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How to get any issue resolved (1)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2017-07-11 18:13 ID:ysJ/JTVy

Follow the advice of this site and you will have all your issues resolved no matter what:

https://shamanicinfo.wixsite.com/shamanism

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I have a plan to stop being a NEET (10)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-06 00:25 ID:457ISoe1

I'm a recovering hikikomori. About which, let's just say I was born into a dysfunctional family.

I'm currently a NEET, I've been one since I last dropped out of highschool years ago, and I've never really worked, except for something very informal months ago and which only lasted a couple of days, because I messed it up.

I have a plan to socially recover and sustainably stop being a NEET. Not that I think one "should" work, I'm critical of work, but I do think it can be advantageous to do so.

2 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-08 07:18 ID:Heaven

What might it be, if I may ask? I could use such a thing myself.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-10 05:12 ID:GnsGzhKT

My plan is having two jobs on the same days, both customer service and at least one with co-workers. I think it's of the highest importance to have "two worlds", not just one.

It's a big mistake to think any job will do. For someone who has been socially withdrawn for extended periods of time, it's important to quickly expand one's "social reference points", and to have more than one.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-10 05:39 ID:GnsGzhKT

But overcoming social withdrawal is full of subleties. I'm ashamed about having no clothes, so I've been thinking about first getting a job in cleaning or something where I was paid in cash each day, and so being able to buy clothes sooner. But it's difficult to get a job like that, so maybe I'll have to make do with what I have.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-13 12:40 ID:72oshT8o

This is only an idea though. My actual plans keep moving.

6 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-18 04:43 ID:CE5AssDi

Good luck. I really and truly hope this works for you.

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8 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-19 05:19 ID:26kzuYBb

>>6
Thank you.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2017-05-11 05:18 ID:FDjgc51A

So how did this all end up? I've been a NEET for 20 straight years now and I want out but don't know how to do it. I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.

10 Name: Anonymous : 2017-06-06 12:13 ID:02McTTrc

>>9

20 years? could you write a quick story? what even happened

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Gaining Weight (15)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-07 08:11 ID:Y1/bV8l/

You guys have any tips about gaining weight or gaining body fat?

Im your average person who likes to skateboard, play games, hang out with friends, party etc.
I have no car so i regulary ride my bike to wherever i want to go. No food disorders, i eat everything and regulary eat candy and drink soda.
I get enough sleep, or as many say.. i sleep to much, and sometimes i stay awake to much.

Im not lifting any weights or doing any exercise except for the fact that i ride my bike up hills almost everyday (hillcountry lol). I sometimes even have myself a small feast with cakes and stuff, take my vitamins and Omega-3 oils.
Everyone in my family was thin when they were young, but my brother (1 year older than me) is alot "bigger" than me.

Am i eating the wrong kind of foods/too much candy and fat or am i not out and running to often? halp!

6 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-07 19:40 ID:cxbqVfu5

Eat protein and exercise so you can gain muscle. Eat good protein, like chicken, maybe protein shakes are a good idea??

7 Name: SOO-DA : 2007-01-08 12:15 ID:4D5o593U

It's probably your metabolism and something that isn't easily fixed. The only way to gain weight would probably to gain muscle since you burn up all the fat. That's not easy either so you shouldn't expect results so soon. It might be a year long process.

8 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-08 16:26 ID:bI3ysM21

>>7
Gaining a lot of muscle fast is NOT a good thing, either. That can lead to many medical problems.

9 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-10 20:22 ID:LtvKTILf

Up your protein and eat GOOD fats. Try avocados and nuts, not greasy meat. Plech.

Also, cut out the junk food. It's really only going to make you more unhealthy.

10 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-10 20:24 ID:LtvKTILf

Up your protein and eat GOOD fats. Try avocados and nuts, not greasy meat. Plech.

Also, cut out the junk food. It's really only going to make you more unhealthy.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-28 00:12 ID:eNAFirAJ

You need to eat protein and start doing some exercise that will build muscle.

I personally like this website a lot:

http://www.angelfire.com/ny5/shenandoah/OBB/OBB.html

The exercises are remarkably effective and don't need any equipment. Give 'em a go - you've got nothing to lose.

12 Name: SUP SUP SUP SUP : 2007-02-14 16:15 ID:qRU4RVkO

No matter what I eat, I'm still on the vicinity of 115 pounds. I am over 5'7, so I feel that I am coming from the same direction as you. Dude, just go with it. One day your metabolism will slow down and you will have the chance to be a fat mofo; by then you will yearn for the days that you were trying to 'bulk up'.

13 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-15 10:18 ID:Heaven

>>12

>One day your metabolism will slow down and you will have the chance to be a fat mofo; by then you will yearn for the days that you were trying to 'bulk up'.

Too true.

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15 Name: Anonymous : 2017-04-17 23:34 ID:rU01LHsk

I recommend eating foods rich in fat, your body wants to break down sugar from candy and stuff immediatlely.

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THE FUTURE OF TEXTBOARDS, IN http://fart.ga/ !! (1)

1 Name: THE FUTURE OF TEXTBOARDS, IN http://fart.ga/ !!PLn6PKe7 : 2017-04-11 01:32 ID:Dpporlz9

THE FUTURE OF TEXTBOARDS, IN http://fart.ga/ !!

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pedophilia (2)

1 Name: moot : 2017-03-28 20:40 ID:QlkxV442

is there any easy ways to deal with pedophilia beside going to jail/CP?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2017-03-29 21:42 ID:Heaven

blog about it and then link it on any irc channel you're on

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gassy problems (7)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-11-01 07:10 ID:aRXumd9L

It seems that this problem has recently dawned upon me, even though the symptoms have been with me for quite some time. I tend to build up alot of gas when I'm not in my comfort zone (i.e. my house) and it builds up to the point where it feels like my intestines will explode from the pressure of the gas. I think that it might be because I get nervous when I'm around groups of people, which in turn, makes me even more nervous because I might accidentally let one go in public making this gas problem a vicious cycle. I was wondering if anyone else has a similar problem and if they take some sort of medication to alleviate this gas problem?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2007-11-01 12:05 ID:2IH/E0Rn

What foods do you eat?

3 Name: Anonymous : 2007-11-01 17:51 ID:aRXumd9L

i usually eat whatever the cafeteria serves at mealtimes, so it's usually chicken and rice or x type of meat and some sort of side dish like rice or vegetables

4 Name: Anonymous : 2007-11-01 22:35 ID:eU2IBe/s

I have this problem too, still don't know how to fix it.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2007-11-02 00:45 ID:rRHH9cRC

Beano? (google it)

6 Name: nanashi774 : 2007-11-02 05:33 ID:MZSyuJ1a

yeah, stress can cause that.

omg your problem with being nervous around people then being nervous about the gas and then it happening because of that sounds just like me in middle school, except with me it was stomach growling. it turned out to be obsessive compulsive disorder. maybe you need psych meds, not gas meds (totally not meant as an insult, so don't take it as one)

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Regarding Purity (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-07-24 22:26 ID:4j8OI5Ek

I am unable to forge strong bonds with beings.
I can evolve amidst abstract objects devoid of polarity.
I can evolve amidst chaos with spikes of radiation and vacuums.
I can also continually spin.
Ultimately some expression must be made.
I assume this expression concerns a perception combined with an emotion.
Yet, I can't express any improper perceptions thereby allowing it to colorize my essence.
I currently live life by establishing jails that contain expressive processes, thereby providing a means to act out 'experiments', rather than actually instantiate some real path.
I come to you for what? To let you know, as well as myself, that I exist. Hello.
Hello.

2 Name: Anonymous : 2007-07-24 22:34 ID:94TbFOYu

Hello.

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4 Name: Anonymous : 2007-07-25 15:53 ID:Heaven

Yo

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Serious bukkake lover, and I have questions (26)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-08 23:35 ID:fli80Z9O

Hello. I was introduced to japanese porn a few years ago and I can honestly say I am glad I did. In japanese porn, I found people who expressed all the fetishes I like.

One of my absolute favorites though is bukkake.
In porno-movies, my main interest is the last seconds of an act ( the male orgasm ) and something turns me on seeing a woman completely drenched in intriguing liquids.

Me myself, I was teased all through elementary school because of my looks. I got acne real early, so I was very "unique" and i stood ouf of the crowd ( mainly due to other interests, like videogames etc. )

Now, I can honestly say I have never had a real girlfriend.
From my own point of view, my personality is very vulnerable, and I easily cry if offended. I have a big interest in computers, and usually spend most of my time doing nothing except watching porn at this stupid machine.

Now, my self-asteem is not that great, and while I do like people, I usually enjoy being by myself. It's secure and I don't have to handle interactions with people who might not like my existence.

Post too long. Click to view the whole post or the thread page.

17 Name: Anonymous : 2007-01-31 07:07 ID:v7ll709t

>>11
lmao so true. nice advice.....school work

18 Name: fart man : 2007-01-31 10:50 ID:1NqSZjuh

or u should bukkake on ur own face.

19 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-01 17:37 ID:fli80Z9O

Very interesting. But I hope it's a good thing I don't feel like jumping onto some woman bukakkeing her :)

20 Name: Anonymous : 2007-02-15 02:17 ID:Heaven

well this thread went to hell quickly. Shame, it was a good subject.

21 Name: Anonymous : 2007-03-09 21:04 ID:n795faTh

i dont think you are sick but your should probably broaden your focus

22 Name: Anonymous : 2007-03-10 19:03 ID:4DRDCpPn

The last thing to do is worry about this and think you're hopeless or definitely lost or something. Everyone has fears and problems and they'll hide and repress them throughout their lives. Then when they're supposedly "adult" and "responsible" persons they'll look down at you and tell you you're sick or that you need help.
Just live with it, I don't know if one can change his fetishes entirely at 18.
As for your homeworks, yeah, do them or you'll become another hikki/wanabe hikki hanging around 4ch desperatly and depending upon relatives to be able to eat. You don't want that, now do you ?

Also shut up fart man

23 Name: //Shock : 2007-03-11 01:36 ID:qPLsiOfg

The best solution to this problem is the most obvious one: Get off your computer and go outside! That's the only way you're going to develop a healthy social life and meet girls. Find a hobby or take classes somewhere where there are lots of other people (especially females) your age. Also, make time to study. Don't give in every time you get horny. You've got to make priorities. Good luck!

24 Name: Anonymous : 2007-03-11 07:46 ID:Ph26vMk8

>>9

Wanking off to a fetish isn't that bad, but if it really gets in the way of schoolwork, it's passed the line to unhealthy obsession. I'm not sure how you can, though...I can't masturbate more than once a day, because I feel "masturbated out." If you overdo it it's not healthy.

Oh, also, if you're constantly looking at girls while socializing, and in the back of your mind thinking, "yeah, I could imagine bukkake'ing on her face..." it will color your interactions with them. You won't be able to look at them as a person in the same way, as anything but a fetish receptacle. You should struggle to seperate the girls you meet in real life from the girls you see in your porn.

25 Name: Anonymous : 2007-03-11 07:47 ID:Ph26vMk8

>>9

Wanking off to a fetish isn't that bad, but if it really gets in the way of schoolwork, it's passed the line to unhealthy obsession. I'm not sure how you can, though...I can't masturbate more than once a day, because I feel "masturbated out." If you overdo it it's not healthy.

Oh, also, if you're constantly looking at girls while socializing, and in the back of your mind thinking, "yeah, I could imagine bukkake'ing on her face..." it will color your interactions with them. You won't be able to look at them as a person in the same way, as anything but a fetish receptacle. You should struggle to seperate the girls you meet in real life from the girls you see in your porn.

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Corsage?!? (5)

1 Name: Akina : 2007-10-07 00:40 ID:OLgTOLhm

Ok, so I got a Corsage for my date, but which hand do I put it on? And does the flower have to be facing toward her, or away from her?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2007-10-07 01:37 ID:P+y2SJdR

Males: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boutonniere

Females: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corsage_(bodice)

I don't know about either of those, so I would just google it. Hope it helps.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2007-10-07 06:46 ID:Heaven

Keep it in the one thread dude. It's not exactly topic worthy.

4 Name: Anonymous : 2007-10-08 04:58 ID:Heaven

>>2
ooh! lingerie!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brassiere
[The neutrality of this article is disputed.]

Oh, Lordi! Leave it to wikipedia...

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Donald Trump raped me (5)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-16 13:21 ID:x0A6rq6j

Donald Trump raped me

2 Name: sage : 2016-11-04 17:21 ID:ryzB0Yb7

Congratulations

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4 Name: Anonymous : 2017-03-05 13:37 ID:BX7kudt8

dicks out for H@rambe

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