Dang! I wanted the 1000th! haha
SRT 1 994: I'm sure there are still a lot left out there for you.. have you tried socializing in events, forums, gatherings that caters to your hobbies and interests? If you're positive that there's no one really left for you then maybe you find that person elsewhere. Different country? I bet there are many gaijins in japan that are into these stuffs as well for example.
1000th was wasted on a guy saying "TIME TRAVEL"!
that 1000th post was meant for me!!! Now what's gonna happen to my dull life!
Link to previous thread:
http://4-ch.net/love/kareha.pl/1134449447
My neighbours are having sex again. So arousing, yet so frustrating.
>>7
Yeah, I can understand it. Hearing them and thinking that you don't have a mate...
I feel the same sometimes, except my neighbors are all old people, but I see all those couples kissing on the streets and I get... envious or something. :(
Knock on their door and ask if you can join them. This has a chance of being successful.
I am assuming it was her sex appeal that overwhelmed me. I mean we did go out to a club together and I spent majority of the night so that may have affected things. But I won't know if it is a fluke or a pure feeling for awhile she goes to another college not to far but far enough where a car is needed and I lack one.
5: Guess you oughta wait again for another 1000th man.
>>2
Thanks for the advice. I've done some of that stuff before but I guess I never put enough effort into the socializing part of it all. I'm going to college soon so I guess I'll try work harder at that.
College is where it is at. High school I was some what social. But in college I really have gotten out of my shell, been doing stuff I would never have imagined and I am loving every minute of it. But the thing is that you need get out of your and possibly your comfort zone. It may be scary but worth it.
>>9
I don't think I'd want that. Wouldn't mind watching though.
Why not? you are already listening to them, why not make that next step. She wouldn't mind, I am quite sure of that. Her hustband...it can go either way.
Yeah. If they've been married long enough, they'll probably be open to something new.
What >>13 says is true. It took me till my senior year to grow, now I wish I had more time. Do things you haven't done before.
I wonder if there are any other gay guys around here who have all the same stupid interests as me... probably not. orz
>>18
Hey dude. It's okay to be gay! I'm not gay but I have some friends who are and they are the greatest friends to have!
Gay guys = people you hang out with at a club because the women then assume you're gay, and therefore unattainable, and therefore worth chasing.
what type of logic is that?
if the girl thinks your gay then why would she waste her time going after you if you dont swing her way.
>>22
Because women are dumb. Hasn't anyone told you this? It was about time you found out.
>>23
is spiteful. his logic is that if he can't get any girls then they must all be chasing gays.
>>24
Speak for yourself.
<sigh> Hey, guys. Long time, no see, eh?
I haven't really been able to post on the board for various personal reasons. I've recently come out of a bout of serious depression; not "Oh my god, my hamster died, I'M SO DEPRESSED!!1one!", actual DEPRESSION. Mainly due to a personal attack on myself when I tried to talk to this girl that I had been watching for a long time.
If anyone's interested, I'd love to open up that gaping wound again. But, anyway, I just wanna say: Hello, again, guys. Hopefully I'll be back more often.
>>26
WHO ARE YOU?
>>26
Kill yourself already. World does not need another failure like you.
wow. wtf happened to 4ch?
>>33
No.
U_U Duh? Does anyone have any story?
well if not i have some story.
about 2-3 months ago, i met this girl in group assignment, after that me and her didnt have any contacts.at that time, probably only a week or 2 weeks, we working together. i even end up stayed until morning in her room (^.^) .Damn i never went to girls room before, i mean, i do visit girls house but never spent so much time with girls in her room. we having a good time well at least for me, i dunno what her feeling
Since i know she got a boyfriend =/. and yea we spent time together for the whole week. even though its only for 1-2weeks it was my precious moment ^^
After that assignment, yea i never have any guts to call her.
coz yea shes not available.lol Im having a trouble calling a girl whom i crushed on.
and now she just calling me to help her with assignment, well maybe she just want to copy my previous assignment (coz i did the subject last semester).should i try again ? maybe shes not with her bf anymore, i dunno hehe
crap she just called me again. U_U now shes gone while i type this crap and i didnt have any credit left to call her.
Anyway! thanks for those who read my post. ciao
so the story is that i got myself a bf the other day. he's great and all, but lately he's become really possessive of me. not to mention he dictates everything i do. he even joined my yoga class just so he could keep an eye on me. he'll wash the dishes, clean my shoes, paint my nails. sometimes he'll pick my nose for me, but when i try to return the favour he'll push me away.
i just wanna know is this sort of behaviour normal for couples?
She is just using you. Most likely she just wants to copy your work. You can help her if you want, but don't expect anything out of it, unless she has a single friend.
>> 37
i guess ur right ^.^
>> 36
no idea,
well
"he even joined my yoga class just so he could keep an eye on me. he'll wash the dishes, clean my shoes, paint my nails. sometimes he'll pick my nose for me," This is the way he show you how much he care for you
but
"he dictates everything i do." are you sure about this? ;__;
The relationship sounds a bit screwed up if you ask me... <_<
yup.. there's no more space left for you to breath.
he practically owns you, at least that's how he wants things to be. to dominate you and answer to all of his whims.
you have to draw the line somewhere. you also have a life of your own and things you need to do by yourself. It's an unhealthy relationship, because it only goes to show that he doesn't trust you enough that he goes out of his way just to see to it that you're truthful to him.
Yo dawg the chick is sooooooo using you, just reject her.. remember man when going for chicks you cant give it your all YOU have to be HARD to get at times too! try it to see if she really needs you or not! good luck~
I'm really curious about a lot of things, like relationships, sex, and whatnot. I feel as though if I don't do something soon, it won't ever happen. Kind of makes me worry a bit.
But overall, I'm honestly fine about being single right now. I'm a full-time college student with a part-time job - throwing women in the mix would probably lead to destruction.
>>45 Even if you don't use it, you won't lose it. Reading about your curiosity reminded me of "The 40-yr Old Virgin."
See, I never actually got to watch that movie. Should I?
>>47 I've watched it about 5 times, and it's still surprisingly a bit entertaining.
Benoisto ka.....
long time, long time indeed. I feel sorry that you had a depression recently. Hopefully it wasn't that seriously detrimental to your life. Tell me about your story.
im about to head out to a party. wish me luck!
So did you score?
unfortunately yes. beer googles + low light = ugly morning suprise.
Someday I will go to a party and get drunk. Today is not that day.
Doesn't stop me from feeling extreme envy whenever I see a happy couple, though.
love isn't everything. I'm done with it. There are other things in life.
does anyone have experience in quitting masturbation?
I'm trying, but I'm going nuts over it. any suggestions to make it more easy?
>>55
Just keep busy. Pursue hobbies and make goals for yourself. The urge to fap really is short lived, so even a short activity like a crossword puzzle or something could help you. If you need something physical, you could always exercise or something.
>>55
Why would you quit masturbation?
>>57
'cause it drains energy that you could use on other activities. Besides, theres a psychological effect to consider too. You know all too well its not "the real thing" and it makes you feel bad in the end, despite the momentary relief.
It doesnt drain energy. Thats an OLD OLD wives tale. Like the boxer who doesnt fok before the fight..... "IT" doesnt make you feel bad afterwards, its fucked up issues that make you feel bad after you do it. Its not supposed to be the real thing any more than having sex with someone you are dating is suposed to be having sex with someone you are married to ( what many consider the only real thing)
It doesnt drain energy. Thats an OLD OLD wives tale. Like the boxer who doesnt fok before the fight..... "IT" doesnt make you feel bad afterwards, its fucked up issues that make you feel bad after you do it. Its not supposed to be the real thing any more than having sex with someone you are dating is suposed to be having sex with someone you are married to ( what many consider the only real thing)
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I'm sure the people posting here prefer to find someone they could love instead of masturbating ! lol ! It's not a solution for me against being single ! But when you are shy, It's so difficult to meet someone... Is meeting website the only solution for people like us ?
I think that just because you are shy doesn't mean you won't meet someone IRL...And even if meeting someone from the net is the "only solution", what is wrong with that? Tell me. You are a normal person sitting behind their computer screen. A girl who you pass by on a street could be doing the same thing (as in, using a computer to chat). It's just a tool to facilitate making friends and finding partners. Sure there are creeps on the net. But, there are creeps IRL, too. And last time I checked, it's alot harder to be raped through your computer screen.
>And last time I checked, it's alot harder to be raped through your computer screen.
Soon, though. I'm working on it.
>>64 But don't you think today when you tell someone how you meet your girlfriend (by internet), people judge you like if Internet is not the right way to find someone ! I'm feeling that they think i've not chosen the correct way to find a girl ! There is sort of taboo about meeting someone from the net
Yeah but when you tell your children how you met each other they wont be surprised. Things change, and this looks like it could be one of them. The enormous number of people using the interweb for this alone supports this.
Oh for sure people will judge you. ...What is your point? If you meet a girl who's all yay and you're all happy and things work out well, what the hell does it matter if moronic idiots are gonna say, "Oh, you met her on the net?! OMG!" They have no argument or valid reason for judging you. You shouldn't care. I know it's hard...but I really don't think it matters. The only thing you have to say to rebound their stupid judging is, "I'm happy."
Aww, there is no "correct way to find a girl". If you meet someone on the net, it's FINE. Why do you think all those online internet dating site are so popular? Lots of people do it and I think it's great ^__^ I really like the idea of online dating because you start to like the PERSONALITY rather than going to a bar and liking the girl for her looks alone. Like of course with ICL (inchatlife), you'll eventually get closer and ask for pictures...use microphone and one day meet. I think it is a good way to get to know the person and establish a friendship.
yeah, agreed. not that it even matters how you met, anyway. like, arranged marriages!
Single here.
The funny thing is, I've been giving sensible advice on this board since around the time it was made ...but I really have no courage to follow any of my own advice. orz
It's so easy to encourage and advise other people, but my mind practically freezes up when it comes to myself.
>>69
even in arrange marriages even if you dont see the other person, your parents or relatives do. and parents do have sense of taste. buts looks always matters, you can have an awesome personality but if your looks arent at their standards then they will tell you to fuck off.
I hate being fucking single. Fuck all those bitches who won't give guys like us a chance.
Maybe you're going for the wrong girls? I'd totally give you a chance if you didn't sound so...mean.
would you give me a chance?
moeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Only if you live in Florida. I'm too horny for long distance relationships (haha?)
actually i live in jacksonvile
oshi--
I am so glad I am Indian because I have arranged marriage to fall back on.
You're kidding me! I do too. Well, it's closer to Orange Park, but it's technically Jacksonville. I'm currently going to UF though, so I'm rarely home.
This is weird. I live literally live right across the river on Mandarin. But I go to school in NC so I seriously doubt a meeting.
Where are all the nice geeky guys around here? Heck, I'll even take a girl. Stupid New York and all these ghetto people. Curse my shyness too.
Where are all the nice geeky girls around here? Heck, I'll even take a... wait, no I wouldn't. Stupid Riverside county and all these old people. Curse my shyness too.
>>80
It would be funny if a couple actually met on this board.
In other news, GRRR I'VE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND IT'S MAKING ME INCREASINGLY ENRAGED
>>84
Yeah, it would. Why didn't we think of hooking up with each other before??
Arr,,, Same here, >>85, and worse, I keep attracting gay people!
(And I don't like that)
>>85
In other news, GRRR I'VE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND AND IT'S MAKING ME INCREASINGLY ENRAGED
lol. i don't give a crap actually, but it does bug me that i'm one of those "little sister" girls. seriously, all the guys i've ever met always try to become my role model or something.
so how old are you?
>>91
Rest assured, there are guys out there who would treat you as an equal. Based on how I act towards girls who are younger or shorter than me, I think I would count myself among them. (But unless if you live in Minnesota or Massachusetts, I don't think I could be your boyfriend.) You should probably look for the shy kind of person, not necessarily a geek, but someone who you have to approach yourself and invite him somewhere. Taking the initiative would at least show that you're not interested in a senpai-kouhai sort of thing.
I've only had one girlfriend in my whole life and the worst thing was is that it was a long distance relationship. From the start i knew it wouldn't last long and I ended up being correct.Ahhh......This boring life of mine.....what to do.
How the hell do you know if she wants a boyfriend?
Don't ever take yourself from granted and entitle yourself to being a potential boyfriend of hers just because she says she don't have a boyfriend. It's like you think she needs boyfriend like you without her consent and acknowledgement, you simply went ahead and condescendingly said that you can't be her boyfriend under your bullshit conditions. Do you think she would give a fuck about you? Who do you think you are? talking like you already claimed her without her permission. It's fucking rude!
Ironically that you said there are people who would treat her equally, who admit being her potential boyfriend?
This is coming from a guy like me.
What to do? Go and kill yourself.
There needs less people like you who only think about getting a girlfriend and having sex.
>>95
Haha, you are a hoot :p. I think I saw you flaming Mireille Guy in that other thread lol. He deserves a kick up the ass once in a while though.
It's true, I'm not actively looking for a bf. I'm more of a take-things-as-they-come person. But at the same time I guess I don't like how guys see me as a cute thing to pat/teach/protect. I mean it was okay for a while, but not at this age. Before you suggest anything about acting/dressing more maturely, I can tell you I've tried that, and people become strangely intimidated. Ah well, watchu gonna do. But I will keep that in mind >>93, if I ever decide to go bf-hunting =/.
true that, same shitty grammar, and completely overreacting on something wholly besides the point anyway.
Nothing useful to add to the thread though. So yeah, with 17, you can be my little sister. (younger than the other ones I have, actually)
you're only 17. There are plenty of use here in our 20's who have no love experience. Consider yourself fortunate.
>>99
Amen, hallelujah, peanut butter.