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1: Are there free rehab centers (2) 2: is this place better than 4chan (14) 3: my daddy only talks about politics (31) 4: anarchy (12) 5: [HelpMe] My crush isn’t responding to my texts or emails! (10) 6: I want to fuck, but all of you are too far, also I need to find a job first (4) 7: death is the only hope (68) 8: Unemployment (5) 9: NEET/Hikikomori Thread (36) 10: How old were you when your mom stopped bathing you? (12) 11: I love men, as a man (40) 12: japanese boyfriend (114) 13: When I was a teenager, I molested someone... (47) 14: Illegal discord server (4) 15: [Romance]Haikus for the ones you love[Haikus] (15) 16: [Depression] Poor continuation (5) 17: Cannot feel love for more than a few weeks (8) 18: [Advice] How to cope with the feeling of missing out on love? (17) 19: Is 24 too late to change my hikkikomori ways and go back to college? (10) 20: Watch it (4) 21: Accidentally gave myself an ear fetish (4) 22: no one cares (7) 23: The gamer girl and I. (4) 24: Suffering from dirty strong supersonic attacks (7) 25: Am I very specific? (3) 26: My love life ls like a dating sim gone horribly awry. (19) 27: bored thread (5) 28: how do you make your business profittable? (7) 29: :( (5) 30: how to give a blowjob with braces? (138) 31: Introvertism and love (10) 32: I can't believe my mom stooped so low... (77) 33: I've been waiting.... (791) 34: I have a plan to stop being a NEET (20) 35: Here comes the jet cocks!! (14) 36: acne medication (19) 37: On pubic hair. (23) 38: How Do I find a flesh and blood woman With a Fart Fetish (6) 39: Not my Solid Snake anymore. (15) 40: random sex question (38)

Are there free rehab centers (2)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-08-05 21:37 ID:RGWYL786

After 14 or more years of alcohol abuse I have finally realized how grave this situation is and I need to quit.
The thing about quitting alcohol though is that after a day or two sober I break out into horrible panic attacks, panic attacks so severe I feel like I'm dying.
Yesterday I took a CBD edible and although this is an illegal state and this should only contain 0.3% delta 9 it got me extremely high, or I was having a terrible panic attack either way I started drinking some booze and the fear went away ... I'm drinking right now as well.

Kids don't do drugs.
Stay the fuck away from alcohol, even if you don't think you'll become addicted.
Watch videos on youtube of alcoholic people living miserably or having severe withdrawal symptoms, that is the true face of alcohol not the jewish lie of people having fun partying or socializing.

ANyways I need to check myself into a rehab center because I think while I'm getting off alcohol I should have my health monitored and be giving anxiety medication.
Are there free places like that?

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2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-08-19 18:43 ID:RGWYL786

I have been drinking every single day since I made this thread
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is this place better than 4chan (14)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-06-28 10:42 ID:XDJaLNM2

it better be

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-06-28 11:24 ID:FYGoDvTU

i just wanna throw uppppp everyone is top tier disgusting

do u actually know heaven? maybe you will just be completely disgustingg

also who made the first kill
oh wait.

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-06-28 11:27 ID:FYGoDvTU

its not like your data is always reliable too

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-06-28 11:43 ID:FYGoDvTU

all these sunday stories are just pain in the arse. it didnt help me today nor does it get me away from anything troublesome.

trapped me between this...lame "good and evil"

might as well die and unexist.


im not too smart.
everyone smart always trample me. the lord did. the father too. and everything else.

i hope they feel whst i feel

but nope

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8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-06-28 12:08 ID:FYGoDvTU

well. if it doesnt work, we try things dont we.

9 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-07-01 09:33 ID:Heaven

holy shit dude
take your meds

10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-09-03 02:02 ID:Heaven

yeah this smells

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:25 ID:J28yq09d

anything is better than 4chan

12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-26 02:43 ID:H2oIj7Hv

nigger jew
nigger jew
nigger jew
nigger jew

13 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-26 21:35 ID:EeTpCaDH

Not by much.

14 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-08-17 17:57 ID:8KwWf1qQ

Infinitely better, but also slow as balls.

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my daddy only talks about politics (31)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2020-11-07 19:04 ID:wobPZjHm

he literally only talks about it
everything got worse in 2018, before he had a healthy interest and i discussed some things with him, but now it is unbearable
he watches five fucking different news channels, when wakes up he spends two hours listening to news on the radio

since i do not pay any attention to him now he is talking to himself, screaming alone, arguing with the tv while mommy pretends to care about his fucking opinions
with this shitty pandemic it got 100 times worse.

i can not stand hearing his voice anymore, talking loudly—fighting with politicians on tv
i have to listen to music or watch something or i end up getting nervous

any of these days i am going to end up beating him
why the hell does everyone just talk about politics now?

22 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-10-23 00:24 ID:Heaven


>sucking in propaganda 24/7 is a hobby

absolute state

23 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-11-08 07:21 ID:/PiCyQWT

The worst is when they think they're special and so above everyone else for doing the same shit everyone else does

>Oh you're not into politics? What are you, a dumb normalfag?

24 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-11-08 17:07 ID:zmzkBBn/

Based fence sitter.

25 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-21 05:31 ID:PTlbdGGd


26 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-21 05:49 ID:zmzkBBn/

I keep squinting at that post and the only thing I can get out of it is that he meant "guardian." Still kind of weird phrasing in-context, however, so I'm open to other suggestions...

v: suxitch

27 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-25 07:38 ID:9aZHDb+c

28 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-26 23:55 ID:g/GEpT5k

I wish I could go back to the days when "economy" was just a big word adults liked to use on tv.

29 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-01-16 14:21 ID:Heaven

test post

30 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:25 ID:eZVtWP7N

when you say "my daddy" do you mean like an actual parent or is it like a kinky daddy who you enjoy letting dominate you and do any degrading thing he asks without question because you want him to tell you he's proud of you as you choke on his cock?

31 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 22:49 ID:zaETFzzX

Letting CNN dictate your emotions isn't a hobby, it's just retarded.

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anarchy (12)

1 Name: anonymous : 2007-05-11 19:33 ID:sKIlOMVE

I'm just an anarchist and....forgot the question...I'm just going to keep the thread up just in case...

3 Name: Anonymous : 2007-05-12 20:06 ID:Heaven

I like capitalism

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5 Name: Anonymous : 2020-07-16 09:54 ID:mTJc0hPw

anarchism is heinously anus

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-03-31 04:12 ID:rydpHIzK

Yeah, How do you expect your NAP/Peace to last without some kind of army? People are stupid, and even a small group can cause a lot of disruption if riled up enough. Also, if you're ancom, do you really expect a command economy to be able to predict the needs of billions of people, after seeing how resources in the USSR turned out? Give the workers democratic control over the means of production if you wish, I'm rooting for ya, but without a market and just enough government to keep things in check but not suffocate that socialist market you're pretty donezo.

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-03-31 21:47 ID:NR3Gv+wW

I'm waiting for automation to turn everyone into a NEET.

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-04-06 05:40 ID:nblHmN1D

I'm waiting for automation to exterminate the NEETs.

9 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-04-09 00:49 ID:JqdUgqe/

Well when work is abolished the NEET label is going to stop making sense.

10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-04-28 23:12 ID:XCoP36rG

we all know you love anal
nothing fucking new

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-04-28 23:32 ID:XCoP36rG

litle brain
how i wonder
what your brain
after brain
love the brain
like a diamond
in the brain

yor beautiful like a dimaond in da brain
shine like brain
like brain shiner
shine like brain o

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12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:23 ID:0nLXaud0

I like how you were autistic enough to have prepared insults for both possibilities that OP was either ancap or ancom because you didn't know which he was

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[HelpMe] My crush isn’t responding to my texts or emails! (10)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 06:50 ID:s04kBFCm This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

So, there’s this girl I go to school with, let’s call her Rachel. We exchanged numbers and emails for a school project, and still occasionally message each other. But recently, she hasn’t been responding to my emails or texts!
Do you think Rachel is okay? Should I call her?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 10:01 ID:omcs5aq2

dicks out for Harambe

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-22 16:52 ID:s04kBFCm

Be serious, please!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-10-23 00:55 ID:Heaven

Threaten to kill her family until she responds.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-10-12 09:41 ID:wKjvdkm9

Threaten to kill another gorilla until she responds.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-02-21 04:42 ID:B3eg3Bqv

Incidentally mine has the same name, and she had blocked me, since all she was doing was leading me on, until I was sick of it and texted her about it. These days we're on okay terms and still I try to charm her in hopes of winning her heart. She still hasn't unblocked me; she must think she has me wrapped around her finger. It's true.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 04:34 ID:E45hy73G

Stop being such a fucking loser and get some balls, man.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 17:15 ID:eGYTWqcK

Rape her you faggot
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9 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-03-31 04:14 ID:m3HI43aX

One better than >>8, find out who she actually wants and fuck them instead. This only really has a chance of success if you're bisexual or a really spiteful fucker(pun intended).

10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:21 ID:VD4EyPI5

She doesn't like you bro. Move on. She sounds like a bitch anyway, you'd only be unhappy if you had to deal with her bullshit as a boyfriend.

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I want to fuck, but all of you are too far, also I need to find a job first (4)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-02-18 20:06 ID:nKzTV/km

Pretty sure girls can get away with never working quite often, life sure isn't fair.

I need to whine on social networks instead of dead forums, there are usually city local groups around. Never visited those though.

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-02-19 15:23 ID:Heaven

>girls can get away with never working

The (at least mildly) good-looking ones, sure. Have you considered starting an onlyfans?

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-02-19 15:50 ID:Heaven

ossan's belly flashes and headpatting services, for 49.99, call today!

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:19 ID:TvcAHfAw

Either get welfare, or find a woman who wants to work while you stay home and take care of her house and pets and kids for her. Basically the opposite of the usual gender roles. But some girls are into that and would rather have a career than stay at home cooking and cleaning alone every day.
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death is the only hope (68)

1 Name: warez otoko : 2007-03-21 11:32 ID:KJnzZezY

I can't take it anymore. I'm so alone, I have no friends, girls don't even look at me. Everybody is having fun, they are full of love, all except me.
I'm a complete failure, 10 years of isolation, I barely finished high school, dropped out of university, and found a stoopid job anyone could do.
There's no way out, I have no idea how people become friends with each other, how they find love. Oh wait, once in 26 years I actually found that.. once in 26.. that means I have to wait another 26 to stumble on a person who likes me, and I'll be old already..
I tried to tell them.. I told them I was alone.. but no one understands.. they think it's some stoopid temporary loneliness.. they are used to have all they want, to find new friends and lovers the same way you download new games from the internet... how could they understand what it means to have no friends, no company, no woman around for the most part of ur life, and not knowing how to find them.
Everybody has a family, friends, a girl, everybody is loved... but me, and I don't know how to get out of this... once you lose all social connections, it's done. It isn't necessary to be a hikki, it just happens, you lose all childhood friends, and zzap you're alone for life.
What I have done to deserve this.

59 Name: Anonymous : 2018-10-05 21:22 ID:nAqwikSB

lmao this thread was made in 2007

I wonder how old the OP is now, are you still alive?

I'm 27 myself and have been alone my whole life and a hikikomori since 12.
What you gotta do OP is get over that feeling and learn to find happiness in solitary life.
You'll realize that it's better to be "alone" that constantly around others.
You don't need others for happiness, just find things in life that bring you happiness and joy.

60 Name: Anonymous : 2019-01-21 04:49 ID:Heaven

I really just browsed here out of curiosity. I actually might have read this very thread when I was in high school, and forgot about it because it's uncomfortable to hear about people feeling they should just give up on life. These days I can understand how OP is feeling, getting older and feeling like you're just wasting away your life is tough, and feeling like you could be having a more fulfilling social life. I don't get so choked up over a lack of a social life, too much, I have plenty of friends online. It doesn't bother me too much I don't have any friends irl, except one I hadn't hung out in person with in over a year. Crippling social anxiety is a bitch, though. Being so terrified in public that it's exhausting everytime is no fun.
I'm a transwoman and have been struggling hard through my adult life. Only the past 3 years I've been full time. I was laid off work for that and it's hard for me to get myself back on my feet, because I've always dealt with anxiety, worried people just see me as a timid piece of garbage, and now worried they see me as a freak. Deep down I know I'm not a bad looking person and I'm good at socializing casually, at least once I'm comfortable with someone. Even though I know this, it's hard for me to keep myself convinced. I'm only going to cause myself more regret in the future, nothing should be stopping me from progress.
It's really never too late to realize these toxic mindsets are nothing but toxic, and they do nothing but bog you down from at least being proud of the hobbies and so on you do enjoy, even if your life isn't exactly ideal. You don't need to have a great job, be a social butterfly, or fit the ideal beauty standards! Most people I become friends with online don't fit into any of those, but they are still great people I enjoy the company of, with their own unique personalities/experiences. You should want to improve yourself and your life, but don't get bogged down by what you don't have yet, or for not meeting your goals sooner! It's hard to stay positive in this world, and you never really be able to always stay positive. All any of us can do is try, and no one is truly alone on this.

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61 Name: Anonymous : 2019-02-06 18:54 ID:Heaven

The idea that there are new human in the same exact position as OP was more than 10 years ago is frightening. The people themselves aren't scary, but the fact that this situation has been constantly recurring for people all over the world without any headway is what is frightening.

And yeah, I think the advise regarding meet-ups with people for like-minded hobbies is probably the best advise. That way, you know that everyone in your vicinity is there for the same reason you are. For example, if you get into WarHammer 40K, once you get your army together you can find a table and wait for someone else who is also looking for a match.

62 Name: Anonymous : 2019-06-16 10:17 ID:M2KNOX3B

OP is literally me but 10 years in the past

10 years have passed but nothing has changed for people like us there's not place for us in this world

63 Name: Anonymous : 2020-04-07 09:12 ID:85X1wMVA

You're right.

64 Name: Anonymous : 2020-04-09 08:06 ID:/zKTI9OI

I've been NEET for over 11 years. KV, no friends, no hope in this world.

65 Name: Anonymous : 2020-04-23 13:38 ID:rvMsmKgQ

even when there is no hope
still there shall be hope

even when there is no solution
still there shall be solution

get out of relative thinking and reach for the absolute

66 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-06 20:35 ID:nmQWX8OA


67 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:16 ID:Tq5zuuDS

You guys talk about wanting to die so much, and probably think about it all the time. But lets be logical here. If you really wanted to die, you could have easily killed yourself by now. But you haven't. Something is stopping you, something is making you want to live. Figure out what that is, and you'll understand yourself better.

68 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 07:31 ID:Heaven

i 795 want to die and 250 want to live and 994207583 want to live good

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Unemployment (5)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-30 09:03 ID:Heaven

Having a job sounds horrifying to me. Spending 80% of your time for the rest of your life doing something incredibly boring with barely any benefit for myself sounds like a fate worse than death. Getting paid will only serve in prolonging the boredom.

4 hour work times when? Working 4 days a week when?

Getting a job in general gets increasingly harder due to increased automation and sometimes absurd demands. People just aren't as needed as they were used to. Death from starvation soon.

Spending shitton of time studying programming in general and then never funding a job is so humiliating. Don't do programming.

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-30 10:21 ID:Heaven

If you're paid well enough, have a decent work environment and/or work with something you are interested in, it's probably pretty nice.
If you are lucky enough...

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-06-08 02:25 ID:LAWnsfGm

4 chan and 4 ch is messes up fucks

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-06-21 20:34 ID:up4C0HE1

it always comes down to luck... unfortunately.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:14 ID:9A8d3RVK

Convince the government to give you welfare instead of working. You can spend all your time doing whatever you want. It's how life is meant to be spent.

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NEET/Hikikomori Thread (36)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2020-09-12 03:22 ID:KMbhUmtI

This thread is for hikikomori and NEETs to discuss personal issues regarding the NEET lifestyle.

NEET (Not In Education Employment Or Training)

The Japanese Ministry of Health, defines hikikomori as people who refuse to leave their parents' house, do not work or go to school and isolate themselves away from society and family in a single room for a period of 6 months or more.

If you are not a NEET or hikikomori don't post in this thread.

27 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2021-12-21 06:12 ID:Heaven

>That doesn't sound so bad to me

It wasn't the first half a decade or so. The last couple years I've just been utterly rotting away chasing for something to enjoy. How long have you been a neet?

29 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-02-14 03:43 ID:Xhz0QlRU

How do you guys secure finances to continue your hiki/neet lifestyles? I write music and do gamedev as hobbies but I lack the confidence to shill myself out for money. I have no income and am too socially anxious to ever get another face-to-face customer service job. I'm turning 30 this year, my mom is getting older and is in a high risk group for COVID, which has been spreading like wildfire through her workplace. I think it's only a matter of time before she gets sick, and if she dies I think I'm fucked.

30 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-03-02 12:10 ID:KL0kGHQG



31 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-03-10 06:19 ID:Heaven

Neetbux and mom's basement.

32 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-04-27 09:17 ID:HOG1zyEE

>>29 checking in a few months later, are you guys okay?

33 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-01 09:03 ID:Heaven

I hope I get hit by a truck. Though I don't go outside and I live nowhere near a truck, so I guess maybe I hope a truck flies down from the sky and crushes me in my room.

34 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-10 18:44 ID:/+TLZA3g

Well then, I wish the opposite for you.

35 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-06-11 04:47 ID:Heaven

My mentality has improved considerably. I no longer wish to get hit by a truck and have learned to count my blessings.

36 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:13 ID:CCyhptcr

I get welfare checks of $300 per month and get to spend it all on video games while being a NEET in my parents house. I have high speed internet, heat, air conditioning, a giant room, a 50 inch TV. My mom cooks me all my meals. My dad does all the chores. Why would I want to change this?

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How old were you when your mom stopped bathing you? (12)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-04-24 01:03 ID:owZjW++0

I feel like my mom stopped bathing me at a very old age, when I should have been able to bathe myself, but she said that I don't know how to yet.

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-02 09:01 ID:Heaven

Dunno when we stopped bathing together, but I shared a bed with her when I was 12.
When did she stop bathing you? Being able to take baths with their child is a very dear thing to many parents, I understand if they struggled to let go of that.

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-02 09:02 ID:Heaven

Sorry, I meant shared bed at 10. I typo'd.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-08 04:38 ID:L4LKINRn

You don't have to lie, friend ;^)
I've fucked my mother before, like in that hentai you watch IRL.
Yep, tight pussy.

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-09 11:16 ID:Heaven

>Please, let's try to keep this board as civil and mature as possible.

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-10 14:36 ID:L0FWl9rM

Around 4-5 years old. Maybe sooner.
I shared the same bed with my mom until I was 14.
The only reason I got to sleep in a different bed is my dad moved out.

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-10 15:09 ID:IEFBVXc7


Damn you must be adopted if her pussy isn't gaping

9 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-05-11 16:22 ID:L7mZZxus

I think it was the around 6 years old or something?

10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-06-11 23:45 ID:KDdIaJAc

Reality may be stranger than fiction sometimes.

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-06 15:03 ID:E7vIwP1i


12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-07-22 04:10 ID:ndhwWyEG

My mom had always walked around the house naked after taking a shower until she started noticing me looking at her body. I wish she didn't notice.

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