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You got to search for a something in common and talk around that. Hard at first, but with a little practice this becomes really easy. Avoid cliches: "So what do you do in your spare time" because it sounds corny as hell. Don't say "Hey did you see Matrix 3!" because she might think it sucks. Avoid talking too much about you, talk about her. Openers like "hey, love your outfit" but whatever you say be genuine. If it sucks, don't tell her its great. Slickest stuff is when you get her talking about her hopes, dreams, what she wants to do and where she wants to go, but for starters be general about stuff you're both likely to have in common. If you haven't done much living, can be tough because you don't have much to talk about, but trust me: once you start, it gets much easier. Just relax.