To all the guys that feel like they can't live without a gf, or in general are miserable and consumed by lonliness, let me start off by saying I've been there and I know the pain.

But the most important thing to understand is that you need to be happy before someone else can make you happy. It is, in my experience, very unhealthy to depend upon someone else to make you happy. How can you love someone if you don't love yourself? You need to think about what is good in life and have the confidence to appreciate it. And trust me, confidence breeds appreciation from others.

My bottomline: you can't possibly make a relationship work if you are moping about your singleness. If you do manage to find a girl, this will lead to your happiness dependant upon someone else. And if it doesn't work out, that dependancy will destroy you.