I HATE BEING SINGLE!!!
Do your best, 352!
U should def go for it! we are all here for u!! GO GO GO!!
Forget about asking her if it's going to make you nervous, just focus on having a good time with her at the concert.
Okay, so things turned out quite funny.
She didn't have a ride to the concert, and we were talking on MSN.
She lives a lot longer away from the concert than I, so it was quite a problem (she would come late etc.)
She asked me what bus I was taking, and then I said "well, I got my dad to drive me." (shut up) And then... "wait. should i ask him if he's willing to drive to x so we could give you a ride?"
And that's what happened. Both went to the concert in the same car. She was pretty quiet, and there was a lot of silence. I guess I'm not the only one who can be shy. Maybe because of my dad? I think so.
So yeah, the concert were fun, we jumped around and so and so. We didn't really talk as much as I'd wanted but it was fun enough.
When the concert ended, I walked her to the bus-stop (with some kid from my street walking next to me ;_;) and then we hugged. Hugged ! Oh yeah, hugs are nice. I casually said "bye, then! speak to you later!"
So, I'm wondering if this was a date or something. We were next to each other almost all the time, and both arrived and left at the same time.
Hug.
What now? Maybe I'll ask her to see a movie sometime. There's also a "prom"-thing coming up that she's going to, but that's really not my thing. Maybe I'll go.
I'll note that we were in the same class for half a year, but now we go to different schools.
Thanks for reading.
kitaaa!
Lol good job. Seems like you didn't over or under do it at all.
>>431
It wasn't a date. Don't let yourself think something is a date unless she explicitly calls it a date.
Movie? Go for it!
KITA! But were there any hints? Or buying signals from her?
I have a bad habit of falling inlove with girls that already have boyfriends :(
One girl a fell in love with twice(she still got the boyfriend the second time) and now i am in love with a girl that i think have a boyfriend.
But i don't know how i can find out. I can't ask her about it(I just started talking to girls about 1-2years ago , i guess i'm a bit shy about it).
Also there is a girl that i like somwhat that don't have a boyfriend , and i think we share some common interests(the one i am in love with now don't share any as far as i can see)
I have been thinking about getting to know the girl that im just like a bit better.
What should i do?
Also how should i start getting to know the girl? Im to shy to just go and start talking to her. But we do share the same class at school.
>>436
I think you're using the term "love" way too liberally...
>>437
everyone does in America, this is the country where people love chocolate.
Hey Demian, did you find anything in the market?
I have odd problems of falling for girls i just plain dont have access to, either, insane time issues, or distance, or just, inavailablity. Mabye I have a case of always wanting what I cant have....
(time issues = theyre way too busy, just, all the time)
Everyone's too busy all the time. I have no friends for the same reason: my "friends" are always occupied doing this or that. Those of us who have a spare hour a day to post on the Internet are a rare bunch, I guess.
wow this thread feels alive...
someone fill me in on this MSN guy?
sounds pretty interesting lol
test test
We're still waiting for updates from the now about 3 guys who may have prospects for a relationship.
Maybe they all killed themselves... (・Д・;)
Densha Otoko this ain't I guess.
Not enough stick-to-it-iveness in the group. :(
Have you asked her out yet, 352?
Sorry, no.
>>446
for lack of BACKBONE
watch and learn, boys.
So you're still alive, and you've talked to her. What about? Come on, we need details!
I wonder about the other two guys... Seems like magic stories like densha for example don't really happen that often.
Of course it's not going to happen that often. However, people at least have a chance if they put effort into it, and keep themselves motivated.
it seems MSN is gone... sigh...
well I wish the best of luck to the rest of you, but I will not be following this thread anymore. BENOIST!
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>>452
I don't know anymore. I'm sorta confused.
I'm not sure I like her as a friend or something else.
Maybe I'll find out by doing something with her sometime, so I guess I'll ask her out sometime. Maybe.
ALERT! Okay guys. New story here.
I might be asking this girl who's just a casual friend (for now) out for a New Years Countdown concert/fireworks thingy if I catch her on MSN later or something, cos a singer she likes is performing.
I'm banking on the fact that we live very near each other and the event takes place like 10 minutes away from our place.
But I haven't been contacting her much recently, so if anything comes out of this it'll be a bonus.
You probably wouldn't know, cos he's a mandarin pop singer. I'm living somewhere in Southeast Asia =).
BTW, I read through MSN Otoko's posts, and I found that I faced the exact same agony of not being able to H+I+Enter recently, cos the previous few conversations on MSN went quite boringly IMO.
I'm thinking about messaging her on her mobile phone if I don't catch her online, but it'll probably seem desperate?
Okay, a group of my guy friends are also probably planning a night out in town to welcome the New Year. I'd feel like a dick for blowing them off for a girl (that's IF I actually get around to asking and her saying yes).
Man, screw them. Don't you think they would blow you off for a girl? No? If not you should maybe wait until after new-year to ask her out.
Okay, turns out to be anti climatic. Didn't actually get around to askin her out. I started off by messaging her mobile, asking if she was doing anything tomorrow and turns out she already had dinner plans. No surprise I guess, I would be lucky getting anything to happen, asking so late.
But judging from the response I 'm getting (through the the text msgs), I probably have a whole lotta work left to do before she's gonna go out with me anyway...
More significant developments (maybe), once my school term starts on the 3rd of January.
Hmm, dinner plans. Are you sure she's single? What kind of response did you get?
Confirmed single, that one I know.
Lukewarm normal response ie nothing to show that she's excited that I'm msging her, the kind that goes "oh having dinner haha, why?". I don't msg her on the mobile regularly anyway, most of our contact is through MSN, despite the fact that we live 5 minutes away from each other and go to the same school (but different faculties ARGH).
there are so many coincidences b/w us I just feel it's fated.
>>464
probably a family or social event
maybe a girl's night out in town; akin to freshie's guy's night out
Turned out it rained heavily, so luckily it didnt go through lol. And guys' night out wasn't too bad, anyway happy new year single men!
Anyway I haven't wish her happy new year, should I? I thought maybe I would inject a little unpredictability. After all, I did wish her merry christmas and to have a good trip when she went overseas.
No reason why not.
>>467
Don't forget to let us know how it goes if you do. We need DETAILS!
Bah. Too much joy. We're all loners.
I don't see any joy in this thread. Just a lot of stories left hanging.
Okay, a better word would be "excitement".
I miss the depression and the moaning and the dwelling.
mabye, they went on for a solution for themselves? or, it ended, and they dont wanna bother posting the end to it?
anyway, i got a story. how do you meet girls when you're 16? just, im totally baffled, i have no idea, clueless. seriously, any places you could reccomend i go, or whatever? im stumped. girls in my school regard me as a friend (nothing else, nothing less, nothing more, closed off), or, i just dont like their personality. lol, really, im just, totally clueless. think i should just wait till im in college? but ah, age is still years without a girlfriend. ive really, walked all over town, hung out at several different places, gone out to meet different people, but, like, i just dont see any girls my age at all even! ahhh wonder what to do, ill stay inside.......
Where have you tried too meet girls?
everywhere, seriously....lol, and i dont mean nerdy bookstore places or game stores either, if thats what youre thinking. just, alot of places
It has been about two weeks since I posted here. Unfortunately, at least for some of the people on this board, I have not followed up on the plan which I developed together with 4-ch dwellers. The reason may sound lame to the adventurous, and perhaps ridiculous to others. However, since there were so many friendly souls here who tried to help, I feel an obligation to them to at least share this reason.
Even though my last few posts on this board were positive, I began to have doubts about the plan. The plan was excellent and might well achieve the goal I had set: to make a friendly, intelligent and pretty girl become interested in me and contact me. You guys helped me develop the plan and gave me strength, and for that I thank you. full stop.
But then what? After some no doubt exciting time we might become a couple? It sounds strange but the prospect does not motivate me. Does a man necessarily have to find a woman to share his life with? For that is what it means to become a couple, at least to me. I do not feel ready to share my life yet, I am content with being single. I did not tell you before that I live far away from my parents, I visit them only every three months. Perhaps you can imagine that it takes some time to adjust to a selfsustaining lifestyle - I have to do everything myself. With all the difficulties arising from this, I feel it to be premature to look for a romance.
Due to the above objections, I aborted the plan. It is too early and I don't want any of it as of yet. I apologize for the disappointment. Again, thanks to all of you who helped me. I will no longer participate in this board until, perhaps, I truly want to start a relation.
I'm so fucking busy with school there's nothing much to update. Went home with her the other day, though it was only by coincidence, but seriously, school's taking up like 70% of my time. This sucks.
>>476
That's perfectly understandable. Please continue to participate in this board anyway; leaving it is not necessary.
Makes sense to me, if you in your heart are not ready for that type of thing, then don't worry about it. When the time is right it will happen and then you will have to act.
THOUGH I ENJOY MY SINGLE LIFE I AM STARTING TO GET SEXUAL FRUSTRATION
>>480
amen to that
There's really no reason to post anymore. >>480 already summarized everything that will ever be said in this thread.
Cut thread here
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>>476
No need to apologize, it's your life. If you don't want to get into a relationship, our opinion is irrelevant. Please don't feel you have to leave 4-ch entirely, you're one of the more articulate people here.
Do keep her address stashed somewhere though, in case you ever change your mind ;D.
oh my goddess i think i have done it broken out my singularity and now had a god damm girl friend
>>487 confirmed i an no longer single
Hey guys, been a while.
On saturday (the twelfth,) it's the girls birthday.
She invited me to her party, and said I could bring friends.
As you may have understood from my earlier posts, I'm not really the guy for parties.
I'm not really sure what kind of party this'll be, but considering she said there'll be around 70 people (including many of her male friends i don't know) I have a pretty good idea.
Also, of my friends, I can only imagine one who would want to go (and it's not likely),and I don't want to turn up there alone when nobody knows who the fuck I am, and I'll stand in the corner looking goofy and then leave early.
I actually want to go, but I don't really know what to expect.
Maybe I worry too much.
Anyway, I'll probably go, probably not.
>>487
Give us the DETAILS!
>>493
gasp! lol, you should drag ur friend to come along, least one person with you anyway, it does ease the pain. or, well, try and meet new people? and eeeeeeeeeeeee, ive been in those situations before, and they ARE rough, but, just, gotta try and meet new people, and try and possibly get that moment alone with her =P, thats all i can think of i suppose....
tall order...
Do your best and hopefully get some alcohol in your system. Should help you relax
Of all the days of the week I can ask her out, I choose the one when she's the busiest. Awesome!
>>496
Dude, you'll get another chance, seriously.
I'm too shy. I never know how to approach girls.
Welcome to the club. (´･ω･`) sigh
I'm the 500th lonely guy on 4-ch.
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waaah, we could have at least taken this one to 1000 before closing it!
I HATE BEING SINGLE!!!
I also hate my friend who steals all girls I want.
I really hope the people who were reading/posting to this thread are on the new thread, now :(
and i just thought of joining this thread
really hope that someone replies to this, need to rant too
there this girl, who ive been close to for about a few months but weve been nothing but friends. in fact weve been considering ourselves as brother sisters, she treats me like an older brother and vice versa.
the thing is, i somehow wanted more out of this, i actually wanted to have a real relationship with her, i really think i got a chance. but then a month ago she just got another bf. i tried to not care but i cant overlook the fact that i am a bit jealous and wished i told her my feelings.
now i cant seem to get her out of my mind. even though i dont want to think about someone elses girl, she keeps on getting into my head. everytime i get online i wished that her name comes online, everytime the phone rings i wished it was her. not sure what going on with me.
i probably know this wont go far but i just need someone to tell me somethine about this. thinking by myself doesnt usually see the situation from another perspective..need some opinions
Please go to http://4-ch.net/love/.
that's sad to hear B bro..same sort of thing happened to me to. Just that my girlfriend stopped her loving towards me..then she one day called me over skype and told me that she felt that I was more like a brother to her..what a bummer!
I hate my single life. I get so depressed seeing gfs & bfs on the street and in Japanese Dramas. (-__-)......(T__T)
>>512 Make happier text faces and girls will like you!
were like in densha otoko story
I had to break up with my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to go out with an european guy (she's chinese).
Ridiculous, isn't it...
>>516
You should've told her parents that you would have hot eurasian babies.
Haha, well, I wouldn't have been posting here if I did that, now would I? （´∀｀）
You know Densha Otoko was a great love story! Why don't you go out and make your own love stories come true. Nothing will be solved by just sitting around and hoping that your own story of life will take a sudden twist and you'll be right in the center of your own story! This is like a RPG game! The story won't move forward unless you use your own will and make it move forward. All my life I've been waiting for love to come to me, now I see that it won't come unless I invoke it! Try your best! If someone doesn't make the first move in chess then the conclusion will never happen.
Too much Games/Drama references... must...resist...murderous...urges...
But you're right, >>519, you are right. :)
NOOOoooooooooOOOOOOOoo
Why am I here!!! :/
Is being in love such a great thing, that we obsess over it so much?
Of course! For without someone to love there is no way we as humans will be able to strive for life itself!
Who told you people that you could revive this thread?!
I just joined so I wasn't sure if this thread was dead or alive.
yeah I know I meant I just joined "in" not literally join.