This is the ultimate law... Girls always whine about they want a nice guy who cares for them. But when it comes to choose their boyfriend they always fell for the jerk who treats them like shit. Why does it have to be like this? Why don't girls like nice guys? It's just not logical...
What do jerks have that nice guys don't? And why isn't niceness and calm personality appealing to girls?
I just don't get it... I'm romantic, calm, and nice to everybody. I can talk with girls, and can be friends with anybody... but nothing more. They tell me that I'm nice, cute and so, and they just don't get why can't I find somebody.
But it seems like girls don't see nice guys as a possible boyfriend...
What can a nice guy do?
well i called her last night, she picked up but did not response very well.she did not answer very well.. i asked how she was and she asked who i was... i told her my name and she said she doesn't know me.. she did not say anything else at all and her friend came on the phone and told me to buy her a pizza and then hung up.. now in the background i could hear her saying "no, dont hang up" to this other friend of hers... i just dont know what to do...
what rotten luck, guess you're better off seeing her in person.. perhaps she was a bit sleepy and stuff and lost focus. you should get to the bottom of it all or you'll just prolong the agony of uncertainty.
or you can just give up
i mean, it sounds like she doesnt like you. if she did she would have be anxious for your calls. but no, she said she doesnt know you. she probably had some interest in you in the past but it sounded like little interest. she did invite you to events but she invited you knowing you cant make it. it makes her sleep better at night knowing she was kind of enough to invite you. but in reality she didnt want you there. not to mention you phone stalked her (yes stalked. calling her every day is stalking) and that probably creeped her out. at least now she has a name to put on that restraining order.
look your chance ended when she moved away. but rather than being a man and moved on you acted like a child and refused to accept that she was gone. you were living the illusion that you had a chance with her and obviously that is not the fact. my advice is to give up on her, take some time to focus on your needs and then try the dating pool again, except this time you will have dating book as a guide and an infinite amount of girls to chose from.
oh if she ever calls back, but i doubt she will, to apologize, go ahead and talk to her but dont expect anything out of it. she probably has trouble sleeping or needs a good laugh.
Yeah man it sucks, but she doesn't like you. Have some self respect and don't let a girl who doesn't give a fuck about you play with your emotions, because that is what's going to happen if you continue to pursue her. Use this as a learning experience and move on to the next girl. Believe me, there are too many bitches in this world for you to not find one that you like and one that likes you back.
right.. understandable.. i really did like her from deep down in my heart but oh well stuff happens.. thanks a lot guys.. you've been a great help
i really didnt stalk her.. i called her like every 3 - 4 days..
>>104
God, that was tough.
Anyway, Sunderland, good luck with the next girl.
4-ch is always here to give some e-advice.
it is going to be hard to forget her.. maybe you can advise me on how to forget thinking about her.. i am starting to havedreams about her now.. after she told me that.. one thing i would say.. when she acts wierd she is around her friends.. when shes alone, she is fine.. which is still rude and ignorant.. and she should not do that infront of her friends.. another thing.. her mom called me yesterday and asked how my nose was from the car accident and invited me over for christmass supper.. i told her that i am not sure if i can come cuz i might have to work.. i m not gonna bother.. i found that very rude how she acted infront of her friends.. i need some help forgetting about her.. and that should be all..
My suggestion would be to travel some where far off, Somewhere you'll be able to have fun. Bring some friends along so you'll forget about it fast. I'd say you should go to China, Europe, Fiji, Hawaii, or best of all Japan.
My suggestion would be to travel some where far off, Somewhere you'll be able to have fun. Bring some friends along so you'll forget about it fast. I'd say you should go to China, Europe, Fiji, Hawaii, or best of all Japan.
It seriously seems that this girl simply doesn't want to meet you.
But then again, you could go to that supper if you have some free time.
Then you can meet her. Perhaps she simply doesn't remember your name, but she does remember your face.
But if she doesn't remember your face, then... Excuse yourself and leave. Then that case is closed forever.
But how to forget her: find a better hobby.
yeh i am not going to bother with her anymore.. if she calls then fine.. i did mention to her if she needs anything give me a call and i'll do whatever is in my reach to help... so yeh.. not going over or anything.. i am just gonna move on..
Yeah, moving on is the only way to go. I'm going to be honest with you, for the next few weeks it's going to SUCK. You're going to think about her all the time and want to go back on your decision, but DON'T, because wait a few more weeks and you won't think about her at all, if ever.
Now is a good time to get your life together. Get some hobbies, make some friends, hang out with them more, try new things, make sure the next time you see a girl you have the hots for, you are truly ready to go and take her. I've been through this before, and it may feel like the end of the world, but believe me man, it's not. Like someone said above, there are so many girls in this world it's ridiculous.
And one more thing, just to throw it out there, don't base your life around a girl. Make sure before you go for another girl, you have a life of your own and you are simply inviting her into it, instead of making her your life.
>>114 speaks the truth
>i did mention to her if she needs anything give me a call and i'll do whatever is in my reach to help
if she calls dont bother talking to her. if you pick up the phone and she is on the other end, just say you are in a hurry and cant talk and you will call back some other time. but dont call her back. it is best to end it cold turkey and treat her as a bad dream. and of course dont go and visit her, enjoy christmas dinner with your family.
Or, you could solve the problem without being an ass in return.
Look, do whatever you want, there are a billion ways to solve the problem. There are any number of ways to 'forget about her', and it's totally up to you how you respond if she calls you. Just don't stress out about it, it'll sort itself out in time and you'll be fine, not to mention a tad wiser because of whatever happens
How is not wanting to talk to someone being an ass? He's not obligated to.
No...telling her to eat shit and die is being an ass.
A more general reply, more to the title question.
Sometimes girls can't tell the guy is a jerk, he's probably confusing her.
If he's a jackass, he's a complete jackass, and he's not going to let her know that.
And nice guys ought to help a girl out. I remember a few instances where a good guy friend made all the difference.
You tried, James. You tried.
God what a bunch of fucking weirdos.
Dude....seriously you are the creepy sort we were talking about.
Either a girl will like you or she won't.
Meh, most girls have a "bad boy" fetish.
>>122
and then they wonder why they're suddenly pregnant and single.
>>121 is right
cmon, be a graceful loser. girls reject you, don't blame it on them, they just didn't like you, but you did. which sucks, but thats how it is...
i am not going to kill myself for it.. just a little shook up how she used to react when i was around and how she reacted now.. just a little upset but i think i am strong enough to take it.. if she thinks she is too good for me then oh well, her loss, all i wanted to give her and make her feel like she was out of this world, some other girl, who cares about me as much as i care about her, would be getting all that.. i am fine with that..
Or do what im doing and get a phd, girls cant resist doctors :)
Or do what im doing and get a phd, girls cant resist doctors :)
i want to do my Aviation course next year so i am kinda looking forward to that..
they cant resist MD doctors not phd doctors
the girl i was talking to you guys about.. she actually told me that she would want to get married to a fire fighter..
i didnt want to be a firefighter anyways so it was a good thing it didnt work out for us..
why are you thinking about marriage at this age, especially with a girl you are not dating or even have a relationship with?
it wasnt me.. it was her.. and that was like long time ago when she told me that..
Not all 'hot' girls are like that....Sorry to say, but that girl you dig sounds pretty shallow....or she simply has some certain preferences up in her mind.
I'm quite a physically attarctive girl myself, and I don't discriminate guys on exteriors. Probably it ahs something to do with the way you'r reared as a child.
My advice: Just eb yourself. Never be superficial. If that girl still can't see your genuinity, yeah....Time to move on I guess.
>>133 Firefighter? o_O;; Good thing you're not a firefighter.
>>136
I have living proof of this. my girlfriend is extremely attractive, even if it is me that says it, and yet she still goes out with me. I am to say the least, not very attractive at all.
Although she at least says that her friends find me attractive (but they could be lying.) So maybe it does depend on the situation you were raised in?
>>138
Signed. The man I'm dating certainly isn't the most conventionally attractive (blond haired, blue eyed, and hugely muscular) I've ever laid eyes on (although I'd say he is damn fine-looking!) but is the nicest and most considerate. And, you're right. The thing that draws me most is his eagerness to learn and try new things and, YES, genuinity. If a girl doesn't appreciate that, the relationship isn't going to last otherwise.
>>139
Seconded. I ditched a good looking jerk for a plain looking but wonderful, nice and sweet guy - though I would have dumped the jerk even had I not had my eyes set on anyone else. Genuinity, an open mind, curiousity, and honesty are vital to me. And easily I find my by now fiance, after all these years, a lot more attractive than anyone physically better looking, thanks to how he is and behaves.
hi everyone,
i was in her town yesterday(Boxing Day shopping) and we met in the mall, i noticed her in a store but never went over, she came over herself and said hi, we started a conversation, she asked me why i didnt go for christmass supper, and i told her that i was working, she said that we were waiting for you, anyways we talked for about 15 mins and then she said i should go to her place for new years eve atleast. i said i'll try but i cant promise, she told me to give her a call.. i just dont know if i am gonna do that.. anyways.. big thing is. right now i live about 1 hour away from her town, i am moving this coming friday and the place i am moving now would be like 5 hours away from her town.. so yeh.. thats about it.. if there is anything i should do.. let me know but i am thinking i should just forget about her and leave..
well it an easy question. girls want good "guys", not good "people" u know what i mean? if u understand the difference btw 2, u will be able to get a good "woman"
>>142
Some do want good "people". And there are also girls that want good girls, but those aren't relevant to this thread, I think.
>>143
are they?? i guess they r quite relevant. well like u say, some girls want good people rather than good guys, but the fact is that much more girls want good guys, i believe..
Please don't feed the troll, he'll leave when he doesn't get any attention here, just like all those losers do.
I've been dating a girl in england for almost three years, she called me this morning and told me she loved me, then tonight she called and dumped my ass. I've made a huge mistake and put everything into the little bitch and I'm practically fucked in the heart right now. I'm in Texas myself and I know that the distance is fucking harsh, but I've been making arrangements to go over there and be with her, her explanation for dumping me was that she "needed" someone now. I think the bitch was just horny and "needed" to be "filled". Any advice on how to get over the cunt, or get her back before she goes and gets "filled" too many times to count would be awesome. Peace.
Don't quite know why you dragged an ancient thread up for this. But anyway... I personally would say there's not much you can do while you are over in America and she is over here in the UK. It might not be that she wants to be "filled" (as you so lovingly put it) but she probably wants somebody physically there to hold. Can you blame her? I personally see internet relationships as good for first time romances but once you have physically been with somebody (who obviously lives near to you) then internet romances dont compare. Even if it's not the sex, people feel the need to be physically near other people - whether its through hugging and kissing or just talking to each other in person (hearing different intonations etc rather than just typed words)
In light of your penultimate sentance; if you want to get over her then you should find somebody that actually lives near you and see about dating them. If you want to get her back you need to see her in person or talk to her on the phone regularly, even then it's not very likely to work.
>>33
Well, I gave myself a good look, and I can say I'm kinda geeky (not WoW geeky, I mean bookworm and heavy computer user geeky)...But, I'm nice, have a CRAPLOAD of confidence (until it comes to sports...) and I can provide. It's more out of introversion, I think, in my case...
>>39
You seem oddly familiar somehow... Your name, your reaction...
TIP: The dumbest question one could ask on an anonymous board is "Do I know you?
>>70
Hmmm... that's food for thought... It makes sense. I DO have a bit of a jerk in me, I kinda... well, he's for handling money and business got it from my mom LOL
>>123
I lol'ed at this.
being nice just isnt enough. pets are nice.
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Personally i prefer the jerks that are sensitive inside but don't let ppl see that. In other words sure they are jerks, you can have a fun time talking to them, and you know you can trust. Their nice mysterious but to a limit they aren't too nice. Honestly it depends on the person
In my experience, >>151 speaks the truth. Most girls want someone like Han Solo, not Luke Skywalker.
What does not kill you makes you stronger.
Grow Stronger. I have no time for asian women, or these lame mall chicks. Only a Valkyrie is meet for me.
I MEAN LOOK AT YOU!
Most of these girls are communists or hippies anyways.
It's not that women like jerks, it's that most women are bitches.
It's a communist conspiracy to throw it all into general disarray.
Go to Church or a College Republicans meeting. Go run around the block. Take up a hobby. A real hobby. Start looking down on people. Meet them on your own terms.
There are only two colors in the world. Black and White. No grey, never interlacing. If a girl doesn't like you, she is most likely a communist conspirator.
No...
I'm painfully sober. But still, most women are bitches. Quit putting it on a pedestal.
>>156
Delusional hypocrite.
Just because you had your ass dumped a couple of times, doesn't mean half the human population is against you.
Stay off the drugs.
Way to bump a two years old thread for crap.
Ok.. this thread is so old.
In any case, I have some ideas about this that I would like to share.
Firstly, think of the human being of the present. Now take all his/her clothes, money, tools, car, house, job, commodities, food, etc. Everything. And what do you have? A person that resembles a primitive human. All right, let's move onto the important bit.
What is the difference between the primitive man and the modern man? It is the ability to handle complex information and to coexist in complex environments with other humans and objects, as well as the ability to express ideas in many other ways other than speech and writing. Pretty much, although that was a very bland description of such difference. The modern man however still runs upon the same naturally built-in rules that the DNA and our instinct define. It is not to say that we are animals, but that people, despite being in a modernized, technological world, still have some primitive aspects to their behaviour, and everybody does it. It's just that our surroundings and our society have changed so much.
When it comes to relationships and meeting new people, why the hell do guys tend to stare at a girl's breasts or why do girls seem to like loud jerks? Firstly, it's all from what is visible. Whenever we meet people we find attractive, the very little information we have about them at the start is visual, and from that our mind elaborates ideas, feelings and goals, all done to satisfy the universal rule of evolution and the sharing of genes. To explain, boobs and curves represent fertility for guys, for girls jerks represent security and the possibility of giving strong and healthy children just like the jerk himself. It all runs upon nature and evolution, the strongest shall prevail and the weakest die off from natural selection.
But,HOWEVER, when you really get to know people, when you can see all their colors, that's when the conscientious and analytical mind in all of us kicks in and takes over our primitive nature. We of course do not run entirely by our instincts, we all think. And so the idea that everything works from our animal-like nature is only background activity in our minds, it just happens naturally, we don't really think about it. When we actually make the decision to act upon our instinct is a different story.
Ok, that was pathetic. But you know what? Having this functional/structuralist/square/whateveryouwant point of view of relationships and sex has given me the foulest of years of complete solitude. I've been too serious all my life, and I'm only fucking 20. Fuck.My.Life. What do you guys think? I think it's about time I stopped caring so pedantically and lived life like everyone else (or so i think???).
>>159 I laughed at your entry...
The best attitude is to realize that women are interested in men that show off themselves. And in this game, the nice(transparent) guy is even worse off than the jerk. But the jerk himself is left in the dust by the engaging and outgoing guy.
The tragedy of nice(transparent) guys, is that they try to fight with the jerks for the leftovers.
Because self-labeled 'nice guys' tend to be annoying clingy jerks.
It is simple, women like to be put down and controlled, they will say it's not true, they will say they are a liberated woman, they will say they are independant, but they want to be controlled, put in their place, and let the man do all the real work.
I haven't been dumped. I can't help it that women are bitches.
Bitches and assholes go together. Either be an asshole or quit bitching.
And while half the world's population isn't against me....I am personally against all of the world's population.
You see..I won't lie and say that women can't be amusing but at the end of the day they still shit, piss, smell bad on occasion, and hit you up for money. Just like everyone else in the world.
I mean they can't ALL be raven haired, pallid lasses with shockingly black hair and want to stay home and guard your stuff and then go to work when you come home and want to sleep to earn their keep. They can't all be nihilistic loners with thousand yard stares who live life on the edge. In fact most are boring, stupid, lame or fat. I mean like these mall girls.
They seem cute at first...and really...sex becomes boring. It's nothing more than assisted full body masturbation. They have nothing in common to discuss. They all wish to discuss their wearing t-shirts and being into bleachers and their heroin.
I'm wanting to discuss Colt, benzos, and morphine. I mean...
You find me a girl that can have a cogent and coherent discussion with me about Colt, benzos, and morphine...won't hit me up for money...has her own job, and like...should I decide to lay with her won't patronize me my squealing and yelping and saying "oh yeah fuck me just like that". It is patronizing. I like the cold, eye contact missionary sex that says "I understand perfectly." with no talking....and upon climax there is no yelping. Just a clench..a slight grunt. Like the beasts do...like people used to do centuries ago.
I mean...younger people worry about sex. And once you've done all of your fucking....it's boring. It becomes WORK.
I won't lie and say I don't mind busting a nut into a girl's insides from time to time...but I'd sooner have a nice young lady who is nihilistic and slightly deranged who wishes to discuss Colt, benzos, and Morphine.
>It's nothing more than assisted full body masturbation
I'm starting to think you lack some hormones, buddy.
And you probably won't find what you're searching for because it wouldn't want the bitter psychopath you are. And this comes from a somewhat bitter and not totally stable dude. Damn, I wanted to ignore the thread so it could sink down again. Oh well, I'll sage and hope you'll sage your barking as well if you decide to answer.
I am not your buddy, pal.
I'm just saying that most if not all women these days are sad failures of disappointments.
Paula Cole once lamented "where have all the cowboys gone?"
I lament "Where have all the Valkyries gone?" I want a lithe and bitter woman with sharp features and long black wild hair, blue-violet eyes and pale skin who is harsh and cruel. I'm talking Jenny Schecter with balls man. In another time she would have stood high atop a mountain wrapped in wolf's furs and carring a broadsword. Perhaps in more contemporary times she would have been wearing jackboots and carrying a Browning Hi Power when others were toting overrated Walther PPs and PPKs helping make the undermen into lampshades.
A knight errant. I'm not delusional to think that some chick is going to come rolling up in an uparmored Crown Victoria or Hemicuda wearing ripped tight blue jeans and wearing a Slayer shirt and saying "You look like a man who enjoys Colts, benzos, and Morphine. Let's have a heartfelt discussion on aforementioned subject matter. Then we will have efficient, commiserate German sex." When the time comes for her to bear children she will not go to pre-natal care, whine to her parents, or go to the hospital.
She will go off to the woods and do her woman's work. Then come back with a howling young buck of a male baby whose lungs sear with the brisk winter air as he laments his birth into a harsh world where one must become stronger or break.
You people are stuck on lite, non-threatening pop rock
I'm down here wanting to listen satanic, fascist heavy metal. You all are full of shit wanting to be pussy whipped by some stupid bitch. They are all stupid and vapid. Once you've fucked one they just become cum receptacles that talk and beg for money and blow up your cell phone with inane texts like 'lol omg wut r u duing lol???????"
NAY! I want an Aryan goddess of the Master Race who will clean house, work a job and put my needs before her own because she sees me as an investment. She is my tool. I am hers.
And when my foes come for me....and should they succeed. She will cut her womanly long black hair into a short bob and avenge me with a bayonetted AK-103 and a flamethrower. And as she stands triumphant amongst the dead. She lets out a primal roar of quenched vengeance. She may even cut into her chest with a benchmade Nimravus in triumph like the Native American dude from Predator 1.
See....THAT is a woman. What you have is a sad imitation.
> Bitches and assholes go together. Either be an asshole or quit bitching.
Alright, so you come off as being an asshole, but at the same time you're bitching about how you can't get a girl that fits your ridiculous fantasies. So either you're well suited to mall bitches, or you should take your own advice and stop ranting about your single life.
> I want an Aryan goddess of the Master Race who will clean house
> See....THAT is a woman.
Seriously, I can't see how what you're doing now is any different from the rest single guys in this thread. Yet, you label them as weak, just because you think that your ignorantly concocted fantasies are more "superior".
I don't see how talking about drugs is any less boring than talking about clothes. Once you're forced to learn about their biochemistry in a pharmaceutical lecture, that shit gets old.
>>166
No, actually he's probably right that drugs are more interesing that clothes (even if benzos and morphine probably aren't the most fascinating).
Still, >>165, you sound like a very delusional guy.
>You people are stuck on lite, non-threatening pop rock. I'm down here wanting to listen satanic, fascist heavy metal.
Er, no. There is more to music than these two boring genres.
>You all are full of shit wanting to be pussy whipped by some stupid bitch.
Eh, no. I'm busy having fun with chill girls (yes, they exist). You're the one whining about how you can't have your own imaginary pet valkyrie.
Also,
>I am not your buddy, pal.
I'm not your pal, friend.
That said I like your style.
That was beautiful, man...
This made my day...I want a woman to kick ass, take names and cook me dinner. That is what a woman should be, not a self-absorbed, materialistic hose bag.
the basic issue is that niceness does not equal attractiveness. the two are separate and distint. people respond sexually to what they find attractive, not who will logically treat them the best and/or theoretically be a good long term relationship partner. this works female-to-male and vice versa (like secret admirer said, guys are guilty of the same).
the question you are probably asking is why niceness does not make a man more attractive. its evolutionary. women are programmed to be attracted to the "strong" man who demonstrates masculinity and dominance over other men. niceness is often interpreted (rightly or wrongly) as meekness/weakness which is not attractive to women.
the said strength/dominance can be a number of traits - height, athleticism, wealth, fame, social status, good looks, intelligence, artistic ability, and basically success/competence in any endeavour - particularly ones that our culture holds in high esteem (such as musicans, actors, or professional athletes).
it can also be conveyed through general personality traits; all else held constant, confidence boardering on arrogance, along with a consideration of self above others, generally communicates subliminaly high status and dominence to woman more than consideraton of others/humility does (rightly or wrongly). the behaviour is also self-fulfilling - a high status guy who scores a lot of chicks will probably naturally become more confident and arrogant over time & hence this creates something of a self-fulfilling prophesy.
hate to say it, but i think that's the cold hard truth. women are just like guys in being slaves to their base instincts (i have female friends who sometimes say they wish they were attracted to a particular "nice" guy but they just arent't).
cheers,
LT
why do losers call winners jerks?
>>171
2/10
>>171
plz ignore this if you weren't serious.
I find it to be a few reasons that in turn branch out:
1)jealousy, be it for women, the hightening of social status, or they're just debbie-downers >8[
2) they winner is just a total ass-wipe jerk, which is quite possible nowadays
you can probably find a whole bunch of other reasons, but I think these are the main two.
Women don't dump nice guys for jerks. They never bother with nice guys in the first place and go straight for the jerk.
You want to know why "women only like jerks?" It's because some of these "nice guys" are just jerks in disguise.
Most women hate it when you hang around and act all nice just for the purpose of getting pussy, which is what most self-professed "nice guys" do. Sorry, we don't owe you anything. We don't owe you our bodies, we don't owe you our lives, just because you're "nice" to us. Some guys do think that, and some guys have called me personally a "bitch" because I wouldn't put out, and it's sickening and really annoying.
If you're actually a nice person, not a Nice Guy, you probably just haven't met the right woman yet. Everyone has their preferences, and tbh maybe some women really aren't attracted to nice people. Don't tar all women with the same brush, though. :3
was in a relationship for 8 years spent most of that time being a dad to my ex girlfriends daughter from her previous marriage. Being a goddamn home maker. Fuck i tried i really did i never strayed once. What the hell did i do wrong all of a sudden she just tells me that her feelings arnte the same anynore that its over that i should leave. That was 2 years ago and im still fucking confused. But what is really getting to me i mean really grinding me is that i was and still am a nice guy. Yet my bud is a real jack ass to his girl friend treats her like shit puts his football dogs porn and social life above her and the kids is loud and abusive when he goes on one smashes things shit like that. Storms off gets me in shit by hiding round my place so i end up looking like im in on it. His GF is so sweet and kind she is so devoted to him i simply cant get my fucking head round it. I mean the other week i siad to him that he should stop complaining id trade places with him any day. The jerk siad that'd be fine by me yet on the night he siad if they split and she got a nu boyfriend he's beat them silly????????????? Worse still now i think that i am becoming attreacted to her yet she wouldnt even look my way not when she has her jackass blue eyed action man. I depressing myself
So LOYD heres how it is nice guys like us finish last cuz we are at the bottom of the pecking order where only there to comfort them when they fuck up and need a shoulder to cry on to support em anything else we just dont cut it. Sad fucking fact of life but its true. You either have to have something they need (ie money) or be some yob with little intelegence and a huge attitude problem to attract a girl and its not just hot chicks that do this believe me iv been through this shit.
Oh and secret ad please fuck yourself not all nice guys are just in it for the pussy though that is a perk
Hmm interesting LT : 2009-11-03 07:18 ID:+pwKQOkI so in order to attract the women i am coeting i have to kick her boyfriends ass into the ground...Sounds good to me where is that fucker?
So you assholes still haven't found a girlfriend yet?
funny how everybody shut their traps and the last comment is the dude whose case everybody is trying to get at .gave it to all of you guys! HAHA it is extremely funny to see how good advice is often ignored!! why dont you guys all do your "niceness" for the ladies and see what results you get.i for one ignored it and got it right in my balls, and thats when it all made mad sense, hey i am the one with the balls,,, why am i not acting like one... once u are trodden all over and feel like a used up tool everything should make sense.. Go ahead try your bitch "NICE" ways.. you wont get too far...
why the fuck would you necro this.
hey nice guys...just give up, and go to easy girls, escorts, etc., we usually have enough money and things. it's the balance of life; good girls=+=jerks, nice guys=+=sluts
Hey I have a good idea, stop bumping this ancient thread.
no lol
Superficial MOTHERFUCKER!That's nothing to be proud of. How would you like that on your tombstone when you die. "HIS ONLY PURPOSE IN LIFE WAS TO BE AN ASSHOLE.GOD WILL HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT THAT TOO(IN CASE YOU DIDN'T KNOW)