This is for all the women out there on this board. Hopefully some normal women.
I am probably the most normal any anime/internet junkie is ever going to get. Good physique, motivated in life, ambitious, socially well-spoken and connected. On average (during the school semester) I get approached by one or two women a week. A different girl is over my house every day of the week, and I choose which ones I want to have sex with.
They know this, they know me. They know it's not a relationship. They even know each other. I'm unfortunately not graceful enough to have threesomes except on special occasions. I also have to move the mountains while writing a fourteen page report on windex in order to have one.
Now... I'll reveal another part of me I haven't really told anyone. I know girls, talk to them pretty deeply and I really love it. I like more than the sex, I just like being with someone. Honestly speaking, regardless of all the women I know, I've never dated, never had a girlfriend, a relationship, and I'm still too scared to approach any girl individually. I just let myself get approached.
As it stands, I'm actually setting myself up for that.
I'm not getting any younger. Any one of the girls I'm currently with would love to be my exclusive girlfriend. The thing is, I really don't like any of the girls I'm with. I mean, they're fun, and exciting. But they really don't know the first thing about me. I'm looking for someone who spends more time ONline than someone to go skiing with.
So my question is, what is the most romantic way to say "I want to stop having sex with you, I'm still heterosexual, but I've got to move on with my life and you do too... So I never want to hear or see you again" And how do I say that to six different girls...
Now take note, I also want a backup plan if I ever want to go back... Like... I want to move on as long as moving on is better than the life I've got now. So the entire Blunt "Go the fuck away" is completely out of the question. If being with one girl I can really connect with is bogus I'd like to be able to go back.
I know I'm being selfish with this, but really, I just want this transition in my life to be as smooth as possible.
I was inspired very much by this text, and I am also undergoing a similar change in my self-confidence, for example I used to be very paranoid and think people would trick me and make fun of me, but I'm getting better now. =)
Could you please tell more about that first day in college? It would be interesting to know more about what happened, I was thinking of doing something similar when I begin college, although I have one year in high school left.
I can't believe I'm the first to sage this troll.
'On the first day of College, I had a top hat on. I greeted anyone who even looked at me. I was dancing on a Cafeteria table with two girls I had just met'
I DO NOT recommend doing this on your first day at college for anyone else out there.
>>31
People will think you're an attention whore, just like the troll that wrote this post.
>>33
Damn, too late.
I believe that one can be an "attention whore" in a positive way. There are some people who attract attention by being loud and obnoxious, and there are a few who are so nice and outgoing to everyone that people like them.
There is a small "attention whore" in every one of us, and I wish to free mine from the chains of shyness and insecurity. =)
Like this thread's starter, I also get almost perfect grades (without much effort compared to how much my friends study), and I feel that I could lay more energy on being totally free from bad self-confidence, than just waste my time at the computer and watching the hours fly away.
Although I don't do it explicitly for the sake of "having girls all over me", I feel that it is just a necessary step in my personal self-development. Also, if I get to know more people, my chances of finding someone I like would increase.
I find it amusing that you sleep around so much yet get flustered about having a relationship with one girl. Promiscuity, lol.
>>36
The latter is not called being an "attention whore"; it's called being "sociable".
OP, I wasn't aware that you could study charisma. But let me tell you, doing random, attention seeking things constantly, does not equate to charisma.
> For some reason these girls just take everything I do as something great and all my dumb jokes are funny to them. They see my aspirations as some world changing thing and my ideas are all interesting conversations. Do I believe they are? No. I do not.
Riiight. In the event that you are telling the truth, I think you are giving them too much credit there. Do you really think they give a damn about your "jokes" and "aspirations", let alone comprehend them? They only need one reason to laugh and admire. That's popularity. Let me re-iterate: Popularity does not equal charisma. The most popular guys are quite often the most mind-numbingly boring men I've ever met. And the chances are, the type of girl that you're looking for, is not looking for a guy like you.
But I guess you brought this upon yourself in the first place.
Alas, the sacrifices we make in life. Snort.
No seriously, I don't know why you made this thread in the first place. Exactly what advice are you looking for? You give us a lot of mindless, unnecessary dribble about your supposed background, but all I can gather from these troll-baiting posts is "ZOMG, how DOES i find A special WIMMEN TO love ME?". Typical question. But it's as good as asking "How do I get laid?".
If it's an ordinary girl that you're looking for, well, you could start by burning that top hat. And PERHAPS curbing THE RANDOM shouting could HELP too. I dunno, just a THOUGHT.