Virgin Thread (333)

1 Name: SynthL0rd : 2006-01-04 01:21 ID:VJ744lXT

So, how many we got here?. I'll start with myself.

201 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 00:08 ID:uoQADJa5

201 is a virgin, and not proud. I'm not using the shitty excuse "I'm waiting for the right moment" because truthfully it can be any time now. It's not like i want to do it in a drunk stupor at some house party. I guess I'm not even really old yet, so I'm not in the biggest hurry. Though, I would like to experience this sex...

202 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 03:03 ID:Heaven

wow, this thread is really popular.

203 Name: lolnerds : 2007-07-11 04:36 ID:Heaven


204 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 08:16 ID:ADO4MFLj

lolz at u people! I lost my virginity when i was 16. Sex is awesome! Yay for sex! All of you go have sex!

205 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 08:59 ID:Heaven

lolz gaiafag!

206 Name: Kira : 2007-07-11 09:21 ID:EQ/1p/JV

I rather not lose my virginity when I am young thanks.
People thinks losing virginity is something like trophy but really it's pathetic.
I know sex would be great thing if your in love but if you want to brag about it, then that's just sad.
Remember people getting married and having a long relationship (then having sex and such) is better than losing virginity from a girl who will leave you right away.

207 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 10:10 ID:ADO4MFLj

what means gaiafag? anyway, nothin with fag can apply to i, (204) cos i a girl :)

its not 'people' who thinks losing virginity is a trophy or something to brag about, its mostly just idiotic males that think that.
sex is definitely best if you're in love with the person, i definitely agree with that :)
about guys waiting till they get married, hmm myself and a vast amount of other females would much rather marry a guy with at least some amount of experience. they need to know what they're doing!
waiting for marriage or a really special relationship cos u genuinely want to do that is great! but there are a lot of people who just havent had a suitable opportunity and use such things as an excuse, which is dumb.

208 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 11:03 ID:Dc4AOj+X

I'd rather a female have no experience myself. Thats mostly because I think that if neither partner has experience in sex, that sexual compatibility becomes much less of a problem.

That, and I was raised with old values. And I want to marry a virgin. If I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't bother marrying one or hunting one, since I would believe it wouldn't be fair for a potential partner and vice versa.

I remember being younger and I had my first gf online. I was naive then. If she wasn't an online gf. I would have definately lost my virginity then. But I'm glad she was, otherwise I wouldn't have the values I do have now.

209 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 12:52 ID:hWtBx2+A

>waiting for marriage or a really special relationship cos u genuinely want to do that is great! but there are a lot of people who just havent had a suitable opportunity and use such things as an excuse, which is dumb.

Exactly how is that dumb? The way I see it, is that anyone could get sex if they really wanted to. Lower their standards, even paying for it. As far as I'm concerned, in this day and age, virginity is harder to keep than to lose. The fact that people lose it, just for the sake of losing it, is dumb.

210 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 13:17 ID:3J/dUxsL

Is it okay to be virgin with 17 <__<?

211 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 14:08 ID:virHXaI7

i don't think there's necessarily a problem with wanting to keep or lose your virginity. honestly, i think you're all making way too big a deal about it. in the long run, what does it really mean? what does it matter?

personally, i think it's better for people to have a variety of experiences with a variety of people, in order to help calm the wandering minds and "what ifs" that come with settling down.

212 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 18:30 ID:Dc4AOj+X

She's not saying waiting is dumb. She's saying using it as an excuse because you haven't had an oppurtunity for it is dumb.

What does it mean? It means alot to me. It's my conviction. If I break it, I'll always have an itch in my mind about it. It'll be annoying. What-ifs don't bother me, Since all those what-ifs could be played out with a wife by my side.

213 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-11 22:34 ID:Heaven

waiting is probably dumb.

214 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 03:24 ID:aAHxbnA+

IMO, it's better to get some experience so that when you meet the one you really do want to keep forever, you're not completely clueless.

215 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 03:38 ID:Dc4AOj+X

People who say that honestly drive me nuts, I'm not exactly sure why. I respect that they think that. But when they say it, they say it in just a way that makes it so condescending to people who believe otherwise.

216 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 05:27 ID:hWtBx2+A

I know what she's saying. I'm saying, so what if they use that as an excuse? In my opinion, it's just the same as people who go around proudly announcing the fact that they've lost their virginity. Quoting one of her previous posts;

>lolz at u people! I lost my virginity when i was 16. Sex is awesome! Yay for sex! All of you go have sex!

It's really not a big achievement if you consider how easy it is nowadays.

217 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 06:28 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Ah, the way you sounded, I thought you misunderstood her.

And sadly, it's way to easy to lose it.

218 Name: Yuuichi Sato : 2007-07-12 07:34 ID:p0kRPoeY

I agree. I'm a virgin so it may not exactly be my place to say that but it isn't really a big achievement.

Actually it would be a bigger achievement to lose it on your wedding night.

Not that I'm waiting for that but seriously, nowadays that's really somethin'.

219 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 08:13 ID:UcihOG1A

in my opinion it's when you're making excuses out of embarassment etc that being a virgin becomes something to laugh about.

my first post, i was just lightheardetdly typing, happily thinking of sex, and now all this lol! i should think before i type, huh? i shouldn't have lol'd, but really, come on.... after that many people confessing to being virgins on a board like this...
i hadn't intended to sound like i considered it some kind of acheivement or something, but looking at what i posted, i should really read what i write before i click reply somtimes lol

220 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 08:56 ID:AjFU+3GP

Virginity, or just sex in general, should be shared with somebody you care about.

People who wait for marriage, that's okay. People who don't, that's okay also, in my opinion.

Sex feels good and it's something special to share with somebody special. I don't feel that somebody special should be a husband/wife exclusively. Just think and be smart and protect yourselves once you're ready.

I think if people waited utnil they were really sure they could trust and talk with other people about sex, then it would be okay. People always think they'll be with their first loves forever and I know it rarely happens. Also with the divorce rate as high as it is, there's not really a sanctity of marriage to think about anymore.

That's why if you're in a relationship, make it count, and love each other.

That's all

221 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-12 09:11 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Yea, the divorce rate. Thats why I like to go after girls who are virgins. Because if they treasure their virginity that much and worked hard to keep it. It means to me that they will do the same to a relationship.

I really don't plan on divorce either. In this day and age, it's way to rampant too.

222 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-13 09:46 ID:JOdCTJw4


I think you'd miss out on meeting great people if you only look for virgins, though. Not all people who have lost it before marriage are sluts; and they can hold relationships as well.

If you found somebody you really cared about who wasn't a virgin, would you dump them because of that?

Too much emphasis on virginity.

223 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-13 19:54 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Maybe, maybe not. But I feel I really will regret it if I don't look for it. And I don't want it gnawing the side of my head whenever I think about it. I have enough things gnawing at me.

224 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 04:35 ID:nEnMr/Xc


I'm nearly 18, female, and i've only had one boyfriend. And he was an asshole anyway. the relationship was non-exsistant. I tried to make it work, he ignored me.

I'm all for sex. Although, I'd like to know the guy fairly well first. I've gotten rather frustrated though, no guys will even approach me. It's not like I'm not an eyesore, I've had lots of people tell me i'm pretty. I started thinking of reasons why guys haven't shown any interest in me. I can be shy at times, and I have had tons of people tell me I look like I'm 12, so perhaps I appear too 'innocent'?

225 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 07:38 ID:g48Tgnxq

maybe you should dress up abit and go to a bar or something

226 Name: 43 : 2007-07-15 07:52 ID:zSpNKdfv

22 years old.

I remember back when I was 15 my best friend implied she'd pay me to have sex with her just because at the school she transferred to she was the only virgin so she just wanted to get rid of being the odd one out. I refused...

When I was 16 I had a 4 month long relationship that kept me away from my studies and I didn't really feel anything in there. After we split up she turned into a stalker and would call me twice a day. Then she implied she would do anything to have me back. I refused...

When I was 17 I had another 4 month long relationship which was particularly awkward. I had this bimbo chick who confessed to me and I said "ok" just to make her shut up 'cause i thought she was fooling around with me but she was serious. I remember she was a year older than me 'cause she had failed and also I remember I couldn't stand her conversation which was 90% about her and 10% about the thing she liked or disliked. So instead of listening to her I'd teach her maths instead. She held my hand once and that irritated me so I told her I didn't like being touched to which she replied that she had the cure for that while she held my middle finger in a suggestive way while giving me a glance with a flirting expression on her face. I refused and said stuff that I reckon made her feel bad and lowered her self-esteem as female...(i regret saying that shit BTW)

Now that I talked to some girls I met a long ago they have said they used to like me but I seemed to be unapproachable. It seems I pretty dumb for guessing people's feelings and I also lack the skill to handle such situations. Which makes me wonder, maybe there is someone who likes me at this very moment but my ineptitude wont allow me to notice. I don't care about virginity now, but I'd like to be on a relationship. Also, I'd like to go back in time and slap myself for being an asshole at that time.

227 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 10:34 ID:Heaven

That's insane. I am in the exact fucking boat.

228 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-15 21:40 ID:ckqB+EJ5

Come over to my place ; )

Oh, and I must ask for the obligitory PICS. You sound cute.

229 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-17 11:07 ID:aAHxbnA+

You look 12? Where do you live? What's your phone number?

230 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-22 23:15 ID:Q1MpqE6H

I'm turning 19 in December. I'm a virgin. I'm not supposed to be one, but the one time I was supposed to have sex I came too early and it was fucking embarrasing, and she dumped me a week later.

231 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-25 16:24 ID:Heaven

19 going on 20, still a virgin.
Don't worry folks-- if losing my virginity were important to me, I'd have hired a prostitute years ago!

232 Name: Rii : 2007-07-28 19:41 ID:Jl+zzL+9

Well it really is not big deal, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years so I finally let him do it-I lost mine about 2 months ago...girls the 1st time hurts like hell and it will hurt the next few times. But it will get much better ^.^

233 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-31 02:06 ID:CwjFkEaQ

19 already, still a virgin, in no hurry. Something about learn to masturbate, come in handy.

234 Name: uemei : 2007-08-02 03:17 ID:m3102R9f

26 years old. I don't think that with 0 Exp. I can be loved for my sexual performance. I don't want to be 'trained' to do sex the way an experienced woman wants me to, but rather to learn how to with some one of my own Lv.

I've considered foreign romance, but allot of the times traditional values are accompanied by traditional gender roles, and I don't want to be with some one who is content in their life being a brood mare.

In America only 1 in 20 women maintain their virginity to adulthood, and that number declines sharply between 25, and 27, which are the average ages of 'initial' marriage in the US.

Surveys list sex, or a euphemism there of, as the number one thing people would do if the world was going to end. I'm not sure I would, because I want to REALLY be loved, and want to inspire actual sexual attraction in my hypothetical lover.

235 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-02 04:32 ID:rSYE4ewt

Good luck finding love in a pinch when the world is about to end.

On the other hand, it seems like the brothels would crowd up too so sex may not really be an option either.

236 Name: Sweet memory : 2007-08-16 11:09 ID:XGP3cC0n

well.. this year i'm 18, and i still virgin.. proud of that though i don't know exactly why ^^; maybe because of my east culture ^^ it's a little bit taboo in my country ^^

237 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-16 12:54 ID:cISWFKyl

This year 21, still virgin.

0! (=Zero) experience with girls/women. And no chance for getting one in the future.

Even to ashamed to go to a brothel or hire a prostitute :(

Well i think i will stay abstinent for the rest of my (hopefully short) life ;(.

238 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-16 13:42 ID:P4AsCPSA


Shit, man, that's not really how love works. It was more than just the damn looks. She was a really nice, likeable person, one of those people that can really understand someone. And that's not even a good picture of her. Here's a video of her for your benefit:

(hint: she's the chick in the bunny girl suit fucking up "God Knows")

And yeah, you're probably right that she's overrated, but Jesus Christ, what a mess I was when I fell in love with her. I don't really understand why I did it. But it's messing me up hard, and as hard as I try and as busy as I keep myself, I can't really get her out of my head. It's like, no matter how busy I can keep myself with 4chan, work, and video games, she always comes up in my mind to remind me that I fucked up spectacularly. It doesn't help that I'm going to the same university as her in the fall.

Right now, I just either want to get back with her again, but I know that'll never happen.

239 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-17 00:42 ID:HR+hdcdn

24, a decent amount of experience with women, but no sex. Damned 40 Old Virgin Movie comes out, jokes about my virginity increase exponentially. Planning to put a revolver in my mouth soon.

240 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-17 03:51 ID:mGpjzL2V

25, virgin, never been with a girl. I don't feel sad about missing out on fucking, really, sometimes I just feel lonely.

It's not that I'm ugly, stupid, boring or anything like that, I just seem to be too different. People don't know what to make of me. I don't talk much, I save speaking for when I have something I feel is worth saying, but then I'm not awkward about it.

I like being on my own mostly, but it's also nice chilling with friends, but whenever we go out it's like I cannot get it in my system to look for and approach girls. I just stay cool, hang out and have fun.

Several times girls have been trying to get my attention, especially after they have gotten to know me, but when that happens it's like I don't understand until way later.
I've started to get a bit tired of being lonely, but then again I don't know if it would be that much better with someone?

Maybe I'm just the kind of person who is suited for being alone.

241 Name: Sweet memory : 2007-08-18 14:11 ID:TF9DJG18

just do it when you ready and you are going to make in love with the person who you really love.

don't do it because curiosity or because you think "it's the time i must do that" =.=

no feeling no soul and useless

242 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-19 07:00 ID:N8oW1leR

recently 18, virgin
I've had all of one girlfriend, it lasted three months. She decided to become a whore only AFTER we had broken up, though I suppose that's for the best.

243 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-19 15:53 ID:fxGVl59M

21 years old virgin, chain-smoking compulsive gambler. I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, but they were short-lived and never got far.
I actually had a whole lot of stuff to say but then I scrolled up and saw >>167 who actually put everything I wanted to say and as well as answered some of my questions in those 2 lines. Everyone take notes.

244 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-22 18:51 ID:UjdcIJyt

if you're gonna have sex, i don't suggest doing it with a prostitute.
they're dirty...
and sex is such a passionate thing to do, why would you do it with somebody random who has slept with all these other blokes?
no offence to any prostitutes on the board

18/virgin and i'm okay with that
i've got traditional views in regards to sex
like the whole, "no sex before marriage stuff"
the possibility of pregnancy haunts me

>>70 my first kiss was so sudden. it felt gross ><
i feel so stupid to have my first kiss taken away by some guy who has been given a BJ ;______________;

245 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-22 22:58 ID:HC9ZC4nL

I'm 19, a virgin, and I've never so much as even been on a date or anything. Being a pedophile doesn't help any...

246 Name: TS : 2007-08-23 07:20 ID:dLGxnUNT

20, virgin.

unless your right hand counts, which i believe doesnt.

247 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 08:41 ID:hXkRj+x7

Turning 28 in a few days, virgin male. Not even a kiss.

I don't have any particular problem with it, aside from the irrational fears about never finding love and what not. Though this one girl, upon finding out I was a virgin, apparently began to like me (I later found out that she refuses to even consider someone who's not a virgin). That really bothered me. The same way I don't want to be liked solely for my looks or for how well off I am/what I do, etc. Call it a deep-seated insecurity if you will, but I want to find someone that really likes me for me - the whole package - and I want to find someone for whom I feel the same.

Hang in there kids, be proud of who you are, virgin or no. Or at the least, don't start worrying until you're old and wrinkly like me. :D

248 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 09:12 ID:Dc4AOj+X

One thing you should look at towards that girl, is if she's a virgin herself. If she is, she's probably happy that there is a male just like her.

If she isn't, She could either greatly admire your determination, or is just after your cherry.

It really depends on the girl. Thats why you gotta get to know them ya know.

249 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 10:25 ID:AJUEcDeF


Don't feel bad at all... I'm turning 27 in week or two, and I'm in the exact same case, not even a kiss... You're not the only one who's feeling scared about being "old"...

250 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-25 13:01 ID:mWnDRu4g

18, virgin.

I once had the chance when I was 15 with this beautiful girl, we had been friends for quite some time and I really liked her, but when she started coming on to me I got scared of ruining our friendship so I refused her, and then I did something I still can't figure out why. I told her we shouldn't see each other anymore.

Ever since then I've had this feeling I don't deserve anybody else, I still feel that way, I'm sure she got really hurt as well so I cant really forgive myself.

251 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 05:48 ID:u79U4WQj

20 year old virgin. Bisexual that feels that both genders is fine, but goes after love before sex. Probably why he's still one. Not to mention the fact that he can't really hear that well so he doesn't socialize.

Is dating someone that lost theirs at 18. Person is a year younger than him, and he feels this eating away at his heart feeling. Doesn't know what to do, but that's not for this thread I'm sure.

252 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 08:50 ID:hXkRj+x7

Have you thought about talking to her about it? Maybe that would help you resolve some of that guilt that weighs so heavily on you still. But you know what? Sometimes people hurt each other, even if they have the best of intentions. You just can't help what your heart feels and sometimes that means another heart gets broken as a result. That doesn't mean you're not a good person - you are. And you deserve to forgive yourself. I think maybe she already did, years ago. And if she hasn't, I'm sure she certainly would, if she knew why you did what you did.

I got to know her pretty well over a year or so. And yes, she was a virgin herself. But she told me even if she wasn't a virgin anymore, her thinking wouldn't change. The reason why she didn't want to be with a non-virgin is because she couldn't stand the idea that he'd been inside someone else (her words) - to her he'd be 'dirty'. I thought that was a really selfish and irrational way of thinking. I'm supposed to be 'clean' because I've never been with another woman before? And as a result, desirable? Anyway, it's a bit of a story in itself, her and I, but that's for another time, not for this thread.

Do you worry that it's a red flag for a girl that finds out? I do, sometimes. But I guess that's part of the package, isn't it? And if it's an issue for the girl, then I guess she's not the right one eh? Keep your head up bud, I'm cheering you on! And happy birthday, go out and celebrate :)

253 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 10:04 ID:Dc4AOj+X

haha, you should read another thread on this board. The girlfriend wanting to have sex or not thread. Very similar stuff for what the girls says about virgins and all.

254 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-26 11:34 ID:iNvYs0DU

45 ;_;

255 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-27 08:28 ID:J2QMXpqW

I was starting to get in her, leaning in.
But she was tight, too tight, it hurt her.
So we stopped. Next day I left for home, relation suspended.

22. I guess technically still virgin. Its really pending in grey area though :(

256 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 20:58 ID:6MZKJYy0

I lost mine to some dude who couldn't give less of a shit about me, but he pretended to. I'm not really sad about it...I chalk it up as experience

257 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-30 22:17 ID:Prv2cxTi

19 I don't even talk to people

258 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-08-31 03:08 ID:JabwTqHF

I was a virgin until 19 (still am 19), and I feel very happy that I waited until I found someone I loved. You don't want to do this once in a lifetime thing with someone who doesn't give a shit about you. However, I'd also venture that your relationship can't progress without sex, because it really DOES bring you a lot closer. That's all the input I have to this thread.

259 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-01 22:30 ID:SwOGr6PT

19, virgin

260 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 02:46 ID:jN0CVzhJ

When you lose it you realize its not such a big deal, so getting laid becomes much easier. This is all you need to know.

261 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 06:48 ID:7WtXWfmu

I lost it and it's a fucking big deal for me. I wish that bitch wasn't the one who devirginized me.

262 Name: uemei : 2007-09-02 07:11 ID:m3102R9f

I think keeping sex 'a big deal' would actually make it more romantic, and prevent cheating. I'm not opposed to liberal attitudes, but if sex is not treated like 'a big deal' then why is it a part of the legal, institution of marriage, and why is it people get mad when their partner 'cheats?'

The statistics do support your stance, but it's only by our own will that we can make, and keep, such things as sex, and virginity precious.

263 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 08:31 ID:7WtXWfmu

People who rarely have sex enjoy it better than those that do it casually. See, the interest only gets stronger, and so is the fun.

So basically, those who values sex actually have more fun than those who don't.

264 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-02 08:57 ID:uLB3JqPX

Lost my virginity at age 19 to a woman seven years older. That relationship didn't last but really glad I lost it to a more experienced person. Learned where the clit is, learned how to be a considerate lover, and experimented a lot. If you can find someone experienced, would highly recommend it. Would think it would be much better than both people being clueless.

265 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-05 09:32 ID:Wx59ewHR


Sex is not a part of the legal institution of marriage. Well, if there's a country where the law of the land says it's illegal to have extramarital sex, then I'm not aware of it.

People (especially women and their parents) used to tie sex into marriage much more back when sex meant children.. but it doesn't have to anymore which led to the erosion of that connection.

Anyway, sex is always going to mean different things to different people. Some people attach religious or spiritual meaning to it. For some, it's just part of their job. For others, it's their way of feeling superior. What does masturbation, which is essentially having sex with yourself, mean to you? If you look at virginity as just a social label, maybe you'll be able to let go.

266 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-06 22:46 ID:6B/mHPPx

28 y/o virgin male here...never kissed, never had a relationship, etc. Don't know if I ever will, but I'm not going to just go out and give myself to anyone. If I DO get married someday I don't want to be comparing my wife to other girls or 'grading' her on her 'performance'. I only want to know her and nobody else, because then I'll know it as the best, the worst, and everything in between. If I want "experience" I'll just ask for advice from people.
...Plus I don't want any part of the potential for disease, children, drama, etc. that sexual relations often bring. Forget that. Not worth it, IMO.

Unfortunately, seems like most girls who on the rare occasion showed interest in me refused to date a guy who wouldn't sleep with them. -_-; Obviously I rejected them all. Hopefully someday I'll find someone who'll respect my desire to wait.

267 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 00:06 ID:BCTPGhtX

ahh. its hard to find guys like you! =]

268 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 00:30 ID:BCTPGhtX

>>266 you're the male version of me! except 10 years older!

269 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 04:16 ID:NB+J+1xf


266 posting from home [was at work earlier.]
Indeed, I feel like I'm an endangered species sometimes. Finding girls like you is difficult, too. =[ I have no idea even where they'd even be hiding. As for me, I tend to hang out in online games [Mabinogi, TFC soon to be TF2, Follow Freeman, etc.]. Gaming isn't just my hobby, it's also my job. :P

270 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-07 04:32 ID:Dc4AOj+X

Don't worry, you aren't alone. It just feels like it because we are spread so far out. I'm waiting to marriage myself. Although I want neither me nor my future wife to compare each other with past sexual encounters. Even if it's unconciously.

271 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 18:33 ID:EPvSFzHF

I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, never had a date, never got kissed, never made sexy time. And it's no one's fault but my own. I'm 5'11" and slightly (or perhaps not so slightly, haven't checked in a while) over 300 lbs. I can't blame women for being disgusted and repulsed by me. Additionally, I work a dead-end tech support job, so not only do I get paid shit, 99% of the population here is male. All of my free time is spent playing MMO's or fapping to doujinshi.

There are no decent places to meet people in my area. We don't have "clubs", just blue-collar bars where low-lifes hang out. The bar down the street is actually pretty scary. It's not a gay bar (its your run-of-the-mill hick bar) but all the bull dykes who work at Harley Davidson seem to gather there.

I tried the eHarmony thing for a while (since one of my co-workers met his wife there), and wow, what a mistake that was. It was a learning experience, though. Specifically, I learned that when I can't fall back on discussions about video games and super robots, and jokes about smegma, that I am a dull, dull person. Even the desperate buttertrolls on that site rejected me.

I try not to be emo about the whole situation, and I realise that I'm still young, but I've come to the conclusion that the only way I'll ever find a woman is to win the lottery and hook up with a golddigger.

272 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 23:41 ID:fTD63c3A

Is virgin only applied to guy-girl sex? Or would you guys count oral too?

273 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 00:31 ID:7/8qc6GR


If you're going to stick to the motivation that getting a gf, getting laid and have a family or what the fuck ever is your highest purpose or goal in life you might end up being quite a sad person indeed, a very unfulfilled individual, depressed, lonely and bitter.

You might wanna change your goals, you might wanna change your lifestyle.
Stop fapping, stop playing mmorpg's, stop reading doujinshi. Your life is pathetic and you know it. You can find yourself a purpose, get involved, a higher meaning to life. You can be an asset or a burden, to yourself and others. If you are a cure and a light in your surrounding, you will be appriciated, and you might find yourself getting hooked up with someone who appriciates you.

Then, dull doesn't matter for shit, because in the end fun and games will save noone.

274 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 00:45 ID:BCTPGhtX

ahh even though you're all guys
im not alone!

275 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-17 10:30 ID:ml2x2uBD

>Isaac Newton, the mathematician and scientist (said by some to be the greatest scientist ever), was a virgin all his life.

276 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-17 12:15 ID:aAHxbnA+

I count oral because oral is like sex, only ten times better.


277 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 03:37 ID:lX6hoUd0

This speculation cannot be confirmed for several reasons, most of which should be blatantly obvious and outside the bounds of this discussion.
I think that must be the single worst sentence of misinformation I've seen on wikipedia to this date.
(Who exactly is 'some' ...and what makes him the 'greatest scientist ever'?)

278 Name: 277 : 2007-09-18 03:51 ID:lX6hoUd0

Also, Gary Coleman seems to be curiously absent from that list. For shame.

279 Name: NiP : 2008-10-23 09:10 ID:SRhs92hw


> There are no expiration dates on men. It is the WOMEN who need to worry.

Hugh Heffner lost his long time girlfriend even though he would have married her but she wanted children and he is no longer physically able to.

> There are more women in the world than men, so I shouldn't worry were I you.

If a guy is in China, there are a few million less women than men. So perhaps it's only about equal for the ratio of female to male in the world.

280 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:16 ID:GldrV3bv

I'm 18, coming on 19, and I'm still a virgin. Call it pathetic, but it really gets to me. All of my friends (the few that I have, for what it's worth) always go on about how it's one of the greatest feelings in life, and just talk about it almost religiously. They ruin it for the rest of the people I interact with, I guess, because every time I'm talking to someone else, I have it in the back of my head that they're not a virgin, then treat them differently (more of a jerk, making obnoxious remarks to them, et cetera). It's gotten to the point where I find it difficult to even listen to music written and/or performed by someone is not a virgin.

I don't know why I think of it as such a big deal. I guess it's because I'm a jealous person by nature, but it sucks to wake up every morning knowing that you're less in value because you're so fucking pathetic that no one will even take your physical presence and embrace it. Prostitutes are out of the question because there are none near me in the middle of East Bumfuck, USA.

I feel like I've been victimized by the rites of passage that society has instituted, but that knowledge doesn't make it any less painful. To put into perspective the degree of the situation, I struggle with suicidal ideation and impulses on a daily basis. It really cripples me from a health viewpoint; I'm sure I've taken off 10 years of my life at the absolute least due to strong depression and stress. Meds don't help and no professional assistance has changed anything for me from a sexual perspective, even after four years, and thus, I am doomed to live a short life as an emotional wreck due to an otherwise simple physical motion.

281 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:19 ID:GldrV3bv

Adding to this, it's not like I'm THAT bad physically, unless you consider a 6'3" 140 pound guy with blonde hair and a slim body type a hideous fuck. I get friend-zoned all the time, maybe that's my problem. Maybe I just need to start treating girls like dirt.

282 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-10-24 23:30 ID:ta/fB42v

Man, you really love to make things difficult for yourself. I was virgin until 19, and did not think much of it, it's not so unusual and traumatic. And guess what, once you did it the first time, you'll realize that it's nothing mystical, and anyways often the first time sucks, because you have no experience.

Now if you take things so seriously, I'm not surprised that it becomes more difficult for you. Just relax, try first to learn to relate with females, and sex will come as an added bonus.

283 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-06 20:51 ID:bvlyP9/L

My friend is ovbiously virgin. He is 23 years old. Do you think that he should buy prostitute to be adult?

284 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 01:40 ID:SKoPnS64

I don't think it's even legal for me to lose my virginity at my age, so count me in.

285 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 09:38 ID:WLlhm3yp


Yes, compound your existing issues with misanthropy and lame pop psychology like the Ladder Theory.

286 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-07 16:01 ID:um9upknQ

I'm a virgin, i used to want to loose my virginity, but then i thought i'd rather do it later and with the right person than do it now and regret it. Loosing your virginity is like a gift that you give to the person of opposite sex.

287 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-09 18:02 ID:KS4/dNUO

I'm a virgin. 24, now, have a fairly decent paying and stable job. Not unattractive, moderately fit. I used to be all bitter and have issues with it, until I realized that being a virgin isn't the worst thing that could happen. If I suck at getting girls into bed, it's not the fucking end of the world, I should probably just focus on what I'm good at, and what I can do.

288 Name: Mandy : 2008-11-11 20:19 ID:nOU0gsKH

I was virgin until my 18, i dicided to do it with my actual husband, it worth it, give your first time for the person you love the most.

It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.

And it don't worth it with a whore, because... In my humble opinion, most are too nasty and are only thinking in the money, so your virginity it's just money for them. So better, gift it or do it with someone you really love.

289 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-16 13:50 ID:+DEy6hPM


>>It feels amazing and i really think you guys are heroes for stay virgins, because most guys have the hormons like crazy when they're that age.

If you actually READ the thread, you'd know that we do have hormone surges -- we just can't do anything about it.

290 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-18 21:05 ID:Nf5e2Xgw

Depending on how narrow your definition of "virgin" is, I was probably a virgin until late in my freshman year of college--so I was nearly 19. I had oral sex a few times in high school, but not often and not skillfully. It wasn't a big deal when I finally got around to it.

In my case, it helped to get out of the house, and into a dorm full of other horny, recently-liberated-from-their-families peers. But don't freak out about it. You'll be surprised by how little a difference it makes in your life once it's over.

291 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-12-19 04:05 ID:WMGJ8SCT


I probably wouldn't be a virgin if I went to the dorms, but unfortunately, I went to a very difficult high school (there was an entrance exam), and as a result I ended up having to transfer into the university from a dorm-free community college and completely bypassed dorms.


There's nothing heroic about it. The way society is arranged, mating is mostly about female choice. Ignore that detail and it's called "rape". If left (or right) hands counted, I don't think anyone here would be a virgin.

292 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-10 21:14 ID:pycBzwsk

16 years old virgin...
guess that isn't too bad ><
currently in a relationship (thats almost 6 month old)

293 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-11 11:35 ID:yz2LChG3

17 year old virgin here. It's not just that I want to lose it, it's more that I want to have someone special enough with whom to lose it...D: Bawww...

294 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-11 14:22 ID:re/eH626


well girl, I'm glad there's still a girl like you who cheers us, virgins, in this world.

I, too am a virgin and plan to give my virginity to the one i love.

295 Name: anon : 2009-01-12 02:08 ID:yeIFbOuC

I'm 24, and I've failed it many times when I've had chances...wondered if I was gay, and tried that but wasn't into it and figured out that I'm just incredibly shy around women (not conversation-wise or socializing, just when it counts) and inept at figuring out if a woman likes me or not.

None of my friends know this, since I've had relationships, but it nevertheless eats me'd be a relief just to lose my virginity, to be honest because it's a secret I have to trot around everyday.

296 Name: yo!8NBuQ4l6uQ : 2009-01-17 07:16 ID:bN8o5kjN

i got aids from jacking off!
naw just kidding, my girl just don't want to do it yet

297 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-17 14:06 ID:re/eH626


Are you serious? You can get AIDS from jacking off?
oh boy, never knew I could get infected by using hand. ><...


298 Name: Milo-Man : 2009-01-17 14:10 ID:re/eH626


I'm on the same page as you. I'm 24 and a virgin as well and no girlfriend...and I haven't even lost my first kiss. My cousin has been asking me to get laid in a brothel. Heck, he would even pay for me. But I didn't take his offer because I believe losing virginity would mean a lot more when you do it with someone you love.

I'm hanging there and you should do the same. Find the one you love most and give it to her!

299 Name: yo!8NBuQ4l6uQ : 2009-01-18 04:44 ID:bN8o5kjN


haha i said i was just kidding! that'd be something though to get infected from your hand!

300 Name: Secret Admirer : 2009-01-19 07:23 ID:jDABQzl9

24. Never had a gf before. I'm not antisocial, maybe a little quiet, but I'm pretty loud and outgoing when I'm having fun. I'm athletic, generally pretty friendly.. but I'm 5'2". I don't think I'm ugly, but my height has proven to be a serious handicap. The girls I've been attracted to in the past don't take me seriously because I look really young, and the people that know me are surprised to find out that I don't have a girlfriend, and haven't had one, period. I haven't lost hope completely, but it's gotten to the point where I've just stopped trying recently (though school also has a lot to do with that, constant rejection is the main cause of it). What am I doing wrong here?

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