> And again, I recommend you to use "僕".

Okay, I will. Thanks for the advice.

> Strictry speaking, it is more difficult for me to speak to black people than to white people.

(ha ha, you said "strictry")

Actually, it's usually the same for white people, although we don't like to admit it. I'm glad to use an anonymous forum.

I made friends with a black girl this year, but whenever she was unfriendly to me I thought "oh, it's because she's black and I'm white".

Of course, that isn't true. That's how racism works. Having to double-check myself makes me very nervous, though. I'm sure it's the same for other white guys too.