How the hell do you know if she wants a boyfriend?
Don't ever take yourself from granted and entitle yourself to being a potential boyfriend of hers just because she says she don't have a boyfriend. It's like you think she needs boyfriend like you without her consent and acknowledgement, you simply went ahead and condescendingly said that you can't be her boyfriend under your bullshit conditions. Do you think she would give a fuck about you? Who do you think you are? talking like you already claimed her without her permission. It's fucking rude!
Ironically that you said there are people who would treat her equally, who admit being her potential boyfriend?
This is coming from a guy like me.
What to do? Go and kill yourself.
There needs less people like you who only think about getting a girlfriend and having sex.