Online Communities (19)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2019-05-12 02:18 ID:4s9qssME

For some reason I feel so awkward in online chatrooms, ircs, discords or whatever. I feel just as socially awkward as I do in real life despite my social presence being purely text. I haven't been able to really get into any online community or really get to know anyone due to this. Do any of you have any suggestions on getting over this?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2019-05-17 15:52 ID:tw7P9eCK

Think less about the context and more on the content of whatever it is you want to discuss. There's no such thing as a group of people interested in being part of a group of people (that's just fucking insane). People come together for common causes. Find something that you're really passionate about and focus on that. Community will develop from there.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-02 13:54 ID:x0fBtizH

It's way different now. You should probably even be glad you don't fit in with these mongs.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-16 05:34 ID:Vz42CicW

IRC, Chatrooms and especially Discord are internet hotbeds of awkwardness and shame. Just don't use them.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-24 12:42 ID:4s9qssME

>>3
>>4
How the hell will I make online friends then? I have barely any irl friends, and I'm feeling pretty lonely. I'll probably keep looking for a good community regardless.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-26 09:26 ID:X6mEwiNY

>>1

>Do any of you have any suggestions on getting over this?

I meditate. It's quite refreshing. Don't try to use online chat things like discord, anything with a name attached is normally a hellhole filed with maymay retards that were born yesterday. It's best to live with your own mind and keep yourself occupied,and use places like this for interaction. If it's too much then do what >>2 said and find something you're passionate for.

7 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-27 07:51 ID:4s9qssME

Thanks for the help. I guess I'll just continue using various chans and such for now. From my experience using discords and such, the communities do tend to be pretty bad.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2019-07-02 06:14 ID:d9PT1O+5

i cant really function online as well, its almost like i dont exist when i try to communicate. when i do voice chat though, im usually just dismissed as a loud eurofag and then muted.
so, i cant give any good advice, since i have no experience of my own

9 Name: Anonymous : 2019-08-19 08:01 ID:uIjB2HFN

have sex incel

10 Name: Anonymous : 2019-09-04 09:43 ID:F/DJsq/3

don't have sex volcel

11 Name: Anonymous : 2019-09-14 22:47 ID:bm8UrnP2

>>9 FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU

12 Name: Anonymous : 2019-09-22 05:00 ID:X6mEwiNY

>>9
XD got em! what a bunch of losers! I too think that losing one's virginity will change their personality for the better!
Upvoted!

13 Name: Anonymous : 2019-09-29 23:26 ID:gzKgdLWv

>>9
Believe me, if I started having sex there'd be none of ya' left.

14 Name: Anonymous : 2019-09-30 02:57 ID:oFswDTeJ

You will not replicate human connection online

15 Name: Anonymous : 2019-10-02 02:41 ID:bm8UrnP2

>>14 Its close enough, only difference is ease of disconnection.

16 Name: AwkwardPanda : 2019-11-22 00:51 ID:sIwgeei7

I wish I had an answer to that. Therapy would be the logical solution. I suffer in a similar matter; talk therapy eventually helped me at one point but I quit for some reason. It does not help that some online communities discourage, shame, or otherwise treat you differently for being female... I just want human interaction again. It is difficult. :/ Best of luck; all we can do is try to push past the uncomfortable feelings.

17 Name: Anonymous : 2019-11-25 03:24 ID:5K58vD3g

>treat you differently for being female

Won't respond to this bait

18 Name: Anonymous : 2019-11-25 21:49 ID:Heaven

>>17 but you just did and you didn't even sage

19 Name: Anonymous : 2019-12-03 23:24 ID:GSVUs8fx

>>1
start by talking about simple stuff,
you know, smalltalk (ask for the topic, what are they doing today, tommorow, etc),
then as you get to know more and more, you
start to build confidence.

try to find something that you like, and
most importantly,

take your time, do it at your own pace.
(i know this because i'm also like you, but at almost everything)

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