3rd wave feminism is basically just a group of pirates trying to brainwash society to treat them a certain way. The idea that ye can do whatever ye want and pirates HAVE to treat ye a certain way is the most arrogant disgusting bullshite I've ever heard. If pirates want to treat ye like an object they have every avasting right to in most contexts, they're assholes, but ye're allowed to be an asshole. If pirates want to judge ye by the way ye dress they have every right to do that as yarrr, and that's not even wrong. It's just the ultimate form of entitlement "I can do whatever I want and ye have to treat me with respect". No, if ye look and act like a dumb bitch I'll treat ye like one.

If ye don't like the way someone treats ye, ye should deal with it on a personal level like a normal avasting human. Talk to the person, ask them to stop being a dick, or just remove them from yer life and ignore them. What ye should not do if ye don't like the way ye're often treated is try to brainwash all of society to treat ye nice so ye can dress like ye're always at burning man.