I've been waiting.... (791)

1 Name: benson_2009 : 2006-03-08 06:46 ID:rBmL8F/W This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

I'm usualy just a lurker around the board, but today i have a story... recently i been posting about long distance relationship because I really like this girl that lives in japan. but i live in australia so its really hard if i want to confess to her.. well this is how it all started...

Around 2005 April, i was picked on by some people at school because of my hobby, which is movie making. I'm really like a movie otaku, i love watching movies thats why my dream is to become a film director. most of the girls i knew, i told them about my hobby and they would all ne like "isn't that like really immature??" and later on wont ever talk to me.. it was around November when i was on a japanese pen pal website where i met the japanese girl, her name was Aya. we started emailing each other talking about school and life style ect. then i asked her if she used skype and she said she uses it so we added each other. we started talking in skype, (to those who doesn't know its like msn but you use microphone to talk). for the first time, i told her i'm into film making... she unlike the other girls was actualy intrested in it.. she asked me when can i show her my movie.

we talked almost everyday, mostly for 2 hours and we can always talk about anything like movies, anime, school, music ect.. then one night... we talked for 6 hours! i only had 2 hour sleep because i had to wake up for tennis lessons >"< we got more close after that. for christmas i bought her a bracelet and air mailed it to her, she liked it alot. one day i got her email but was really surprised... usualy at the end of the email she would just write "from Aya" but this time she wrote "Love from Aya". i had this feeling when i saw it. after that, i didn't hear from her for 2 weeks and then one night i got her email asking when can i talk to her... but after that... I've waited for a month and stil counting on... I emailed her before saying i have something to tell her because i planned to confess to her next time we talk.. but now i dont think i can do it because i reckon its highly likely i may get rejected since we are so far away _| ̄|○" the feeling with this girl is different from all the other girls i liked. should i confess or not??

401 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-26 14:08 ID:Heaven

No..just no. There's too much risk and dignity involved by chasing her down despite knowing she likes someone else. Some girls may like that kind of thing and fall for your straightforward approach, but for others, it could prove to be quite the dilemma and you will be stuck in the sympathy/rebound trap. In this trap your feelings be toyed with to no end...not a pretty sight.

@Benson: >>400 (get) is quite right. Lyss is the undecided, airheaded type girl. That being said, it would be meaningless to start a relationship with her unless you're into all that mushy, shallow, doting-on-the-girl stuff. You will never know what she truly thinks of you unless you ask her out- which is a bad idea considering she likes someone else. Being an asian girl myself, I know that even then, we will tend to be quite coy about our feelings.

Focus your attention on manda.

402 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-26 15:02 ID:7ZGM0GIB

greatt on my birthday i have to find out the guy that lyss likes..

btw >>396 you remind me of the guys who use to pick on me, i remember they said the exact same words. "your such a looser! you have no chance!" but i guess it turned out the opposite since they are so scared of me now... (long story) anyway >>396 if you got nothing good or nice to say then dont bother saying anything.

>>400 i think what you said is very true, shes 2 years younger then me so... yeah. the guys name is tony and i asked lyss what his last name was... she got all worried and started asking me "...? what u wanna know? u wanna stalk hin LOL!" so i just said "just wondering if i know him". ok i'm in the mood of fustration cos this guy looks REALLY palthetic and a 12 year old kid! and his got a xanga site and talks about lyss as well... like "omg sweet talk isn't working with lyss.. HELP!?" WTF is that?!! i cant beleive lyss likes this guy!! its really ANNOYING!!

i REALLY REALY want to just move on and focus on manda instead... cos this guy has gone out with LYSS and prob more then once from what i have read...okk i gotta calm down at the moment.

>>398 i understand what you mean, i should be going till the end but the thing is.. i dont want to waste time on lyss if shes likes this TONY guy soo much, i have this problem of giving up easily which i think is happening right now. but to be honest, i compared lyss and manda, personaly i like manda more cos shes nicer, same intrest and i can tell her about anything and she wont be freaked about it, she actuali helps out. i mean with lyss right, she'll prob think i'm EMO again and then go with the silence thing "...." so i really want to just move on. what do you guys think?

403 Name: Mireille guy !2dC8hbcvNA : 2006-09-26 20:10 ID:Heaven

It's great that you're starting to think on your own. You have a much clearer image of yourself, (and her); and it's good that you feel that way, and it means you have the guts to move along.
Since you've expanded a little more on the situation, it makes sense. It's too bad she's going for the other kid and she can't see you; she'll regret it later. As for you, now that you know more about each personality, either way you decide, you'll do fine... as long as you keep practicing those moves. Good luck B.

404 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-27 11:29 ID:vjlrz9Kp

just like i've been saying all along.. she wants to be surrounded by people who dote endlessly on her all the time as >>401 said. hell, i'll bet if you wore black socks to school, she would call you emo. i'm glad you've finally come to that realisation. a relationship with her would only last a month at most. she doesn't have the capacity or attention span to have a serious relationship.
i could tell her character from your chat logs straight away. although i guess it helps that i'm a girl myself. seriously, there is something wrong with her, not you.

405 Name: Mireille guy !2dC8hbcvNA : 2006-09-27 13:44 ID:Heaven

Finally, a female post that we can trust!

406 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-27 15:41 ID:7ZGM0GIB

it seems that manda also has someone she likes, i kinda dont wanna go tomorow to meet lyss for some reason. the thing with me and manda is, she knows almost everything about me, we talk alot and mostly about our life. i told her about last year how i use to get bullied around at school and that i tried to kill my self, i was surprised to find her not freaked out about it and rather said "must be painful last year for you" and i told her how i came back and started standing up for my self and helping others. she says "i think its great that your helping people with the same situation, make a difference!"

at the moment i really dont know what i am thinking, its either give up everything or work harder to get manda. latley when i talk to manda she says "take care...", but i doubt it means anything. well i will see what happens tomorow because i reckon i'm in the stage of confusing my self.

o btw it turned out that TONY guy lyss like is a player, and she likes him cos his REALLY REALLY good at clarinet... PFT

407 Name: TokyoJapan22 : 2006-09-27 15:59 ID:uktxeWsJ

So.........who do you really love? Yuo should check up on Aya!

408 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-27 18:23 ID:UXOt+hhz

Tokyo, Aya is long gone.

409 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-28 01:06 ID:Heaven

>>408 very true

i beleive this thread is coming to an end, lyss just messaged me saying she wont make it so i wont need to do now... havn't seem manda online for a while either, this really is coming to an end xD

410 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-28 06:26 ID:PLrAtGd5

>>and his got a xanga site and talks about lyss as well... like "omg sweet talk isn't working with lyss.. HELP!?" WTF is that?!! i cant beleive lyss likes this guy!! its really ANNOYING!!

Delicious irony.

411 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-28 06:30 ID:Heaven

>>and she likes him cos his REALLY REALLY good at clarinet

"Duh" is the proper phrase to use here, I think. If you want to sit on Lyss' couch naked while she listens to you improvise for hours, you're going to need a musical instrument. It is a sure-fire way into the female heart. You know, savage breasts and all.

412 Name: Mirielle Guy : 2006-09-28 17:57 ID:Heaven

Disregard that, I suck cocks.

413 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-29 01:46 ID:7ZGM0GIB

hmm i was talking to manda last night about tony, she kept saying sorry taht she forgot my bday lol! even just then i got a message from her apologizing about forgetting it xD

her birthday is coming up so i have decided to play the piano for her on that day, too bad i cant play it in front of her so i can only do it over the phone ~~"

414 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-29 02:12 ID:7ZGM0GIB

ok... lyss just suddenly flooded me with "sorry" in japanese on msn, should i just ignore or reply?! my friend told me not to say anything lol

415 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-29 03:20 ID:UXOt+hhz

dont play her the song. she forgot your birthday why should you do something special for her. she is sending text messages saying sorry, she still didnt give you anything. If she makes it up then go ahead, if not don't waste your time.

416 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-29 14:53 ID:Heaven


Those girls are just playing with you. You said everything about yourself. They are kind of looking down at you. You said about your past and they down on you. Lyss keeps pestering you with emo, and i think she has an attitute who don't look up to those who are emo. You shouldn't say so much about your past. now they know you are vulnerable and insecure, which makes them think of you as a low person. They may also be like that, but they want guys who aren't. Girls/women want reliable and confident guys/men because they have to, it what makes girl/women, girl/women. Girl/women always have an inferior complex to men, so they instinctually have to rely on them and take their commands. Girls/women are emo, but they want guys to not be emo, and want guys to lead them out of their emo self who is afraid and not confidence of progressing.

417 Name: 映画男 : 2006-09-30 07:00 ID:7ZGM0GIB

well i've been texting messages with manda for the whole day today, shes just asking me wat happened with lyss and stuff.
yesterday with lyss i just said "hhhmmm, dw about it" and left cos i had to go to a friends house. well i'm stil going good with manda, i'll still have another go with manda, hope playing the piano can get me further lol xD

418 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-09-30 12:33 ID:sKK2qOHP

tell lyss to piss off...eloquently of course.
seriously, she'll only play with you if she's bored.

419 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-01 04:01 ID:7ZGM0GIB

whats intresting was last night i found out lyss rejected tony and she flooded me with "eewws" about tony as well... what the hell is going on!! i'm going to get things fixed today.

manda is epexting me to call her or something, cos she said "talk to u tomorow yea?" hmm i better go pratice the piano otherwise i might stuff up.

420 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-01 13:32 ID:7ZGM0GIB

i decided to sms manda at 12 tonight and say "HAPPY BIRTHDAY", then give her the surprise by playing the piano this afternoon! you guys think that would be good?

421 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-01 13:42 ID:Heaven

interpretation: she is bored of tony. the fawning all over her act only kept her interested for a little while. now she wants an older guy to play with.

just ignore her. "emos" don't solve other people's love problems. she'll want you more, but just remind yourself, you won't get anywhere with girls like her.

gluck with manda.

422 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-01 14:03 ID:7ZGM0GIB

>>421 yeah i understand, i'm just staying normal friends with her. i'm about to send the message!

423 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-02 08:52 ID:7ZGM0GIB

well i'm going to call manda and play the piano for her soon, but i'm not sure what to say!! should i just say "hey manda happy birthday, since its your birthday i decided to play the piano for you" hmm i'm really not sure what to say, little help here please!

424 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-03 12:36 ID:7ZGM0GIB

last night, i played the piano for manda and she loved it!!! she kept saying thank you and how sweet it was, even posted it on her xanga xD!! we talked for a while after that, seems to be going good!!

425 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-08 10:10 ID:Heaven

looks good, keep it up

426 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-09 08:20 ID:Heaven

so whats going on now? any news with manda benson?

427 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-09 12:52 ID:ihwbIUw/

well we're only emailing each other and stuff, thats about it.

428 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-10 13:30 ID:ihwbIUw/

manda's been telling me really personal stuff like how much her dad makes.... does tht mean anything? we seem to be getting closer

429 Name: Doku Otoko : 2006-10-16 08:50 ID:Qf4g5mZu

Just make sure you don't forget to make a move and become just "a friend"!

430 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-17 05:22 ID:Heaven


I know it is personal... kind of wondering... how much does her dad make?

431 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-19 11:35 ID:K56XSl9J

latley manda has been starting convo's with me. yesterday when talking to her she suddenly said this..
M: r u ok?
B: eh wat do u mean?
M: oh... well u just sound very distant thats all

i was talking pretty normally and yea something did happen yesterday but somehow she knows theres something wrong with me. btw 3 days ago, my family friend told me she had a bf and yesterday told me again she doesn't. she also said "even if she doesn't have a bf, she wont like u anyway" and i asked if lyss likes anyone and she said "atm no... but if ur going for her dont.. cos she wont like u anyway" and yesterday when she told me manda has no bf she said "but she wont like u anyway". i was REALLY pissed and we had this massive fight, tomorow i'm going badminton with lyss and the family friend, i wont even talk to her there. i realized these days that i dont like manda but i'm really in love with her now... god i went pretty crazy knowing she has a bf 3 days ago... i'm just really pissed with my family friend for putting me down.

432 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-19 20:26 ID:Heaven

too slow

433 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-22 02:31 ID:K56XSl9J

my friend in mandas school suggested to write a love letter to her or sing a song on the piano. i reckon thats a bit early to do it but she says shes gonna help me with it. i mite see manda next week

434 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-25 12:41 ID:K56XSl9J

i am preparing my self to confess to manda very soon, we're even more closer then ever. i might confess to her next month and i'm writing the love letter at the moment... gosh i hope it works this time. i almost confess to her in a email today... god

435 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-26 10:04 ID:CiE81QfW


436 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-27 07:13 ID:xQOKiJKo

I notice that you still haven't confirmed what either girl's favorite pokemon is.

437 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-27 07:40 ID:Heaven

>>436 cuts right to the important bits

438 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-27 14:23 ID:mOjZHxay

god if her fav pokemon is such a big deal i will ask her next time lol
manda messaged me the other day saying "if you ever felt like that again, i'm always here to help =D" reason for that is cos i had a fight with my parents since they crack at me easily and got a bit depressed. i really want to confess now but i dont think the time is right. i might see her next week, hopefully

439 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-10-27 17:27 ID:1ptlw5zs

Did you kiss her yet? If you didn't kiss her yet, that could be your confession.

440 Name: Mireille guy : 2006-10-27 17:28 ID:1ptlw5zs

Tell her that you find something about her sexy, and make her close her eyes. Then kiss.

441 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-28 00:00 ID:mOjZHxay

that will be a while before i kiss her lol, depends if i can ever meet her again XD

442 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-28 03:05 ID:UXOt+hhz

benson forget the love letter and go for the goal. next time you meet her give her a kiss and then see what happens.

443 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 01:19 ID:CiE81QfW

Print out and memorise:

You: Hey Manda.
Manda: Oh hey, Benson.
You: Pause Uh can we talk? I have something to tell you. Take her hand and lead her to a bench
Manda: Umm, ok..sure. Let go of her hand
You: Dramatic pause. I just wanted to tell you how much you mean to me. You've always been there for me, and I really feel lucky to have met you. My friend told me that you just thought of me as a friend, and I respect that, but lately I've started to like you alot. Look into her eyes You make me feel happy when I'm around you and I want to be more than friends with you. You're really special to me. I just wanted to let you know.
Manda: Flustered
You: Kiss her hand

Walk into the sunset

444 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 01:59 ID:Heaven

Wake up from dream and live in the real world

445 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 04:19 ID:mfYTdAXE

Live rest of life in a deep, inescapable depression

446 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-29 05:48 ID:4dBER5no

>>443 i will try that next week we meet, we're going to a beach so it will be better if i can do it during the sun set!

if shes crowded with people, i go up to her and say "hey manda, uh can we talk? i have something to tell you..." right?

god i'm already nervous right now ~~"

447 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 05:58 ID:Heaven

i know it is a big undertaking but dont follow >>443 plan. life is unscripted, so you will have to feel your way through the situation. just relax and dont get too worked up over this. you are a resisent guy so if this doesnt work, like always, will walk away wiser, taller and ready for what comes next.

448 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 06:46 ID:68dNsi6c

>>446 lol, you're actually taking >>443's plan?

449 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-29 07:55 ID:4dBER5no

is >>443 plan not good?? hmm i have decided to confess when i see her and we are going to the beach. i was thinking either give her the letter or just say it.

450 Name: 443 : 2006-10-29 09:18 ID:CiE81QfW

okay, I guess i got a little carried away. but seriously, what is wrong with starting off with "hey manda, uh can we talk? i have something to tell you..."? if you haven't noticed, benson's way of approaching women is rather scripted itself. (no disrespect to benson), but if he's gonna get anywhere with this girl, he sounds like he needs to follow a couple of lines to get his confidence up. yes, confess to her at the beach. i'm excited for you buddy. just make sure the palm cards aren't too big to see. jk.

451 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-29 18:19 ID:Heaven

nothing wrong with that part. it is just the >Print out and memorise:

452 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-30 11:49 ID:4dBER5no

>>450 lol its not disrespectful, it is true anyway xD well i like ur plan anyway so i mite stick to that on that day.

i'm thinking of doing it before we leave cos thats around sun set time and hopefully no one is around.

my family friend who is a friend of manda said i might have a chance after she saw my messages with her

453 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-10-31 00:11 ID:Heaven

that is the MOST IMPORTANT part. she can tell that you're prepared and well organised. something that every girl looks for in a man.

454 Name: 映画男 : 2006-10-31 12:46 ID:4dBER5no

i'm getting nervous every day! the day is getting closer when i confess to manda! god...

455 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-01 14:35 ID:/gyKZVEy

Have someone punch your arm repeatedly, so that the pain in your arm will distract you from the pain in your heart. Alternatively it could make you numb, and therefore insensitive to any type of rejection.

Hahaaaa. Only kidding. You can do it BEnsonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.

456 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-02 15:24 ID:JF1GsEWU

If you fall, i'm here to catch you.

Sincerely yours,
Secret Admirer

457 Name: MG : 2006-11-02 23:49 ID:1ptlw5zs

Benson, you're taking too long.

458 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-03 12:13 ID:wfEMQKM0

I agree. 458 posts too long.

459 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-03 12:22 ID:4dBER5no

okk i have a problem... well i dont know if its a problem...

well on my forums, her friends at school was talking about something she sms me cos she cant go on monday and she sms me saying "hey u should come to our school celebration evening or smthing!" and manda on the forums suddenly said "Benson, do you like me?"

i am so speechless right now, my family friend who is her friend at school asked her what she thinks, apparently she doesn't want anyone to know what she thinks, everyone says i have a chance now and should confess as soon as possible, shes talking a bit shyish today but stil talking normally. what do you think is going on!? btw her school evening is on the 20th of november and my exams are on the 23rd.. godd this is bad or maybe good lol

460 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-03 13:21 ID:4dBER5no

okk i was just talking to manda and she just told me REALLY REALLY personal stuff about her family... i think i have a chance right now! i might confess to her in 2 weeks time, go to her school and wait at the front gates for her and confess to her when i see her! my god is this really going to work out?! if it does... i will be a VERY happy man!

461 Name: MG : 2006-11-03 18:10 ID:1ptlw5zs

I don't know why you decided two weeks but, you're the man. Plan your timing well and best of wishes to you!

462 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-03 22:30 ID:Heaven

>i think i have a chance right now!
>i might confess to her in 2 weeks time

you're doing it wrong.

463 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-04 03:43 ID:Heaven

seriously, what is wrong with you benson? you let the best opportunity slip because you plan too fucking much. ALL THE SIGNS ARE RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE. I THOUGHT YOU FREAKING CONFESSED TO HER AT THE BEACH????? WHY ARE YOU PUTTING IT OFF? DO YOU WANT TO SCREW THIS UP??

freaking hell. everytime i come on 4-ch, your last post is always "omg, i MIGHT confess to her this time!" or "i MIGHT confess to her NEXT CHRISTMAS." seriously dood, i was rooting for you after you dumped lis. i thought you had developed some initiative and realised what girls were like, but now i'm not so sure.

464 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-04 03:47 ID:Heaven

PS. even if you planned for your confession to be the perfect time (being at her ball and all), chances are it will not turn out like you wanted it too. the best time to confess is usually that unplanned fleeting instance. ie: when she said "Benson do you like me?" you should have launched your attack from there. in person, preferably.

465 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-04 04:14 ID:4dBER5no

>>463 i havn't confessed at the beach cos thats wat was suppose to happen on monday and shes not going on monday. reason why i dont wan to do it on the forums or msn is cos i've done that in the past and its the worst place to confess on the net, the only time i can see her is in 2 weeks or a week. unless i should do it on the phone but that doesn't seem to be a good idea, i will confess to her if she does ask me on msn, i'll prob say "would u rather me telling u in person?" and some how arrange to meet. or just call her if she asks me and tell her on the phone.

466 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-05 20:17 ID:VXuVUipj

If you can't meet her right now, thats unavoidable. Instead, call her and up and tell her, "I have something really important I want to tell you when you get back. How about meeting somewhere?"

Good luck man,
a girlfriendless comrade

467 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-06 12:43 ID:4dBER5no

aahh thanks thats a good idea!! i'll be doing it next monday!

468 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-10 04:06 ID:LDyYZqe/

Does this girl like guns, benson?

469 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-10 20:00 ID:Heaven

steyr aug perhaps?

470 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-11 00:30 ID:5iE89ybu

hmm amanda just told me she likes someone else...so i guess...its another rejection....i think i will disappear for a while

471 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-11 00:37 ID:Heaven

how about you get back on your feet and find some other girl. remember courting is a numbers game.

472 Name: MG : 2006-11-11 01:22 ID:1ptlw5zs

Such a high school drama. You take too long. Your youth will pass by quickly.

473 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-11 01:39 ID:5iE89ybu

well to be honest i aint that down, just feel really weird thats about it. i guess i'll just move on again XD

like they say, theres plenty of fish out there

474 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-11 02:22 ID:mzMedTU0

Sometimes you have to whack the fish over the head with an oar and drag it into the boat, though. Get what I'm saying?

475 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-11 07:51 ID:Heaven

yueah. if you give up over something as little as this, it just proves that you really didn't LOVE HER LIKE YOU CLAIMED YOU DID. wasn't this the girl who drove you crazy??? the one who you wanted to play piano for??? THE ONE THAT YOU FREAKING WAS GONNA CONFESS TO?? this wasn't a mere crush dude. you don't just "move on again" in this situation. you have to FIGHT FOR HER and maker her realise she WANTS YOU.

476 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-11 14:08 ID:gtyRyU6/

hmm its a bit hard from some infomation i got today...

yea i was crazy about her tilll today... apparently a friend of mine told manda about how i am going to confess to her on monday and she doesn't seem to be the type of person that will tell people about it so i find it really weird. my friend at school is suspicouse that she mite like me cos i'm very close to her and recently she just got over a guy she liked before and she suddenly called me today cos she heard i was away on msn and was turning emo or something. she has NEVER called me before so i called back today and she didn't answer but 2 mins later she messaged me twice by accideny saying "omg sorry i was in shower -_-", i talked to her for a while and she thought i was emo and got worried about it so i told her i was ok, then she said she will talk to me tomorow. so i rather find it weird that this girl told manda about monday... i dont think she likes me becasue i know that when she likes someone shes to shy to talk to them, really confused though cos we talk almost everyday.

so wat should i do about manda? i got rejected and i wanna know why my friend told manda about monday's confession.... it just doesn't make sense, and wat happen if this friend likes me?? should i go for the friend or stil go for manda?

477 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-11 16:08 ID:pjlj9rgw

To quote >>432

too slow

478 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-11 20:40 ID:QNn3cLpE

Oh, you kids and your "emo."

479 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-12 01:19 ID:Heaven

benson you should know that girl can never keep a secret. loose lips sink ships. next time dont tell a girl any thing important because females cannot be trusted.

480 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-12 13:46 ID:gtyRyU6/

thats so true...well manda emailed me today saying how nothing is going to change between us and that she will still be there for me if i need help and care for my well being... god shes such a nice person...

oh btw i forgot to say that the friend is Lyss.....today lyss made me promise i wont disappear and stop being by my self. hmm i must admit i'm not handling very well in this situation atm.... i'm seeing lyss tomorow cos shes giving me a CD. with manda i'm not sure what to do now but maybe remaining close friends like now will be good... i'm pretty sure lyss doesn't like me cos shes getting over this guy atm...but i'm not sure.. god i'm pretty hopeless at this.

481 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-12 16:25 ID:pjlj9rgw


482 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-13 12:06 ID:JF1GsEWU


I second you.

483 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-13 13:52 ID:gtyRyU6/

lol i met lyss today at her school with my two friends and one of her friends. apparently my friend confessed to lyss's friend last week and she accepted it today.. god so lucky

i gave lyss this keychain and she really liked it, its a thank u gift for the last two days cos she helped me a bit with the rejection from manda. me and my friend were saying how out situation really is like a high school drama lol.

i got a email from manda yesterday, she said "nothing is going to change... i'm stil always gonna be there for u whenver u need help and care for ur well being, thats wat friends are for right?", i must admit i was really touched from the email. well its all good to me really, i stay the same with manda and my chances are stil there. i kind of found out why she rejected me..... apparently someone made this stupid story of me going for my family friend in the past and found manda more cuter and smart so rejected my family friend ect... i bet that really embarrased manda so she got annoyed.

btw apparnetly lyss really liked the gift and kept saying thank u and how cute it is. even told my family friend about it (my family friend goes to the same school as lyss and manda lol)

484 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-13 16:58 ID:pjlj9rgw



485 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-13 18:19 ID:nwWsHSPs

Indeed, this case is over.

write down the details of keychains on your blog, not here. we'd like to see just a tad more important matters than that.

What's next? are you going to tell us how you accidentally took 6 pieces of toilet paper instead of the usual five, because you were distracted thinking of a random girl who you saw in the bus?

then again i could reason to just not read this thread anymore, or rather not to take posts by some '映画男' serious anymore

486 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-14 10:03 ID:Heaven

>well its all good to me really, i stay the same with manda and my chances are stil there.

you're right that you stay the same with manda, but wrong that your chances are still there. you're deep in the friendzone, buddy.

487 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-15 11:06 ID:jwvVihyI

>>485 sorry, i'll stop posting

>>486 prob true, stuck in the friendzone

i'll just quickly conclude that i was on the phone with lyss for 45 minutes and she called me twice today cos she thought i was depressed and she doesn't call guys. well anyway about time to end this thread since not much is happening. but just wanna say a big THANKS to all the previous anonymous whos helped me in the past.

488 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-15 14:29 ID:pjlj9rgw

If something SERIOUS happens, scream or something.

489 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-15 15:47 ID:I9fnd9Ua

Eiga otoko, If something big happends, you know where to find us :D

490 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-16 06:54 ID:ItSzUG9M


You don't have to listen to those other guys. Post whatever you like whenever you like.

491 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-16 09:00 ID:Heaven

you really haven't learnt have you. i've heard you say "my family friend told manda..." about 219408kasjfaslkfja30129 times already. she screwed up your chances with lyss AND manda. but hey, what are friends for ^_^

492 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-16 11:15 ID:jwvVihyI

>>491 very true, shes stuffed me up all the time. i guess my mouth is too big.

493 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-16 20:36 ID:UXOt+hhz

more like her mouth is too big

494 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-17 08:24 ID:Heaven

stick it in her pooper

495 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-17 09:53 ID:jwvVihyI

>>494 lol how bout just duck tape her mouth next time XD

496 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-17 13:37 ID:nwWsHSPs

you should know which alternative she likes

497 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-22 22:37 ID:lqc/QMCW

I need an update.

498 Name: 映画男 : 2006-11-25 03:02 ID:v8C6PTwp

well i saw lyss last week at badmin cos she told me to go and she seem excited knowing i was going. there was this intresting convo we had though last week...

Lyss: why dont u hit on her??! lol and then she'll get over it
Benson: zomg i'll rather jump off the window then hit on her!
Lyss: omgg!! wtf!! nooo!!!! dont jump!! if you jump i'll jump!!
Benson: what! why are you jumping cos of me?!
Lyss: i dunno, just felt like it

my friend said she really cares for me but doesn't really like me. i can only say me and lyss are really close friends but for some reason she doesn't feel like talking to me now cos she knows i'm not EMO. i really like lyss atm and i just want her to be happy even if she doesn't like me, i'll do anything to make her happy. i tried my best to make her like me but i guess i couldn't, some how i'm only seen as a FRIEND to everyone.

499 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-25 07:19 ID:J+dJ1MeM

Maybe if you stop typing/talking like an idiot things will work out better for you. Grammar karma?

500 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-25 08:04 ID:D3t+OVMc

>Lyss: omgg!! wtf!! nooo!!!! dont jump!! if you jump i'll jump!!

Yeah, she is basically quoting "Titanic."

And if she doesn't like you, then why the fuck bother. You aren't going to benefit from helping her. Be selfish and only do something only if you benefit from it. That is why everyone thinks as you as a friend because you are always nice and no one can hate a nice guy. But girls never love a nice guy.

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