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Life is a Pain [Rant] [Rave] [Whining] (1)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2018-09-18 23:58 ID:m9oovuMC

LIFE IS A PAIN IN THE ASS. I have PTSD and I have to go to therapy appointments that are an hour away and today I missed my bus there AND back. Then I'm applying for school and it turns out that my school doesn't have my Measles immuno documents so I have to take a blood titer test with a doctor who's 45 minutes away and when I go to the library to print out the forms for my doc to sign the printers turn out to be cash only! Now I can't do shit because the doctor stops doing the tests at 4:30 PM. I have to go in tomorrow for an audition at my school and then I'll have to print my forms out there and then do my audition and then go back to my doctor and THEN go back again to school to drop off my forms.

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VISA help form! (1)

1 Name: Staycey : 2018-07-22 19:39 ID:s3HprYGL

Hey everyone! There is a good F-191 form (, which can be useful for those people who decided to come to the US. Maybe someone will need it, so I decided to leave it here... :) My question is - does anybody know where I can get an administrative support and get answers for my questions regarding this form? This is not a question of immigration service ;(
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What do you think of Indians? (73)

1 Name: sticgum : 2009-06-20 15:48 ID:kwJwN2ny

Hi. This might seem like an unusual request. I am from India, and I am going to US for studies from this fall. I haven't met many Americans in person, so this is going to be my first exposure to the US. I am quite sure that the majority of posters in 4ch are americans, hence, I would like to ask you a question-
What do you think of Indians as people? What do you think of them when you speak to them? What kind of an impression does an average Indian's personality create on you?
Please be straightforward. Even if you insult me and Indians, I wouldn't really give a damn, as I don't know anything about you.
Other nationalities can also give their opinions. I am also interested to know what anyone thinks of us.

64 Name: art : 2012-08-23 00:02 ID:wzCTziNb

I dont hate indians cause i went to i high school out there. But i have to say that indians have big time attitude problems here in USA. Specially if you are in Northwest coast..i believe most of them work for microsoft or one of those big corporate entities and they think that they are super human being.. I worked at the restaurant and all these indians they act like they dont even notice me just b coz i am a waiter in the freaking indian restaurant of my circumstances...well i am an international student and there is no other place to work than this.....also 95% of the indian restaurant owner do not pay tips to the server or waiter...they will keep to pls dont leave tips to this crooks...they really think that their food is the best...thier country is the best ..and their movies are great...they proudly represent american eagle, hollister and armani and other freaking cheap ass brands on thier chest and they walk like they have own everything in the world....seriosuly i try to talk to them and be friend but thier attitude turns off all the doors for friendship...i dont know how bill gates trust all these indians...they come to america just to make dollars and thats it ...they are ruining our economy in every single way because they are too smart to get by the law......o god i can write pages and pages because i been around these people too much...but since i went to school thier i have learnt ways to get around them if they show attitude to doesnt apply to every single indian but thats what the majority pls if u are coming here to study and if u have all that tight jeans and hollister, american eagle and abercombie printed shirts leave those that in india or give to people in slum....u can bring ur dhotis and rupa ganiya...u look better in that than those outfits....sorry i am not trying to becoming mean...but you Indians are too much mean to other people...even those who are born here....they are perfectly fit to be in indian cinema theatre all the time with their sweaty hairy partners.....!!!! one more time guys...dont leave tips at indian restaurant....they take it all...never give it to poor waiters and servers especially other international students who works for them.....i am darn serious!!!!!jay hind!!!!

65 Name: leo : 2012-08-24 00:59 ID:5Zq0M5nc

I work as a maintenanace in NJ.
Most of are tenants are Indian highly educated.
They apt are filthy smelly.I just don't understand it .
Most of them live like animals.
Grease all over the kitchen .
Toilets and tubs are filthy dirty.
Most of the women don't work they stay at home and cook .
Never seen a vacuum in their apts.
They are highly intelligent people but they live like Pigs and on the top of that many times they are just arrogant.
Yes I met a few nice kind Indian poeple.
Thank you Rafael

66 Name: Jean : 2012-09-01 21:15 ID:orNl1H+N

I have to say I always saw Indians as hard working polite people. When I lived in the UK I couldn't understand why people hated them. Until I advertised for a roommate. A Indian Dr. in his 2nd year of residency applied and I felt well he would be clean and
quiet. Quiet maybe but clean NO! FILTHY! I had to give him notice to vacate due to the filth, I had told him about it numerous times. OMG the bathroom is disgusting..I have seen subways that are cleaner. And he never listens, perhaps because I a am a woman. 14 days and counting and I am going to have to get a new mattress (as rooms were furnished) Have the entire second floor cleaned. He won't see a penny of his security...too dirty and smelly.

67 Name: Melissa : 2012-09-21 19:46 ID:uvSuRWLe

To Jean - It doesn't have anything to do with being a woman. My roommate is Indian and she's a female (and so am I). She is so dirty. Every time she uses the kitchen she leaves a mess everywhere. She leaves food on the kitchen counter tops (one morning I went into the kitchen to cook breakfast and there's a drumstick on the counter), sauce is everywhere including on the walls and all over the floor and she won't clean it, she leaves dirty dishes in the sink overnight - I can go on and on. It's so weird because I cook all the time and always make sure to clean thoroughly - that's how I was taught in my family.

68 Name: So : 2013-02-14 18:26 ID:Y2NyEsVV

Call me on +919463430104 I am Indian Gay searching for friends.

69 Name: AntiRomanceScammer : 2017-11-11 06:39 ID:0NiI6BPk

Hindu or Muslim, almost everyone in the Indian continent cannot be trusted about anything and they're worst than the British tabloids, they network to sabotage by gossip, first anyone who is not Indians, next anyone who is t from their respective caste, third, fourth, fifth ..... So much are the sizing up of people. And they've got this kick out of the most malevolent practice of disgracing people especially ones they can bully or find vulnerable. They're all cowards, they're sheepish when each alone but turn into true perpetrators as groups. Horrible people! Scum of Asia!

70 Name: TheOneAfterAll : 2018-01-30 02:39 ID:5jNxOWdM

Indians are raised in a poor, third world country. Hence, the vast majority of of them do not know how to maintain a simple household.

1) Filthy - the apartments they rent are filthy, they never clean, and the bathroom is hell. Living like Pigs.

2) the FUCKING smell. They smell, spices, curry, grease...

3) they want to mix with white people, cause they themselves don't like their women, who are most of the time ugly.

4) Some of them are highly intelligent (some quality in 1 Billion).

Sorry, op, that's how it is. You want to blend in? Stop being cheap, CLEAN everywhere after yourself, and don't ever cook the fucking curry.

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72 Name: Anonymous : 2018-04-16 15:09 ID:Heaven

Speaking of Indians...

73 Name: Monika : 2018-07-22 19:34 ID:wIJqhdRn

I think that not all of them are like this. I know some, they are completely different. For those who decide to go there or come to the US, there is a good F-191 form (<a href=></a>), which can be useful. Maybe someone will need it, so I decided to leave it here... :)

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When I was a teenager, I molested someone... (34)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2009-04-15 00:09 ID:MakfLLq1

When I was 14, I molested my sister. She was was almost four the first time and the second time was just after she turned four. The first time, I actually pulled her pants down and touched her bottom, but the second time was just me taking my time helping her in the restroom. Neither time did I ask her to touch me or even show her my penis.

I was recently recovering from a long amount of physical and emotional abuse from my father, and had previously been molested twice in my youth. I was also suffering from some fairly serious mental problems. I say this not to excuse my actions, but to provide more of an explanation of what was going on then.

As time went on and I have returned to a more normal mental state, I look back upon what I have done in horror and guilt. I don't really know what effects this may have had on my sister (she is still fairly young) but I don't really look back on my molestations negatively. I still feel guilty, though.

However, a larger emotion that I am now feeling is fear. What if she remembers? What if she does not? I certainly remember being that age, but I developed rather quickly. Her linguistic skills have always been behind. What if she remembers and eventually tells someone and my life is ruined? What if.... etc?

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25 Name: Furp : 2017-09-23 23:10 ID:ZHwqfpug

Balls deep. I'm talkin bout balls deep in puuuusssss.

26 Name: Anonymous : 2017-10-16 01:22 ID:Heaven

When I was 10 or so I was tricked by a teen ager into doing gay stuff. I didn't really realized it until my mother found me and explained me a few things.

27 Name: jack : 2018-01-20 18:37 ID:Cck4o6Wk

i once raped a baby when i was but jesus died for my sins

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29 Name: Heckyeah00 : 2018-04-18 19:40 ID:G+zhfD3A

To to user named "Cant say" if you did it for sexual purposes then its not a experiment. I dont know if you should talk to her or not, though.

30 Name: Heckyeah00 : 2018-04-18 19:42 ID:G+zhfD3A

Go to jail then, Jack. Also wot

31 Name: Heckyeah00 : 2018-04-18 19:45 ID:G+zhfD3A

To 4th comment, you may be do it for sexual purposes, but you said that she was 1 so hope she doesnt remember it

32 Name: Heckyeah00 : 2018-04-18 19:53 ID:G+zhfD3A

>>29 also sorry for being abused by others
Also, to the op, if she remembers it, apologize to her.
To the 16th comment, seme thing goes for you too.

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34 Name: Anonymous : 2018-07-19 01:00 ID:OgEuqwN/

Did she look scared when you touched her? She's probably more likely to remember it depending on how traumatic it was. Sure everyone remembers differently but I think it's a common trend to remember bad memories more easily than good ones.

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Best way to make new friends (6)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2018-03-29 10:40 ID:CAZBrsYT

Just looking for some well written answers here.

Honestly, I just want to make some new friends. I have 2 real friends, well- mostly 1, but the other is a childhood friend of 20 years who isn't the greatest, more like a weird cousin.

Anyways, while I have one very good best friend, he's very busy and I'm looking to make some friends of similar interest because I'm at the point in my life where all of my family are gone/passed away, and I'm very alone. I'm a bit out of touch these days with the internet and life in general, I've had some horrible years full of drama and getting divorced from my evil ex. >.>

So I just wanted to know, are there like really good groups on social media or places to make friends easily? I get along great with people, and I prefer to find friends in my general town so I can talk about games and anime with friends who can actually visit. I just don't know whats out there or if anyone knows of a great way to connect with people. Random adding people on FB is crap and people don't treat their FB friends like real friends so...yeah =O

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3 Name: Anonymous : 2018-04-16 15:07 ID:DTycpkEw

Great reply, thanks.

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5 Name: Anonymous : 2018-05-28 09:42 ID:Y2NomSoX

From personal experience I've made almost all of my friends through work. You could just use your co-worker to find people through their social circle if they aren't that hot. Still have A friend from high school though.

I've never really used the internet to hold conversations or make friends but I have made one. Made a pinpal on a forum once and met up in Malaysia, had tonns of fun.

When it comes to internet friends try to keep discussion rolling I guess. Find something you're both passionate about and connect through that. Find some forums or IRC Channels about stuff you like and be meaningful.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2018-05-28 20:04 ID:EH6FZygh

join local skinhead gang

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death is the only hope (58)

1 Name: warez otoko : 2007-03-21 11:32 ID:KJnzZezY

I can't take it anymore. I'm so alone, I have no friends, girls don't even look at me. Everybody is having fun, they are full of love, all except me.
I'm a complete failure, 10 years of isolation, I barely finished high school, dropped out of university, and found a stoopid job anyone could do.
There's no way out, I have no idea how people become friends with each other, how they find love. Oh wait, once in 26 years I actually found that.. once in 26.. that means I have to wait another 26 to stumble on a person who likes me, and I'll be old already..
I tried to tell them.. I told them I was alone.. but no one understands.. they think it's some stoopid temporary loneliness.. they are used to have all they want, to find new friends and lovers the same way you download new games from the internet... how could they understand what it means to have no friends, no company, no woman around for the most part of ur life, and not knowing how to find them.
Everybody has a family, friends, a girl, everybody is loved... but me, and I don't know how to get out of this... once you lose all social connections, it's done. It isn't necessary to be a hikki, it just happens, you lose all childhood friends, and zzap you're alone for life.
What I have done to deserve this.

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54 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-09 19:17 ID:Heaven

uhm. I came?

55 Name: Anonymous : 2017-03-13 14:02 ID:WldANiVb

dicks out for Harambe

56 Name: Anonymous : 2018-02-08 07:57 ID:0CBkwNL9

I feel the same way as OP. There's some useful advice in this thread. I'm going to work on improving myself and trying to strike up convos with people. Thanks

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58 Name: Anonymous : 2018-04-16 15:10 ID:Heaven

Was it good?

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ITT: Bottling (13)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 03:12 ID:W5Sf69AR

We might as well just get this out of the way, don't you think?

What do you hikkis do with your wastes? Do you brave your sister's friends and go to the toilet or do you keep it in your room until sundown?

What do you do about the smell?

4 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-24 04:56 ID:Heaven


Believe in fart man, every person with the hikki label attach to them store their waste for later consumption in their room. Special circumstances, fart man's mom help eat his shit and piss, makes fart man's mom a hikki too!

5 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-25 04:43 ID:5QF62Jvl

I'm curious, how exactly does the shit get into the bottle without it missing? Do you have to shove it slightly up there to get a decent seal between the bottle and your anus? Or do you clench to try and make sure it comes out in small capsules?

6 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-27 03:34 ID:Jx785t/k

what are hikkis?

7 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-27 07:10 ID:dWv7dPVc

Dude, it's called a window.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-28 03:19 ID:Heaven


9 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-30 01:40 ID:DJoqpbmc

>>6 its basically what people here who watched welcome to the NHK anime call themselves if they are socially awkward and weak, in reality hikki would be a person living off his parents/significant other with no job , school, training whatsoever and almost never leaving their room.

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11 Name: Anonymous : 2017-11-18 23:58 ID:LgK/SeOu

Hey, it was good enough for Howard Hughes, the genius aeronautical engineer/pilot/playboy/Hollywood maven/billionaire in his waning years....

12 Name: Anonymous : 2017-12-01 10:38 ID:argqTmiB

10 year old finely aged piss bottle discussion

13 Name: Anonymous : 2018-01-16 21:16 ID:5YfJmUpG

I agree and let's continue. Now I have a shit bucket and a special piss jug that I've been using for a year now. I open my window and just dump it down the back hill side below. There's a trail at the bottom of the hill that people walk on. I'm sure they keep wondering where all the shit comes from.

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acne medication (18)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-02 04:43 ID:Dhqd/BDQ

I have acne problems and acne scars, I have used several medication and it removes the acne temp. but... it cannot remove the acne scars.. I was wondering if there are any medication to remove the acne and scars permentanly

9 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-21 23:24 ID:SqeHm4Qm

There is a reason Pro-Activ has a commercial on nearly every form of media. The shit works WONDERS and people are shelling out the money for this wonder product. I used it all through high school and it was incredible. Nothing I tried worked as good

10 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-23 21:50 ID:Heaven

Saturated fat.... I'm fucking 30 years old, and after I eat some shit junk food, I still get pimples.

Saturated fat, don't go near it.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-25 21:13 ID:IkxdnvZR

There is a lot of stuff in people's diets that might cause breakout depending on the person...

Pro-Activ...I used that stuff for months and nothing happened. I used something my friend gave me and within weeks I was clear and clean...

12 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-26 01:25 ID:Heaven

Haha, lucky bastards. I spent all this money on all this crap and nothing worked for me. Digestive medicine included. Oh useless doctors, useless dermatologists out for money.

Still have it.

13 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-27 08:42 ID:2JL6DCIY


Are you young? If everything else has failed you, growing older might just be your cure.

14 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-27 16:03 ID:Heaven

According to everyone else, yeah, I'm young. Took bloody isotretinoin for months, turned out completely useless.

15 Name: Newoz : 2007-02-04 01:17 ID:Heaven

I used, and still do, benzolium peroxide.
It sure works, but ocassionaly my skin gets too dry and I have to stop. This happens when I combine it with an acid soap with sulfur(whose only purpose of existance is to clean my face, and then get it dry).

What type of skin moisturiser do you suggest/recommend? Any specific soap or cream?

16 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-13 07:30 ID:/0nBmiEs

i think the only way to prevent new pimples is to see a dermatologist and get a prescription. (pills). I would not wash my face for 3 days and i didnt get a pimple. fOR existing acne you should use proactive because it is cheap.. it is very good to smooth the face and to get rid of brown spots after poppping a zit. to see results faster, you should do chemical peels, salycilic to be exact.

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18 Name: Anonymous : 2018-01-05 14:16 ID:QlwznoYQ

you are 41 now

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How to get any issue resolved (3)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2017-07-11 18:13 ID:ysJ/JTVy

Follow the advice of this site and you will have all your issues resolved no matter what:

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3 Name: Anonymous : 2017-11-11 22:23 ID:mJSo7uN4

The website was removed but here is the contents of it:

From the dawn of mankind man has understood nature structured mankind for the use of shamanism. It was the psychedelics themselves that gave man this information. Only recently governments have shunned this knowledge and decided to forbid it to satisfy their own selfish deeds.

There is only one thing you ever need to know about shamanism and it is sick that they did not tell you this in school:

Shamanism is taking a psychedelic substance in the combination of smoking cannabis while under the influence of the psychedelic, and doing this while you are alone, not in the company of others. Taking separately these two substances do not work.

This will cure the individual from mental illness caused by the ego, curing the person from anger, sadness, misunderstanding and evil deeds. If the person took a large enough dose these evil mindforms explained above will not return to the user again to torture them, and the person will be cured from them, and will not need to take these substances again to stay cured and live a problemless life. Also if you cry often and don't know why, psychedelics will heal that illness.

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Donald Trump raped me (10)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-16 13:21 ID:x0A6rq6j

Donald Trump raped me

2 Name: sage : 2016-11-04 17:21 ID:ryzB0Yb7


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4 Name: Anonymous : 2017-03-05 13:37 ID:BX7kudt8

dicks out for H@rambe

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6 Name: anon : 2017-08-03 12:07 ID:m528pWxm

me too

7 Name: Furp : 2017-09-23 23:15 ID:oNUo9w1G

Furp doesn't want you kill your mommy. Molest your sister instead. Furp out.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2017-10-01 19:11 ID:QKsu872X

Dolan is a bad man

9 Name: Anonymous : 2017-10-21 02:47 ID:HMyMzxtV

Trump raped that fucking gorilla as well.

10 Name: Anonymous : 2017-11-04 22:58 ID:IueSvNhG

"It's gonna be great. Believe me."

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