Single Male Rant thread (643)

1 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-10-24 02:11 ID:YkyCf3Sr

I HATE BEING SINGLE!!!

450 Name: 352 2005-12-28 18:09 ID:Heaven

Shut up :(

451 Name: 352 2005-12-28 18:09 ID:Heaven

Oops, thought you meant me.
Could have been :/

452 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-29 03:30 ID:hO0OUebY

So you're still alive, and you've talked to her. What about? Come on, we need details!

453 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-29 10:02 ID:Ow0NP+t5

I wonder about the other two guys... Seems like magic stories like densha for example don't really happen that often.

454 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-29 16:12 ID:Heaven

Of course it's not going to happen that often. However, people at least have a chance if they put effort into it, and keep themselves motivated.

455 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-29 21:06 ID:Heaven

it seems MSN is gone... sigh...

well I wish the best of luck to the rest of you, but I will not be following this thread anymore. BENOIST!

...

456 Name: 352 2005-12-30 04:27 ID:P/o0ZAz5

>>452
I don't know anymore. I'm sorta confused.
I'm not sure I like her as a friend or something else.
Maybe I'll find out by doing something with her sometime, so I guess I'll ask her out sometime. Maybe.

457 Name: 352 2005-12-30 04:29 ID:Heaven

Also, I miss MSN-dude :(

458 Name: freshie 2005-12-30 06:22 ID:lQ6XKzgj

ALERT! Okay guys. New story here.

I might be asking this girl who's just a casual friend (for now) out for a New Years Countdown concert/fireworks thingy if I catch her on MSN later or something, cos a singer she likes is performing.

I'm banking on the fact that we live very near each other and the event takes place like 10 minutes away from our place.

But I haven't been contacting her much recently, so if anything comes out of this it'll be a bonus.

459 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-30 07:29 ID:hO0OUebY

>>456
If you don't like her in that way, then it can't be helped. It would be best to stay friends. If you're not sure though, it's no good to just leave it hanging. You should ask her out, at least to sort out your own feelings if not to woo her.

>>458
Good luck! Who's the singer?

460 Name: freshie 2005-12-30 08:02 ID:lQ6XKzgj

You probably wouldn't know, cos he's a mandarin pop singer. I'm living somewhere in Southeast Asia =).

BTW, I read through MSN Otoko's posts, and I found that I faced the exact same agony of not being able to H+I+Enter recently, cos the previous few conversations on MSN went quite boringly IMO.

I'm thinking about messaging her on her mobile phone if I don't catch her online, but it'll probably seem desperate?

461 Name: freshie 2005-12-30 08:43 ID:lQ6XKzgj

Okay, a group of my guy friends are also probably planning a night out in town to welcome the New Year. I'd feel like a dick for blowing them off for a girl (that's IF I actually get around to asking and her saying yes).

462 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-30 13:36 ID:P/o0ZAz5

Man, screw them. Don't you think they would blow you off for a girl? No? If not you should maybe wait until after new-year to ask her out.

463 Name: freshie 2005-12-30 14:29 ID:lQ6XKzgj

Okay, turns out to be anti climatic. Didn't actually get around to askin her out. I started off by messaging her mobile, asking if she was doing anything tomorrow and turns out she already had dinner plans. No surprise I guess, I would be lucky getting anything to happen, asking so late.

But judging from the response I 'm getting (through the the text msgs), I probably have a whole lotta work left to do before she's gonna go out with me anyway...

More significant developments (maybe), once my school term starts on the 3rd of January.

464 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-30 18:00 ID:Heaven

Hmm, dinner plans. Are you sure she's single? What kind of response did you get?

465 Name: freshie 2005-12-30 18:12 ID:lQ6XKzgj

Confirmed single, that one I know.

Lukewarm normal response ie nothing to show that she's excited that I'm msging her, the kind that goes "oh having dinner haha, why?". I don't msg her on the mobile regularly anyway, most of our contact is through MSN, despite the fact that we live 5 minutes away from each other and go to the same school (but different faculties ARGH).

there are so many coincidences b/w us I just feel it's fated.

466 Name: Random Anonymous 2005-12-31 19:03 ID:sNq7/BsH

>>464
probably a family or social event
maybe a girl's night out in town; akin to freshie's guy's night out

467 Name: freshie 2006-01-01 09:40 ID:+V6SiL7J

Turned out it rained heavily, so luckily it didnt go through lol. And guys' night out wasn't too bad, anyway happy new year single men!

Anyway I haven't wish her happy new year, should I? I thought maybe I would inject a little unpredictability. After all, I did wish her merry christmas and to have a good trip when she went overseas.

468 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-02 18:29 ID:hO0OUebY

No reason why not.

469 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-03 00:12 ID:Heaven

>>467
Don't forget to let us know how it goes if you do. We need DETAILS!

470 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 03:44 ID:Heaven

Bah. Too much joy. We're all loners.

471 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 03:51 ID:1H3Ezlsr

>>470

I don't see any joy in this thread. Just a lot of stories left hanging.

472 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 03:52 ID:Heaven

Okay, a better word would be "excitement".

I miss the depression and the moaning and the dwelling.

473 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 05:17 ID:eS0D9Qy2

mabye, they went on for a solution for themselves? or, it ended, and they dont wanna bother posting the end to it?

anyway, i got a story. how do you meet girls when you're 16? just, im totally baffled, i have no idea, clueless. seriously, any places you could reccomend i go, or whatever? im stumped. girls in my school regard me as a friend (nothing else, nothing less, nothing more, closed off), or, i just dont like their personality. lol, really, im just, totally clueless. think i should just wait till im in college? but ah, age is still years without a girlfriend. ive really, walked all over town, hung out at several different places, gone out to meet different people, but, like, i just dont see any girls my age at all even! ahhh wonder what to do, ill stay inside.......

474 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 05:59 ID:hO0OUebY

Where have you tried too meet girls?

475 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-04 07:02 ID:eS0D9Qy2

everywhere, seriously....lol, and i dont mean nerdy bookstore places or game stores either, if thats what youre thinking. just, alot of places

476 Name: Demian 2006-01-05 12:42 ID:+K92CEyn

It has been about two weeks since I posted here. Unfortunately, at least for some of the people on this board, I have not followed up on the plan which I developed together with 4-ch dwellers. The reason may sound lame to the adventurous, and perhaps ridiculous to others. However, since there were so many friendly souls here who tried to help, I feel an obligation to them to at least share this reason.

Even though my last few posts on this board were positive, I began to have doubts about the plan. The plan was excellent and might well achieve the goal I had set: to make a friendly, intelligent and pretty girl become interested in me and contact me. You guys helped me develop the plan and gave me strength, and for that I thank you. full stop.

But then what? After some no doubt exciting time we might become a couple? It sounds strange but the prospect does not motivate me. Does a man necessarily have to find a woman to share his life with? For that is what it means to become a couple, at least to me. I do not feel ready to share my life yet, I am content with being single. I did not tell you before that I live far away from my parents, I visit them only every three months. Perhaps you can imagine that it takes some time to adjust to a selfsustaining lifestyle - I have to do everything myself. With all the difficulties arising from this, I feel it to be premature to look for a romance.

Due to the above objections, I aborted the plan. It is too early and I don't want any of it as of yet. I apologize for the disappointment. Again, thanks to all of you who helped me. I will no longer participate in this board until, perhaps, I truly want to start a relation.

477 Name: freshie 2006-01-05 14:10 ID:XN4k0ZI6

I'm so fucking busy with school there's nothing much to update. Went home with her the other day, though it was only by coincidence, but seriously, school's taking up like 70% of my time. This sucks.

478 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-05 19:49 ID:Heaven

>>476
That's perfectly understandable. Please continue to participate in this board anyway; leaving it is not necessary.

479 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-06 10:21 ID:Ow0NP+t5

>>476

Makes sense to me, if you in your heart are not ready for that type of thing, then don't worry about it. When the time is right it will happen and then you will have to act.

480 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-08 00:39 ID:Heaven

THOUGH I ENJOY MY SINGLE LIFE I AM STARTING TO GET SEXUAL FRUSTRATION

481 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-08 06:09 ID:Heaven

>>480
amen to that

482 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-08 10:05 ID:Ow0NP+t5

>>480
No kidding

483 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-09 00:54 ID:qZLI6BmV

>>480
ditto

484 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-09 02:04 ID:Heaven

There's really no reason to post anymore. >>480 already summarized everything that will ever be said in this thread.

485 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-09 11:00 ID:Heaven

Cut thread here
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486 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-10 01:56 ID:Heaven

>>476
No need to apologize, it's your life. If you don't want to get into a relationship, our opinion is irrelevant. Please don't feel you have to leave 4-ch entirely, you're one of the more articulate people here.

Do keep her address stashed somewhere though, in case you ever change your mind ;D.

487 Name: yuri!CBNM9FQvIs 2006-01-10 05:43 ID:Heaven

oh my goddess i think i have done it broken out my singularity and now had a god damm girl friend

488 Name: yuri!CBNM9FQvIs 2006-01-10 05:45 ID:Heaven

>>487 confirmed i an no longer single

489 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-10 06:29 ID:1H3Ezlsr

>>488

GTFO

490 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-10 17:23 ID:/QsqTWSG

>>488
Congratulations and good luck!

491 Name: 352 2006-01-10 20:27 ID:P/o0ZAz5

Hey guys, been a while.

On saturday (the twelfth,) it's the girls birthday.
She invited me to her party, and said I could bring friends.

As you may have understood from my earlier posts, I'm not really the guy for parties.
I'm not really sure what kind of party this'll be, but considering she said there'll be around 70 people (including many of her male friends i don't know) I have a pretty good idea.
Also, of my friends, I can only imagine one who would want to go (and it's not likely),and I don't want to turn up there alone when nobody knows who the fuck I am, and I'll stand in the corner looking goofy and then leave early.

I actually want to go, but I don't really know what to expect.
Maybe I worry too much.

Anyway, I'll probably go, probably not.

492 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-10 21:46 ID:Heaven

>>487
Give us the DETAILS!

493 Name: 352 2006-01-10 22:23 ID:Heaven

Just noting the party is on saturday, not thursday.

494 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-11 01:38 ID:qZLI6BmV

>>493
gasp! lol, you should drag ur friend to come along, least one person with you anyway, it does ease the pain. or, well, try and meet new people? and eeeeeeeeeeeee, ive been in those situations before, and they ARE rough, but, just, gotta try and meet new people, and try and possibly get that moment alone with her =P, thats all i can think of i suppose....

495 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-11 08:31 ID:Ow0NP+t5

tall order...

Do your best and hopefully get some alcohol in your system. Should help you relax

496 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-11 15:01 ID:Heaven

Of all the days of the week I can ask her out, I choose the one when she's the busiest. Awesome!

497 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-11 23:02 ID:P/o0ZAz5

>>496
Dude, you'll get another chance, seriously.

498 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-11 23:18 ID:Heaven

I'm too shy. I never know how to approach girls.

499 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-12 01:35 ID:Heaven

Welcome to the club. (´・ω・`) sigh

500 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-12 01:44 ID:1H3Ezlsr

I'm the 500th lonely guy on 4-ch.

501 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-12 03:09 ID:Heaven

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This thread is over!

Please post your present and future troubles here:
http://4-ch.net/love/kareha.pl/1134449447/l50

Thank you for playing!

502 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-12 16:18 ID:Heaven

waaah, we could have at least taken this one to 1000 before closing it!

503 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-17 20:40 ID:Heaven

I HATE BEING SINGLE!!!

I also hate my friend who steals all girls I want.

504 Name: 352 2006-01-19 16:18 ID:P/o0ZAz5

I really hope the people who were reading/posting to this thread are on the new thread, now :(

505 Name: BENOIST 2006-01-19 19:35 ID:Heaven

hay guys! how do i saged thred?

506 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-23 17:17 ID:M6FPq5pQ

and i just thought of joining this thread

507 Name: B bro 2006-01-23 17:25 ID:M6FPq5pQ

really hope that someone replies to this, need to rant too

there this girl, who ive been close to for about a few months but weve been nothing but friends. in fact weve been considering ourselves as brother sisters, she treats me like an older brother and vice versa.

the thing is, i somehow wanted more out of this, i actually wanted to have a real relationship with her, i really think i got a chance. but then a month ago she just got another bf. i tried to not care but i cant overlook the fact that i am a bit jealous and wished i told her my feelings.

now i cant seem to get her out of my mind. even though i dont want to think about someone elses girl, she keeps on getting into my head. everytime i get online i wished that her name comes online, everytime the phone rings i wished it was her. not sure what going on with me.

i probably know this wont go far but i just need someone to tell me somethine about this. thinking by myself doesnt usually see the situation from another perspective..need some opinions

508 Name: Random Anonymous 2006-01-23 19:13 ID:Heaven

Please go to http://4-ch.net/love/.

509 Name: エルメス 2006-02-03 10:40 ID:Heaven

Wannabe 電車男s...

510 Name: uthich : 2006-10-28 21:31 ID:SMbk/gOz

that's sad to hear B bro..same sort of thing happened to me to. Just that my girlfriend stopped her loving towards me..then she one day called me over skype and told me that she felt that I was more like a brother to her..what a bummer!

511 Name: Anonymous : 2006-10-29 03:43 ID:Heaven

This thread has peacefully ended.

512 Name: Anonymous : 2006-11-05 22:58 ID:EGdACk0o

I hate my single life. I get so depressed seeing gfs & bfs on the street and in Japanese Dramas. (-__-)......(T__T)

513 Name: Anonymous : 2006-11-06 06:41 ID:Heaven

>>512 Make happier text faces and girls will like you!

514 Name: Anonymous : 2006-11-06 08:21 ID:Heaven

>>513 It doesn't work, you liar! (T_T)

515 Name: kulangot : 2007-04-04 03:31 ID:166DbyF/

were like in densha otoko story

516 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-26 10:49 ID:4POohq4B

I had to break up with my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to go out with an european guy (she's chinese).
Ridiculous, isn't it...

517 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-26 13:55 ID:bb4xDJbC

>>516
You should've told her parents that you would have hot eurasian babies.

518 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-26 15:48 ID:4POohq4B

Haha, well, I wouldn't have been posting here if I did that, now would I? (´∀`)

519 Name: Latent Talent : 2007-04-27 08:53 ID:lHpQlL0b

You know Densha Otoko was a great love story! Why don't you go out and make your own love stories come true. Nothing will be solved by just sitting around and hoping that your own story of life will take a sudden twist and you'll be right in the center of your own story! This is like a RPG game! The story won't move forward unless you use your own will and make it move forward. All my life I've been waiting for love to come to me, now I see that it won't come unless I invoke it! Try your best! If someone doesn't make the first move in chess then the conclusion will never happen.

520 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-27 09:05 ID:4POohq4B

Too much Games/Drama references... must...resist...murderous...urges...

But you're right, >>519, you are right. :)

521 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-28 04:46 ID:iJMaSbVd

NOOOoooooooooOOOOOOOoo
Why am I here!!! :/

522 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-28 05:30 ID:QrLhL4ep

Is being in love such a great thing, that we obsess over it so much?

523 Name: Latent Talent : 2007-04-28 19:38 ID:tflsZq8i

Of course! For without someone to love there is no way we as humans will be able to strive for life itself!

524 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-28 20:25 ID:Heaven

Who told you people that you could revive this thread?!

525 Name: Latent Talent : 2007-04-28 20:28 ID:tflsZq8i

I just joined so I wasn't sure if this thread was dead or alive.

526 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-28 21:42 ID:zuLXaJU/

>>525

You don't join this website.

527 Name: Latent Talent : 2007-04-29 03:08 ID:tflsZq8i

yeah I know I meant I just joined "in" not literally join.

528 Name: かやしゅ : 2007-04-29 07:50 ID:4POohq4B

>>524 Don't be an ass, alright. We posted in this topic because you can't leave a question unanswered. So sit down and let us socialize.

529 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-30 12:35 ID:eOO/4xQ4

i was obsesed with a girl and now that i lost her, i feel so lonley....

530 Name: Anonymous : 2007-04-30 16:46 ID:Heaven

i was obsessed with a girl... now she wants to be friends with me and i'm trying to explain to her that i really do want to be friends with her, but i can't.
she's not making it easy...

531 Name: Anonymous : 2007-07-02 17:00 ID:Heaven

POSTING IN A LEGENDARY THREAD

532 Name: AppleGuy : 2008-01-06 07:53 ID:+NJj5n0s

is this thing still going on? i just did a little google and i stumbled upon this site..

btw i just watched densha otoko =P

and.. i hate being single.

533 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-06 20:47 ID:MT2bw0fh

This thread says so much about imageboards in general.

534 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-06 20:58 ID:bUqsf561

>>533
what imageboard?

535 Post deleted.

536 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-09 03:27 ID:mfnXYNHq

I think I learned rather quickly that you're not supposed to let a woman know you like her, at least until you're sure she likes you.

It's getting her to like you, without letting you know that you like her, that's the problem...

...and even if you can do that, it's hard to know when it's OK to admit.

537 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-09 16:41 ID:nbgbCAbj

>>536
I found that being highly social, but otherwise ignoring the issue of women, worked pretty well. Go out, have fun, be friendly, be seen.

That way it works in reverse: some women will inevitably like you. Once you notice who (might), then you can decide whether the reverse applies. Everyone has a good time in the meantime.

538 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-11 06:01 ID:653O5nVz

BAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

539 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-11 11:42 ID:JzYly/Qn

I am in the friend zone with a female i was trying to woo.

540 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-11 11:43 ID:YjV0+pAc

I love masturbating

541 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-12 17:34 ID:Heaven

I'm masturbating to >>540 right now.

542 Name: Anonymous : 2008-01-22 23:26 ID:Heaven

Problem with being a single guy: if you go out alone, you have the stink of death on you. Unless you can somehow convince yourself to look happy, the only people you'll meet are cell phone salesmen.

543 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-05 13:31 ID:L+PeDDge

im an english otaku, so i kno theres no hope for me in this world lol...

544 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-06 05:06 ID:Heaven

>>543

>english
>im an english otaku, so i kno theres no hope for me in this >world lol...

LOL.

545 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-06 07:12 ID:6T6M7iAU

I have to do a project for college by tomorrow, guess I'd better get startede

546 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-06 07:12 ID:6T6M7iAU

I have to do a project for college by tomorrow, guess I'd better get started

547 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-10 04:17 ID:ood0foMe

Sorry. I've betrayed you all, too...
I'm not good with words, so I can't lay it all out well, but...

This thread has WAY too much magical power...
Glory to you all...

548 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-10 08:24 ID:Heaven

>>547
Don't bother.

549 Name: Anonymous : 2008-05-10 17:06 ID:Heaven

>>547
this post rules

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