presuming this is a real problem: I agree with >>5 that by no means does your life have to gravitate around a satisfying sex life. Surely there are other things than pleasuring and receiving pleasure from other men that you can do. Mr 1, if you want your help to exceed crude remarks and mediocre advice, please tell us a few things about yourself. Like such things that make you feel great or happy, excited and free (other than sex-related). On the other hand also tell us a bit more about bigger, smaller problems you may have. If on the other hand you want to go this alone, follow >>6's advice and follow your heart. But remember your heart doesn't dangle between your thighs, it sits in your chest.

If you want to do that, also please take a name here so we can be a bit more personal to you. Frigid onanoko suggesting to you 'Bishonen!' which sort of means beautiful guy and is often the type of character in gay manga. It also has 'bi' inside it.

Frigid Onanoko say goodbye now!