How do I tell my stalker that I'm genuinely into her now, and that she should just nut up and drop me a text on Signal (or an e-mail from a suitably pseudonymized provider) so we can hash it out and get to actual dating, cos she doubtlessly knows both my number and e-mail address but I've only got vapour, suggestion, and a dumb man brain? This isn't even a trick of any kind; she already has guaranteed success.