Singles Rant Thread (1000)

348 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 07:00 ID:Zxcke0sP

>>345
You probably did it wrong. If you had a bunch of manga, girly books, or something in your hand then I would probably punch you too for being creepy if I was a girl.

Plus some of these women DO want to be left the hell alone.

It is all in picking your fights. Planning your attacks.

If she had her nose in a book or had this "I'm here to look at books don't bother me" aura about her then...well..FAIL.

If a girl is sitting alone, by herself and looking out the window and thinking to herself "...oh god another year alone." Then you should come up and say something that doesn't sound like a come on. Like "Hey what's on your mind" or something. Just DON'T SOUND CREEPY. PICK YOUR TARGETS. It is like this. Pretend that you are a Marine Force Recon unit and you are cut off from supply. You are on your own and you have to have your wits about. Are you going to rush in on a heavily fortified well defended bunker? NO! That's STUPID! HOWEVER, if it was a lightly defended and isolated relay post or it was a bunch of lonely, scared and inexperienced conscript soldiers then BY ALL MEANS GO FOR IT!

Why is this so hard to understand? Women are not some unattainable thing. They are not goddesses, princesses, or queens. They are closet whores and normal people with breasts. They want what you want. Security, companionship, and the benefits of income. Only they expect YOU to provide it.

What you might want to do is hire a mercenary. You know a guy who can tag the ass and can talk you up for a girl. Just remember, he handles TACTICS. REAR END SUPPORT...this is YOUR FIGHT you gotta DO IT.

WOMEN!! KICK THEIR ASS!(Relationship and courtship wise, don't really kick their ass you will go to jail and be someone ELSE's target of opportunity)

349 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 18:37 ID:ybaitCNV

>>348 you sound like a sane person!
I'm sure if I punched a girl because she tried to ask me out I would be convicted of assault instantly.

350 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 19:35 ID:eLNIqQyS

>>349

There is a double standard in the world get used to it.

Like in Domestic Violence the man always goes to jail.

Romance is dead and TV killed it.

351 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 19:58 ID:g/2UC6Rl

>>349
In this world, it's automatically assumed that most guys are more perverted, creepier and have more power, both physical and social, than females. I've been told that the correct way of translating a unwanted guy hitting on a girl to a male situation, isn't by just reverising gender, but by a gay guy hitting on a straight guy. And unfortunately, I'd have to agree.

352 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 20:02 ID:g/2UC6Rl

>>351
Ehrm, not justifying >>348's actions, merely stating why they're unfortunately understandable. I do not approve of people beating up someone who is asking them out, unless they're threatening that person's safetly. For instance, someone who doesn't take no for an answer and keeps following you like a hawk. Potentially getting rape or stalked is not good. Though the best option would be to call the police.

353 Name: BENOIST : 2006-02-22 22:39 ID:Sivu4xWB

>>346
I was wearing an A-kon 16 t-shirt. As for what I look like...something like Densha Otoko except a taller, more overweight version. I didn't even really say anything too creepy......<< >>

354 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 23:12 ID:P2iUnC0F

what did you say?

355 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 01:13 ID:YBBNwzzV

>>353

was the imperial march playing at that time?
but seriously dude wtf. what a bitch she was.

356 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 03:18 ID:Heaven

>I was wearing an A-kon 16 t-shirt.

Herein lies the root of your failure. Was there an anime character on this shirt? When you wear it you are a freak to anyone who doesn't like or doesn't know about anime. A tall, overweight guy in an anime shirt is going to set of female nerd alarms in a 100 meter radius.

Oh, bloody hell, I just found an image of that shirt. http://homepage.mac.com/gihdora/A-Kon/PhotoAlbum71.html
Anyone else care to weigh in?

357 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 03:51 ID:dl4tZaph

>>353

Dammit man. That was your first fatal mistake. Shirts like that will only attract overweight creepy fangirls who are so damn wapanese that it makes even the most hard core "otaku" cringe.

If you want a NORMAL girl, dress like a NORMAL person. THIS IS NOT HARD. t-shirt(NORMAL...no goddamn anime, smart ass slogans or anything...just a NORMAL shirt for a NORMAL person), jeans, shoes, and maybe a coat if it is warm. Being a little fat ass is ok for males. As long as you have a job, income, or can get a job before she finds out you are a bum THEN YOU ARE GOLDEN. Also if your hair is shaggy and nappy GET A HAIRCUT! You do NOT have to be a body nazi adonis to attract a woman. You can still be SOMEWHAT fat ass and get a decent girl as long as you are CLEAN. CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN. No dandruff, no foul smell, no messy clothes and CONTROL YOUR SWEAT AND BODY ODOR. THIS IS KEY.

"But mr. crazy man on the internet" you might say..."I still like this stupid shit, but I don't want to die a virgin. WHAT DO I DO!?" SIMPLE!!! slowly EEEAAAAAAASSEEEE her into your actual creepiness SLLLOOOOOOOWWWWLLLLYYYYY reveal it like it is something deep and that she didn't know about before. Women like a little bit of drama and mystery and by the time you are in an actual relationship with her she will already be nesting and will just put up with it like so many sad, sad, desperate women in the world who are trapped in crappy marriages/relationships. Let me put it this way. Dress up now so you can dress WAY DOWN and freely engage in flatulence around her later.

So in summary. Wear some NORMAL clothes next time, DON'T TALK ABOUT GEEK SHIT until you are actually in an actual relationship with a girl, and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE for the love of god DON'T SCREW IT UP NEXT TIME! Gawd...how hard is this...

358 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 05:28 ID:YBBNwzzV

>>357

and then you show her this message board and she and her brother gets mad at you. then she reads this board and realizes how much she means to you and you both get on a train and fly off to happiness as we cheer you on.

359 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 09:04 ID:ybaitCNV

People overreact too much.
Every guy is not a god damn rapist.
You do not have a right to assault someone just because they offend you. You do not have a right to not be offended.

How the hell can you be offended by someone asking you out or trying to talk to you? That is a complement! Also, if a guy complements you it doesn't mean that he is automatically trying to get into your pants!

Maybe if women stopped trying to play the role of a victim when it suits them the world would be a better place. We could certainly do without the Lifetime movies.

360 Name: BENOIST : 2006-02-23 23:21 ID:Heaven

>>355
Lol, yeah. I think I did hear the imperial march in the background.

361 Name: BENOIST : 2006-02-24 00:02 ID:fg9RrqtU

Shit, forgot to take the "sage" out of the link field.

362 Name: 342 : 2006-02-24 01:15 ID:Heaven

( ^ω^) yay replyGET
Wonder why I'm still paranoid about this... Probably because age=years without(ry

363 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-24 03:51 ID:Od9V9g05

this is my first post ever. firstly i cant belive radio is got snaked, also what happened to 207. details requested!!!
my own rant is, that i'v been seeing this girl for like 2 months and it doesnt seam to be going anywhere. she always says that she dosnt want a bf right now, this is because at the time we met she got just broke up with her ex which she was dating for 6 months.
we like each other and are pretty close, but i want it to be more then that, should i wait longer or go for another girl (not that i have another lined up)???

364 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-24 12:22 ID:XD1NDaSt

Go for another one, I guess she isn't interested in you. Tell her to make a choice if you want to search for another one.

365 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-25 02:34 ID:Od9V9g05

>>364 yeah but at least with her i got something, i figure its better to have someone then to have no one?

366 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-25 02:54 ID:YBBNwzzV

depends. I rather have no love than unrequited love. I would VERY much rather have that.

367 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-25 12:13 ID:4FbelK8T

>>365

I disagree. I have a ex-girlfriend that still loves me, I'd much rather want her finally getting over me than to continue to hurt someone in the end I don't really love.

368 Name: >>363 : 2006-02-25 15:19 ID:kchQ9p4q

>>367

we are realy close right now and i feel it would ruin our relationship forever, wheres as if i think would wait a couple of weeks and then sorta tell her how i feel and, brake it off?

369 Name: >>363 : 2006-02-25 15:19 ID:kchQ9p4q

>>367

we are realy close right now and i feel it would ruin our relationship forever, wheres as if i think would wait a couple of weeks and then sorta tell her how i feel and, brake it off?

370 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-25 16:48 ID:YBBNwzzV

>> 363

you know, that's exactly how my relationship with this girl went. and then before you know it, she only sees you as a friend and you're screwed.

371 Name: Doku Otoko : 2006-02-25 20:14 ID:5/KvqUaB

Guess you'll have to drop hints so you won't be seen as only a friend?

372 Name: BENOIST : 2006-03-03 01:17 ID:3BK4kelC

Don't die on me thread!!!

373 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-03 01:18 ID:Cn3XUx3o

>>372
love is dead

374 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-03 01:41 ID:dC+qJ7v4

my best friend is asking me who i have a crush on, it happens to be his ex and no way in hell im telling him

375 Name: 374 : 2006-03-03 03:45 ID:dC+qJ7v4

damn...he is a good guesser

376 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-03-03 03:55 ID:bnHw7rcj

Does it count if I'm ok with being single?

377 Name: Jstars : 2006-03-03 08:36 ID:f1w4Ql9V

>>376 - Does what count?

378 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-03 13:59 ID:nd/Uyakw

does anyone think long distance relationship will work?? alot of people tell me that its not gonna work but some say that depends on the people....

379 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-03 15:05 ID:dAUDd06u

i say 60-70% they dont work

380 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 00:25 ID:nd/Uyakw

i agree, the relationship is so far away and plus you cant see each other so whats the point of it??

381 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-04 04:07 ID:QlBOH6eU

begin in a relationship means spending alot of time with ur partner, so with that logic long distance relationships dont work, it realy depends on when ur gonna see her next or how often u see her

382 Name: Jstars : 2006-03-05 08:16 ID:f1w4Ql9V

While I'm very much a hopeless romantic and wish to believe with all my heart that love counqers all, I must sadly report that all instances of long-distance relationships that I've been witness too have failed.

One succeded, but that whole "long-distance" thing lasted all of four months or so, and they moved in together.

KEEP HOPE ALIVE! (But don't be a fool, eh?)

383 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 21:31 ID:Heaven

>>379
one could say that about relationships in general

384 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-05 21:33 ID:YBBNwzzV

Last night I realised that the girl that I've loved all these years died (metaphorically) a while back. Which is probably for the better considering it was unrequited love.

385 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 05:11 ID:2/V/+0/G

>>384

Happened to me not to long ago. I guess it helps you move on. I dont know though, ive yet to find a girl in which I can seriously like. Alot of the girls ive come to know are just party heads, and very high maintenance. Ones that wear too much make-up, really obsessive about clothes...you know those type of girls. Which I generally dislike.

Its really hard to find the nice simple girls now a-days.

386 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-06 07:00 ID:f1w4Ql9V

>>385

I agree. This is one of the reasons I've been getting by even though I've been single for quite some time now. It seems like the few girls I think would be the effort are taken, and everyone else is just so high-maintenence or so completely into things I'm not.

I met a girl recently, whom I've become good friends with. I didn't realize she was single at the time but now she's dating another friend of mine. At first I was upset/jealous, but then I started spending time with the both of them and realized that we probably wouldn't have made a good couple. She and her boyfriend are very much into going out to bars everynight, something I'm just not that into. I go along with them sometimes, but usually when it's a group of us so I don't feel so awkward.

Nevertheless, I have met girls who get along fine with my quirks, so I know they exist. They just all have boyfriends. ^^;;;

387 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-06 07:14 ID:nd/Uyakw

I've been thinking alot latley whether i want to try long distance relationship but its very true what you guys said.. whats the point of it? your so far away and cant even see each other. i mean just now i havn't heard from her for 3 weeks so i dont think it will work, its best to stay good friends. sometimes i really wonder what a relationship is like cos i have neen single for my whole life at the moment _| ̄|○" most girls i know are those "cool" types, i say hi to them and dont even get a reply ~~" by the way... if you have a dream... do most girls think your immature or something??

388 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-08 07:27 ID:J49bOfpc

I don't know about the long-distance relationship, can't really say that if it's ever a good idea or not. However, I have a friend who's been in one for 7+ years, and is better off than when I first met him... even though he laments here and there about not being able to talk to her.

As for hating to be single: yeah, I do hate being single, but that is what I made of myself... an existence of loneliness. I made myself this way, and this is the way I shall stay. Unfortunately, it's not that easy, for me at least, to want to continue to stay single. Even though it was, at the time ( and still is ), considered "not really one", the experience of spending time and effort with the opposite gender, has ripped the ignorance of relationships from my character sheet. I can no longer look at my apartment and say "yeah, I'm single... who needs others?" Now, it's more like "well, shit" than anything... but I'll continue my course to stay single... not for that crap known as "the one" or, more expanded "the one for me"... because there is no other reason why I should not be.

>>387

Depends on the level of shallowness and other factors of the girl themselves: some thinks it's nuts to dream, others think that it's good to set a goal and whatnot. Unfortunately, there's too many variables and whatnot to work with, but basically there's a wide range of answers to that one.

389 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-08 08:23 ID:nd/Uyakw

hmm i see! thanks for that!~

most girls i know think having dreams are immature people or something _| ̄|○" this girl i like is the only one that doesn't make fun of me because of my dream..

390 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-08 21:29 ID:YBBNwzzV

i don't think i've ever met a person that thinks having dreams is immature. foolish maybe but not immature lol

391 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-09 06:36 ID:nxYne074

maybe i am just unlucky that i met those type~"~

btw if a girl ask you out... does that mean anything?

392 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 06:42 ID:YBBNwzzV

depends what you mean by ask out. like on a date or just to hang out? she could see you as a brother or something.

393 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-09 08:28 ID:nxYne074

well... shes just returning some stuff she borrowed... but last time when we met, she dragged me to buy books with her and i bought her lunch. hhmm mayb just me thinkig to much ~"~

394 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-09 13:44 ID:YBBNwzzV

that doesn't really lean one way or another. that could be interpreted both ways.

395 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-12 13:39 ID:BUaKaHh9

really?? well i will just see what heppens later

396 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-12 14:28 ID:BUaKaHh9

hmm i just messaged the girl to see if shes free on wednday becasue apparently in the city there is going to be fireworks so i'm hoping i can ask her if she wants to go watch the fireworks... but maybe she doesn't want to go >"<

397 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-19 13:19 ID:3F/oIQez

Gahah, she does it again.

Me "Yeah so next week let's go to [....]" (awesome date spot)
Her "Ok ^____^"
Two days later
Her "Oh btw I invited two of my girlfriends along, hope you don't mind ^____^"
Me "...." %#^&*$#%^&@

Give-up time?
Also, bumping this thread so someone can 400GET.

398 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-19 21:07 ID:b3wnx4af

Ouch, that must suck. But I dont think you should give up... just yet.

Bumping as well. Eheh.

399 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-20 04:37 ID:s4goBvY4

sigh..... I don't know if its sad cuz I'm alone or its sad that I'm posting here =P

my parent finally left for Hong Kong for a while leaving me in canada a house/5 floors of emptyness... normally I would be like w00t, but now the house is just slient,

I'm a 18 year old Canadian male,
been though 6 relationships to date,
but lol ya know sometimes I think I know what those people mean by its easier to stay single if you have been single all along verus if you have dated before, before you date you don't feel like anything is missing or it can be replaced by gaming, anime, studying, etc... but few things can fill that void....

lol I need a beer (or probably not a good idea)

400 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-20 05:08 ID:ukcG5SZJ

*woo! 400th post! xD

anyway it turned out she never replied me back and stil we dont know when we are meeting. I'm also waiting for a reply from a girl that lives miles away from me! *sighh!~~"

>>399 i know whats its like being by ur self at home cos i know that silince and quietness at home! lol a beer is not the best idea! go watch a movie or do something on ur spare time! or even better jsut bum around 4ch xD

401 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-20 22:15 ID:b3wnx4af

>>399
I say, blast extremely loud music as you lounge around the house.

And on the subject of dating, I myself believe that if youre single, youre single, and if youre dating someone, youre dating. Theyre two different experiences.. Both with their pros and cons. Being single means you can basically do what you want and stuff, without someone there to be like, sorta nag at you in a way. But if youre in a relationship.. theres that whole "love" thing.

So theres my nonsensical ramble for today.

402 Name: Post 399 : 2006-03-21 21:02 ID:s4goBvY4

>>401 (sorry I don't know how to do that blue thing please teach me XD)

ya I know what you mean hmm I guess I'll rant a lil last winter/spring I was in a well not soo great relationship (she wanted me purely for physical reasons and I didn't want that so I ended it) afterward in summer I dated again but I just can't get the feeling out of my mind that I was being used so thus before anything got too deeper I sorta politly ended it with that other girl saying I wasn't ready yet and I don't want to hurt you she understood and was like but when you are ready if you ever wanna date again gimme a call

I never dated since... I still feel lonely at time but I guess that is my fault XD but I still don't think I should be dating I guess... dunno I have a weird life or I guess everyone goes though that as well.

403 Name: Nanuk : 2006-03-22 02:07 ID:QTy7eBk3

Man being fucking single sucks, I just left a short lived relationship a month ago, and before that not much else happened, a friend of mine is a total friggin tease and drives me off the wall, and so do afew others.
It sucks, but what can I do :/

404 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 02:10 ID:HDM8Z4h0

^ ^
masterbate?

405 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 02:16 ID:s4goBvY4

errr kay I'm probably gonna get called a lair or something

first I'm not gonna say I never masterbated nor will I say I will never do it again

but seriously for some people after a person as gone to a certain length in a relationship, well you sorta grow outta it

just like how I now find porn boring... I mean its the same shit over and over again...

basically what I'm trying to say is if a person lives in a hole all his life watching the shadows that appear on the wall its gonna be the coolest thing for him, but once he leaves that hole and sees the real world, then gets thrown back into the cave, watching shadows ain't what it used to be once you've seen the rainbow (sorry for using bits of Plato's "the allegory of the cave")

406 Name: fossil : 2006-03-22 07:53 ID:9TUGPvQ7

I am giant vagina when it comes to women. I am a freshman in college, and I am sitting terrified that I am going to ask a girl I really like out. I have asked out few girls out before, but I didn't care about the girls. They were just challenges me and my friends gave each other to pass time during our 'study sessions' are Barnes and Noble. I asked out a girl once, and got shot down. It didn't really bother me, it was a random girl, I didn't fucking care if she said yes or no.

Now I am in college. And now there is a girl I would without a doubt care if she said yes or no. I have never felt such a strong feeling for someone in my life, I also never felt such a terror in my life. I am very shy, I have an inferiority complex, thats why I took up the drums (Beatles reference). I have been taught that every action has a consequence, and it doesn't help that I am a pessimist.

I digress. This girl, she is my biology lab partner. I am guaranteed to see her once a week. She is our college's marching band is a fan of our basketball program as am I. Without a doubt, she considers me a friend, well at least I hope. Our lab is the last lab of the day, ends at 9:30pm, and I walk her to her room after class. However, I just see this as coincidence, since we both finish the assignment at the same time she being my partner and all and she her dorm is on the way to mine. We both like have similar interests (movies, music, love for the school's basketball team). She too plays an instrument; she is our marching band and was able to go with our beloved basketball team to the NCAA Tournament games. However, fate being ironic, decided to upset our team and she had to come home early, but that allow me to see her. In fact, when I saw her, when she got back, something inside of me said, 'you need to ask her out.' and this is where I am right now.

So, when, where, how...what the hell should I do? I am too nervous to think/to act. I think when the Perfect Situation comes, if it comes, I will recognize it and wuss out. I need to stop ranting, its 2:45 am and I have class at 9.

407 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 11:34 ID:LmrJqJhZ

wow. damnit. i just dreamt about someone i had a massive thing for a year or two ago. someone i haven't seen since back then, and am unlikely to see ever again, in reality. i suppose i'm not over him.

408 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 12:26 ID:NEy1E5/B

>I am giant vagina

the size of a hallway.

409 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 12:33 ID:NEy1E5/B

>>406

Though seriously.

You're waiting for the perfect moment. Don't wait for it. Just do it. If you wait for the "perfect situation" to occur you'll be 95 years old and still waiting for the "perfect situation." THEY DON'T EXIST. Better to try to MAKE a good situation. When she's not busy, ask if you can talk privately, and ask her out without vibrating or acting like a wuss. Just ask to see her privately somewhere, and ask her. The worst that can happen is she ties you up and whips you for a few hours before cutting your balls off and dipping you into a vat of iodine.

I know how it is when you like a pretty girl and you feel too embarassed to ask her out. Just ask yourself three questions constantly and reassure yourself. 1. Is she a good person? 2. Is she someone you could see yourself with a month or two down the road? 3. Is it better to just keep it at Friendship, if circumstances don't permit a deeper relationship? If those questions can be answered properly, then do it. NOTHING BAD will happen. She might turn you down. She might say, "Oh hey sure, how about Saturday?" You'll never know and you'll kick yourself in the ass if you never ask. And you'll never gain any confidence unless you try. Even if you fall flat on your face, you'll know how or how not to ask the question.

But for gods sake never let a turn-down or a heartbreak fuck you up. I let that happen and threw away three years of my life. Just get over it and don't keep asking yourself "what if" or "I shoulda coulda woulda", or you'd have learned nothing from your experience. "Take it like a man", and all that shit.

Hope this was helpful.

410 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-22 14:48 ID:ukcG5SZJ

I agree with >>409 perfect moment isn't for waiting, you have to act to get it. if you never experienced being shot down by a girl, its better if you try it cos you would know what its like but i must warn you its not a good feeling, the thing about being shot down is you must get over it ASAP otherwise it just drags your feelings down and you will feel even worse. I'm not trying to scare anyone here but just a warning about it! currently I'm waiting for someone i really like and i properly said that so many times xD anyway have some confidence!! you can do it!! ^^

411 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-22 18:34 ID:3OcaEuVf

>>406

Don't wait for the perfect moment that never exist if you want to ask her then just do it before its too late.

If you try to wait for the perfect moment you are only going to end up regreting it after you missed your chance.

With that said I'm not saying just randomly go up and ask, you have to well wait for the mood or chance to ask properly but that doesn't mean wait for the perfect moment basically

You should try to act quick before its too late.

412 Name: Miss Anonymous : 2006-03-22 18:35 ID:3OcaEuVf

>>406

Don't wait!!
Girls are usually sensitive... she can feel that there is sth going on.

Girls usually do the waiting, we are actually waiting for you to do the first move. Try to talk to her and really pay attention to the small details of her life. Make her feel that you care for her and is interested in her.

Oh.. and look her straight into the eyes when the moment comes, then ask her out!!!

413 Name: fossil : 2006-03-22 20:47 ID:1lcjlT/h

Thanks for the advice. I was reading my little rant, and man I really must have been stressed out. I had to write a history paper and a physics lab (in fact I had to do the lab twice, since I messed up the calculations). When I am really stressed out and left alone to hear my thoughts, well lets say things can go nuts. As of now I am far more calmer (skipped my morning class to get a extra hour of sleep and I eat a full meal for once). I'm hoping to ask her out by tonight for a date on Thursday. I have leave campus for the weekend, so I can't plan anything for the weekend. If I can't find her today, I will probably ask her out Monday after lab. Anyway thanks for the help, I'll try to keep you updated on my progress, if I get time to post (I am sitting in history lecture right now). Again thanks for all your help.

414 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-23 00:12 ID:fZRYruNM

goodluck!!!

415 Name: test1 : 2006-03-23 06:05 ID:4Dk1t+VT

tesuto

416 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-23 06:08 ID:4Dk1t+VT

moichido

417 Name: Miss Anonymous : 2006-03-23 14:38 ID:3OcaEuVf

GOOD LUCK!!!!!
I wish to hear ur good news :)

Don't freak out or act weird in front of her though, give her a good impression!

Way to go!

418 Name: fossil : 2006-03-23 23:36 ID:cFwpZCm/

Busy, I am way too busy.
I was able to see her at the dinning hall, as she was leaving while I was eating. I quickly ended my meal, and i hurried to catch up with her. Our dinning hall has two different exits on opposite sides of the building, and I chose the wrong side. orz

419 Name: Aquilo : 2006-03-24 02:12 ID:s4goBvY4

Awww, at least you tried^^

if you haven't already though try to get her contact/phone/msn/ for ummm "study purposes" XD and do some small talk after you ask about the lab to get to know her more likes/dislikes, and maybe just casually ask her out to lunch or something to start with then go from there

420 Name: Miss Anonymous : 2006-03-24 03:18 ID:2e7iSIxA

Awww man...

TEXT MESSAGE HER if you get her phone number.
It works really well, believe me.
But don't flood her inbox though...

And then when you two start getting pretty familiar, then you can start like calling her at night and start those "night time" chats. Seriously that will be a great leap!!

Good luck! :)

421 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-24 05:17 ID:F39LwJZC

texting wont work, they see each other at least once a week, i say next time u see her ask her out to lunch or somthing then working your way from there

422 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-24 07:45 ID:fZRYruNM

actualli i think Text message is better, cos u at least can talk to her but never double send, reply when she replies and if she doesn't reply then leave it, or u can ask for her email! GOOD LUCK ゚∀゚

423 Name: Aquilo : 2006-03-25 03:40 ID:s4goBvY4

the only problem with text and email is that well its not instant contact and also since its just word you won't get stuff like the tone of her voice or hints/ stuff like that, as in you won't have as much time to adjust accordingly to the situation.

424 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-25 07:29 ID:fZRYruNM

your right but you usualy start from text messages or email then later start from phone calls. like you can ask "hey do you want to talk on the phone? its easier then typing messages all the time", really depends on the girl actuali

425 Name: 421 : 2006-03-26 08:47 ID:F39LwJZC

there are no set rules on "first u start texting then....",
its basicly whatever works, i think the best thing u can do if ask her out to lunch or somthing, basicly where u just see her more often, and this will allow for you to get to know her better, text thing is somthing quick and for people that u dont see on a regular bais, but then again i never use sms unless some one texts me

426 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-26 14:53 ID:KMtmJOA5

personally depending on where you are the situation changes like in Japan most people text msg each other a lot.

but if you are in North America or Europe I think mostly people either use a msging system or phone.

427 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-27 04:02 ID:KMtmJOA5

ya personally I would try Msn or Msging system since it also gives you the option of Webcam and voice chats, for times when you want it.
hmm back on the topic of being a single rant thread

ya know life is messed sometime I'm happy with my freedom of being single and no longer tied with the strings of relationship.

Yet at other times, espeically when my friends talk about their perfect relationship or when I'm out and I see a lot of couples, part of my wishes I hadn't broken it off last summer. Part of my wishes I still had someone I could rely on, someone to talk rant to, someone to comfort and to be comforted by.

Sigh I wish next year would come then I can finally move into Residence at University and maybe start a new life

I guess I'm really lame eh?

428 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-27 08:06 ID:fZRYruNM

lol thats normal, some people prefer to be single but some people preger to have a relationship. the good thing about being single is that you can do what ever you want without someone stuck on you, but the good thing about relationship is that you can be with someone without beeing by your self.

429 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-27 14:05 ID:3OcaEuVf

>>427

I know how you feel but I guess you can't always have the best of both worlds, or I guess you could depending on how close and understanding your partner is.

430 Name: fossil : 2006-03-28 03:11 ID:rjgfAg0w

no luck

431 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-28 08:30 ID:fZRYruNM

sorry to hear ~"~

432 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-28 08:32 ID:fZRYruNM

my life of nothingness seems to come back to me.... i feel like i lost something but cant tell what it is~"~

433 Name: Aquilo : 2006-03-29 17:11 ID:Qf0MUnOb

>>432
lol the feelings of nothingness in our lives I think is something everyone in this single rant thread shares

and after joining 4-ch for a few weeks now I finally found out why this board appeals to a lot of people and why 2-ch got so famous, having the ability to post anonymously has allowed me to post a lot of aspect of life I haven't be able to share with other people^^ it really takes the weight off my chest I guess.

anyhow back to topic
The feelings of nothingness and something missing is a feeling most of us here share, you should try to fill it up with something even if its only temp solution. I use biking, studying, and photography to take up my time^^ I used to do gaming but I found out that only lead to more drama espeically if its an mmorpg lol. So rather than sitting here and reading this thread go outside and do something spring is here and the summer is coming, everyone should really go out and look for something to do because before you know it, time flies and you will end up regreting the time that has been wasted.

Regret is but the past trying to tell you not to waste the future and something not to be repeated. If you stay in the regrets of the past you will just end up regerting more as the future and present past you by...^^

lol I got off topic again sorry

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435 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-30 01:39 ID:Heaven

nice kopipe

436 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-30 07:12 ID:BLfTw3w7

>>433 your so right! somehow i enjoy being on 4-ch although most of us are just being anonymous. but somehow i have lost my intrest in girls for some reason, seems because in the past i been tricked by girls to many times that i properly just cant be bothered going for it anymore. somehow i think the girls i met are just using me for something..... well anyway i'm gonna try and find something to do rather then sit here all day reading the board!~ you guys should do the same! I'm using my time on my movies now xD! doesn't make me think that much when i work on my movies!~ find something to do and get stuck on it and you will find you life more intresting ^^

437 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 03:33 ID:Heaven

i'm lonely

438 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 04:13 ID:Qf0MUnOb

>>434

can anyone translate that? sorry I don't know japanese XD

>>437

its ok we all are lol (thats why we are here)

439 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-31 06:32 ID:BLfTw3w7

hahaha yeah xD!

440 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 07:17 ID:Heaven

>>438
If it's copype, it's not really important. Just some random usually unrelated rant copied and pasted in.

441 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 19:49 ID:3OcaEuVf

oh actually I tranlated some of it and its actually related

it was something about this rant about
a guy going to a new school
something about a cute girl
something about telling her he likes her and then something about regert

sorry my japanese skill = ewww

could someone translate it though? it does seems pretty interesting.

442 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-03-31 21:34 ID:OmcX3xeT

>>441 i am very bored now so i translated >>434 copipe :P

line 1 totally agree with you.
line 2 by the way,
line 3 i went to a bar with my old friend the other day
line 4 we went to the same kindergarten, elementary, middle and high school
line 5 but since we go to different colleges, it was the first time to see her in almost year and half
line 6 so we had so much to talk about. we kept talking and talking.
line 7 then, i noticed it was already midnight, so i was gonna take off.
line 8 but she was so drunk.
line 9 i never realized she was such a bad drinker.
line10 so i had no choice but take her home.
line11 on the way, she threw up many times, but i managed to get her place somehow.
line12 after having put her on bed, i exhaustedly sat down on the floor.
line13 then i looked at her sleeping face.
line14 i noticed she became very pretty while she was away.
line15 that moment i felt she was not just a friend but a woman first time in my life.

443 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-04-01 01:25 ID:xsHiGCi/

wooww this reminds me of this movie i saw where he took a drunk girl to a hotel xD Details Requested!

444 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-01 01:46 ID:Co6pRsmh

>>443
would that movie be My Sassy Girl by any chance?

445 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-04-01 04:44 ID:xsHiGCi/

i was thinking of the exact same thing !~

446 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-01 05:47 ID:I0+gPz/a

>>443
lol that sounds very much like My Sassy Girl XD
except the childhood part

447 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-04-01 07:45 ID:Heaven

I never thought kopipe would receive such a warm reception

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