, did you have any sexual urges or longing toward him? How much have you thought about this situation since you found out? Has your interest increased after the realization that you now know there is a guy who genuinely loves you, in one for or another, who wants to date you? Did you seek sexual release (masturbation and orgasm to the C- folks) while fantasizing about your brother in the last week? What of during the week BEFORE your brother confronted you? Answer those questions and you should be able to see what you should do as well as the truth behind "your emotions vs your hormones".