I hang my head for being a softie. I know they have opened themselves up to this by being idiots and/or thirsty. Doesn't mean the criticism doesn't sting, and I do feel the punishment may be out of proportion to some of the crimes.
I must be getting this from Mr Anon. After I had explained who Calvin Harris was (bless!) I explained the dubious timeline. From his geriatric brain he managed total recall of my own one dubious overlap (long before him). Thank you, dear. I said it was shady to hit on a girl who just broke up with someone. "You had been single less than a month when I hit on you" he replied. "If the girl you like is worth having, chances are if you wait 6 months she won't be single."
I think he still has dreams of staging the Intervention.