Hello minna-san,
Just last Firday I had my Senior Ball. I managed to go there with the girl that I had a big crush on.
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She wore a beautiful black dress, I can still see here sweet smile when I close my eyes. (^.^)
Sadly though, on Prom night we both had not such a good time, The DJ played mostly rap (which we both hate) and we both do not like to grind. (She is VERY religious and I am very shy IRL). So for almost all of the prom night we waltzed and did the slow dance in the hall away from everyone else. I especially loved the slow dance though I couldnt hold her close enough to me. When she was in my arms everything felt good and for the 1st time in half an year I was happy (although this quickly ended after a noticed that I was starting to get an erection O.o" I was terrified so I pulled back I bit and re adjusted my pants till it faded a short bit latter, I don't think she noticed though). （=～=;;;;;）
After the ball we rode over to the Senior Daze (an after party to make a drug/alcohol free event). It was actually more fun than the prom it's self. We both got balloon hats and I made her sing "Birdhouse in your Soul" by TMBG and in revenge she made me sing a song called "California Dreaming" with her.
Around 1:20 AM I called for my dad to pick us up, when he got there I had him play a waltz over the CD player thus we did our 'last waltz'.
When we arrived at her house I finally decided to ask her what I wanted to tell her for so long.
ME: u-u-u-Um, Carolyn?
Her: Yes?
ME: Uh, may I um, ask you a question?
Her: <smiles> sure (^-^*)
ME: Would you, um, ever consider, mabie going out with me some time? （．＿．)"
Her: mabie
Me:I dont need any decision right now, Just take as long as you need... goodnight
Her: sweetdreams <looks at me, smiles then closes the door)
Me: Sweetdreams
With that said, tomorrow I will be seeing her and I am really panicking!!!
I need some advise on where to go from now and something to calm my nerves (mabie a small cup of hot ume sake?)
I wish to be the next Densha Otoko! But I am very fugly and have no luck :(
However, I burned the Densha Otoko TV sonto DVD for her, I hope it will help my chances
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~Spock .\\//
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god.
this makes me puke a little in my mouth.
i so hope this is superfucking troll because i am in the process cutting off my vagina in pure animal rage.
Wait... what?
What about that Densha-thing? Why do you even think you need that?
Okay, let's try to review what happened from a neutral point of view.
1- she went to the prom with you
2- she thought the same thing about it
3- you managed to dance a slow away from the rest of the other people
4- you waltzed with her
5- she made you sing a song (and "California Dreaming" is a sweet one) together
5- you waltzed with her, again
6- you asked her in a very courteous manner
7- seems that you've been respecting her and her ideas the whole prom night (no alcohol, no drugs, respecting the distance, and stuff).
8- when you asked her if she was considering to go out with you, she did not say no.
Okay, I could sniff some more details to add to the list, and I'm quite sure you could add some more you didn't even realize did count.
Now, you just have to keep your head clear, and continue on this very good direction. You said she could take her time, leave her some days to think about it, but don't step away from her. Don't mention it, but make her understand that you were serious - hang around, and maybe in a few days ask her to go eat somewhere (nothing too "official", stay light when you start), well, you see.
See, that whole Densha-melodrama isn't even needed. You might want some advice & the like, but seriously... you're far from being a looser like he is.
Best luck.
Try and watch it with her.
Sounds like she's sweet on you already. Your alleged fugly-ness probably doesn't matter at this point.
Heh, don't worry about the erection. She likes you, so she'll probably like that clear sign of your attraction. In my experience, a girl noticing it has always led to good things haha!
>>1
How the hell can you cut off your vagina? seems kinda... beh.. why am I feeding a troll anywho??
>>2-san,
Thank you for the advice. I'm just really worried because I have only had 1 real relation before and it ended because she considered me to be 'more of a friend than a boyfriend'. Also, About one year ago I asked her out and she said 'no'. In addition, I asked her best friend what my chances were of dating her are and she gave me the 'your fucked' look. I also have a real negative stigma in our school.
I'm sorry if I was a bit over the top but every bit of knowledge of dating that I have is from:
A) Civil War re-enacting for almost 7 years
B) Densha Otoko Posts and TV series
>>4-san,
I'm not sure how true that would be with her. She is religious to a point when when we meet last year she tried to convince me that the apocalypse is coming... soon (I'm a shinto/buddist weaboo though).
It seems like if we do ever manage to date it will be a long time till we have any sexual relations... but I am happy as long as I can have her in my arms (I actually enjoy snuggling more than sex... I know.. I'm odd and actualy somewhat overbearing)
Well anyway minna-san, I need to go to bed now (12:33). I'll check this thread in the morning before I go to school (and see her again).
Goodnight!
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~Spock .\\//
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>>3 here, I think you mistook >>1, >>2, and >>3. But no problem.
>>6
Whatever you are, apocalypse is coming. How soon depends on us but I think it'll be independent from religion. Well, whatever.
Drop the weeabootry right now. Seriously, you seem to enjoy Densha Otoko. Remember that his kind of otakuness is badly seen in his own country. I'll let you imagine in yours, and from a somehow strict and religious girl. The only thing you'll have to remember from DO is: improve yourself for her. Don't push it too hard though. I suggest that only thing: drop the weeaboo stuff.
I'm not saying "don't watch any anime", "don't watch dramas", "don't enjoy japanese culture". I'm saying: stop referencing yourself to that. Don't be a zealot.
Also, whatever your passives are - that is, to you both - I think my advice still applies. Give her a few days, and ask her to something casual. Maybe with friends for a start. That'll prove you're honest (you don't push her too hard after you've told her to take her time), but you show your interest and seriousness.
I think this kind of girl need these attentions.
Good luck.
>I am really panicking!!!
Hey, calm down, she probably likes you
Just treat her as a friend, nervousness won't do much good
>>8
Not a troll but certainly over-the-top, I think. The dude just needs to chill the fuck out, stop reeking so strongly of weaboo, and be realistic.
I think you're worrying entirely too much, OP. If she went to prom with you, as >>3 said, she clearly digs you, even a little bit.
>>7
Seconded.
Work on self-improvement but don't make it completely blatant or over the top. Give her some space but encourage a casual date-- maybe with friends or grabbing some coffee and chatting. Stop being retarded for everything Japanese. It's seriously a turn-off except to, maybe, other creepy weaboos. Just be yourself. Like most people, she can probably see through your fixation on your hobbies as a front. Have respect for her-- you said that you'd give her as much space as she needs-- but don't be afraid to breach the topic of going out somewhere, be it an actual date on an informal, "just-friends" deal. And, most of all, she's probably flattered that you're interested her. Be genuine.
I don't know if weeaboos can think logically but if you think about a date logically it becomes less nerve-racking at least for me. The purpose of a date is to get to know the person to see if you are compatible, similar interests, and whatnot. If you are not, it will not work and you should just drop it there.