10 i see your mistake. >>9 never said anything about being a chick. Not even about being female. Just think about that...

And skinny is no problem as far as I would see, but as a guy I would advise you to be able to lift an average girl. (Sounds really stupid, but to some degree you need the strength to hold a girl in your arms - at least for as long as it takes to get over the doorstep when you marry her ;)

(or is that not a tradition where you come from?)